Kat Farmer DMBL40 #6 Chicken Fillets in her cheeks, behaving like Katie Price of Seven Oaks for weeks

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I had the type of mother that thought their job was done by 15, 16 and 17 respectively. I moved in with my grandparents at 15, one brother joined the forces at her insistence at 16 and the other moved away to uni at 17. She left the country to go live her second youth. I have nothing to do with her these days and my brothers tolerate her. My own kids are similar ages to Kat’s and I’m still very much their parent, along with their dad. If anything late teens need you more than ever before, I think. My kids eat out with us, come on holiday, have their friends round. They can rely on us for lifts, advice, sorting their tit out occasionally and we genuinely have some of our best times with them.
 
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I had the type of mother that thought their job was done by 15, 16 and 17 respectively. I moved in with my grandparents at 15, one brother joined the forces at her insistence at 16 and the other moved away to uni at 17. She left the country to go live her second youth. I have nothing to do with her these days and my brothers tolerate her. My own kids are similar ages to Kat’s and I’m still very much their parent, along with their dad. If anything late teens need you more than ever before, I think. My kids eat out with us, come on holiday, have their friends round. They can rely on us for lifts, advice, sorting their tit out occasionally and we genuinely have some of our best times with them.
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That’s so tough. And how did that make you feel? Kat needs to think about that.

We have three teens too and we are still very much parenting! Holidays, dinner time, helping with homework if needed, meals out, watching their sports, cinema, lifts and just hanging out. Isn’t that normal? I can’t imagine not being like that, even when they are home for the holidays when at uni.

I’m sure most of at some point feel like jumping on a plane alone or relish the thought of living alone with no responsibilities but that’s normal - to actually do it is another thing! It won’t be long until they are fully grown adults and move out properly and you can have have all the freedom you like so why not enjoy them now, absolutely fair enough to leave your husband and have a fresh start, new adventures etc but you can still be a proper parent to your kids?
 
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Listened to the mini podcast so no one else has to put themselves through it 😂

She got to a point where she was tired of compromise and had a conversation with the ex about having a third of their lives left for new adventures which would make them happy.

Says a few times “when I made the decision”.

Says they were happy, then content, and they wanted to be happier. No one did the other wrong.

(Lost the will to live 4 minutes in so reckon the rest was blah, blah, blah, adventure, blah, blah, blah, compromise, blah.)

Lockdown was the beginning of the end. HRT was a catalyst as “it gave herself back.
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I listened to it too. It was a load of guff delivered machine-gun style. Exhausting 😂
 
The podcast is increasingly the Kat show - and now a vehicle to put her heavily edited divorce narrative out there.
Interesting she said she hated compromising all the time, or another way of looking at it is that she couldn't get her own way or do what she wanted all the time.
She glosses over the fact one child is only 15 and yet to do GCSEs. I also wonder how she did react if any of them were (understandably) upset at their parents splitting up. They'd presumably just be given an earblast and told their diamond shoes were too tight.
I wasn't really aware of her background but sounds like her own childhood had a long-lasting affect. She never mentions family on her side - siblings? or cousins? Interesting.
 
Just went back to the beginning of her blog, all the way back in 2012 (which you can do on the Web version, if anyone's interested) and I think this is the very first ever photo of Kat on the Internet.

Look how cute she is! Her youngest is 3 at this point and she still has a laugh with the husband. It's all Mango and Zara and buying sneaky bits in Primark. In 2012 she owns only one (!!!) coat, a parka. It's all so wholesome.......oh well.
 

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I think I followed her in 2013? I loved her blog. I bought a few bits in the M and S sales on her recommendations. She seemed down to Earth and the type you’d hang with at a gathering. She definitely mentioned the non existent mother relationship which I always thought was sad as I lost my mum when I was a child and always encourage repair where repair is possible. I always liked how she talked about her boy as mine had been diagnosed with dyspraxia and primary was tough. It’s sad to see how much she’s changed. I hope she can be there for those kids they defo still need their mum.
 
Sooz said:
Just went back to the beginning of her blog, all the way back in 2012 (which you can do on the Web version, if anyone's interested) and I think this is the very first ever photo of Kat on the Internet.

Look how cute she is! Her youngest is 3 at this point and she still has a laugh with the husband. It's all Mango and Zara and buying sneaky bits in Primark. In 2012 she owns only one (!!!) coat, a parka. It's all so wholesome.......oh well.
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Carrying a Mulberry Roxy bag ?
I had one, first expensive bag I bought but that was 2003/4 era. That doesn't look like 2012 fashion to me.
 
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