What sad news, I was really hoping Derek could make it and rebuild his life.
I know people tend to give Kate a hard time (and yes, I think she could have handled some things differently) but at the same time I don't know how I'd be if I had to walk in her shoes. It's hugely stressful to be a mum with a career, children and a carer on top of that (but yes, I know she had privilege and was able to renovate her home and wasn't really working full-time as much).
Her GMB colleagues give the impression Kate is well-liked? Such stress and trauma for all concerned could account for some of this. She's never struck me as being a narcissist, even back when she was on I'm A Celebrity, nor on TV prior to Derek's illness.
What an awful situation for their children too. I wish them all the best.
And YES, those maudlin hand drawn tribute images give me the ick - maybe it's done with good intentions but that person is likely seeking or appreciating extra attention due to it. But, who knows. It doesn't really salve the grief for anyone, a drawing isn't going to make any difference. I'm sure social media would call me cruel and say 'it's their way of showing respect', but it seems slightly inappropriate and grief-thieving, to me.