I will say though, all my friends who embraced grey hair look a good ten years older than they are. One has beautiful skin I would have been pleased with in my thirties.
Yes, I realise that this is misogynistic cultural and societal pressure and it would be good to change it, but there you are.
So I’ll keep dying my hair and Kat can do the same. Although lop an inch off and use a hair mask once a week and start to care for it and it’ll look much better.
The colour doesn’t suit her skin tone- hence the orange bronzer, but fine.
She has changed in the last year, and I’m guessing she’s finding out what single in your fifties looks like. Hopefully, she calms down and starts taking care of herself and this becomes a blip.