Miss polar
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RIP Derek. I hope Kate and her children grieve away from the glare of the media!
I think some people here just don't like her and are ready to pick holes in anything she postsIt’s the language of the statement. The man isn’t even cold in the ground yet and she’s implying she’s ready to make deals.
Also this is Kate Garrway, a woman with a very long and very varied media career that hasn’t gone away. Her ability to financially support her children is still there. She’s not suddenly destitute.
I think some people here just don't like her and are ready to pick holes in anything she posts
The thing about Kate and the British media is she acts as though she's the first person to ever become a carer to a spouse. We dont need a book deal or whatever she has planned to carry on the woe is me act. She kept talking about how expensive it was but their combined salaries as well as being self employed meant they should have had life insurance to more than look after them when the worst happen. My aunts husband got ill and eventually died and she was left with 2 children under 10. Luckily he had the foresight to have a decent life insurance package (they werent rich just organised) that she could afford not to work for 2 years as well as keep the family homeIt’s the language of the statement. The man isn’t even cold in the ground yet and she’s implying she’s ready to make deals.
Also this is Kate Garrway, a woman with a very long and very varied media career that hasn’t gone away. Her ability to financially support her children is still there. She’s not suddenly destitute.
The late Deborah James (bowel babe) used to irritate me at times, but she really revolutionised cancer knowledge and fundraised heavily and theres no doubt in my mind she has saved many lives even if she couldnt ultimately save her own. I'm yet to see the same level of altruism from kate, and in my eyes, she's heading down the route of Captain Tom's family
I wondered if the 'more to say' was a grievance to do with Derek's care which may be aired by Kate at a future date. Maybe I'm reading too much into itI hope the 'more to say' will refer to Derek. He always seemed well liked by people in political circles and across the media, and a lot of people said what a fun- loving and kind guy he was. He also did amazingly well to get where he did coming from a working class northern background into an elitist industry such as journalism/ politics. So I hope tributes will focus on his life and him as a person and not the last few years and his illness.
Exactly this. Nothing about him as a person and a father. Nothing. I’d be gushing how wonderful my husband was etc. instead she’s letting us all know what a saint she was in those ‘long last hours’. Honestly vileI'm glad he's no longer suffering. He obviously didn't have any quality of life left. His poor kids though, I really feel for them.
I can't believe that announcement though. Not a single thing about Derek, the type of person he was, what a good father he was, the mark he left on the world. And I'm blown away that it wasn't enough to just say his family was by his side in his final days. She has to put herself above them by making sure everyone knew it was HER who was holding his hand when he died, not anyone else.
How heartbreaking to suffer so much for all those years and then not even get a fitting tribute to your life from the woman who loved you.