That’s it. If everything she says is true (doubtful), the way he made her feel etc, he’s a terrible person. He’s a person that’s abandoned his child and made his mother suicidal along the way and apparently moved on with no care (I mean I don’t believe it but that’s the story she’s told) WHY just WHY would you want your son to have any link to him? I appreciate when he’s a little older, allowing him to recognise where he’s come from, embrace whichever parts of his heritage he’s comfortable with but now? He’s no clue. Now you’re just aligning your child in every way possible with someone you claim is a near on monster?? It doesn’t make sense.Am I a twit for still being astounded that she gave the kid a Mexican/spanish middle name. Especially given what she alleges the dad did? I mean, maybe a normal person I wouldn’t bat an eyelid to but she’s obv done it for his attention…