Listened to the mini podcast so no one else has to put themselves through it
She got to a point where she was tired of compromise and had a conversation with the ex about having a third of their lives left for new adventures which would make them happy.
Says a few times “when I made the decision”.
Says they were happy, then content, and they wanted to be happier. No one did the other wrong.
(Lost the will to live 4 minutes in so reckon the rest was blah, blah, blah, adventure, blah, blah, blah, compromise, blah.)
Lockdown was the beginning of the end. HRT was a catalyst as “it gave herself back.