Johnny Depp and Amber Heard #4

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I find it really odd that he won’t look at her, is he trying to put her off, he should be so over her by now that she shouldn’t effect him. He’s going to be doing a lot of doodling in the next few days then, with a very sore neck 😆

I think regardless of how it ended, it must be really weird and confusing to be face to face with your ex discussing how you fell in love. I can understand him not wanting to look at her.
 
I find it really odd that he won’t look at her, is he trying to put her off, he should be so over her by now that she shouldn’t effect him. He’s going to be doing a lot of doodling in the next few days then, with a very sore neck 😆

He might be traumatised.
It must be difficult and painful for him.


She now describes how he was wooing her with presents, apparently she sent a few back.
 
I find it really odd that he won’t look at her, is he trying to put her off, he should be so over her by now that she shouldn’t effect him. He’s going to be doing a lot of doodling in the next few days then, with a very sore neck 😆
I find it not remotely odd that he won’t look at her. The odd thing is thinking you know how other people should be feeling about something.
 
Again I take your point, I am the one who asked whether age is relevant here. I just find it hard to believe that a man in his position was so easily manipulated by this woman. Even if he was, he's responsible for his own addiction, responses and behaviour, which includes the disgusting texts to Paul Bettany- ("I will duck her burnt corpse afterwards to make sure she's dead), etc. I've heard people say "they're the types of unsavoury texts you send after a row/breakup"- wtf? They're not texts I would ever, ever send about my spouse, regardless of how we ended, and they say something about the type of person he is, IMO.

Is the fact that we are asked to feel sympathy for a man who had *everything*, then lost some/most of it, at least in part due to his own awful behaviour, not a bit ludicrous to begin with? I know that defamation means she damaged his reputation, but again, I would argue that he did that himself. He's the one damaging his own reputation more and more by dragging absolutely every detail of this damaging relationship through the courts, twice now. Streisand effect, anyone?
I (F) am 14 years younger than my (M) partner and I have BPD. If I hadn’t had 10 years of therapy I’d be able to manipulate the tit out of him (if I wanted to) but I don’t and I won’t.
 
I find it really odd that he won’t look at her, is he trying to put her off, he should be so over her by now that she shouldn’t effect him. He’s going to be doing a lot of doodling in the next few days then, with a very sore neck 😆

He if he looks at her too much one could venture into intimidation territory (whether intentional or not). Just not looking at her, looking down is probably the safest. I’m sure his team has given him a lot of instructions on how to behave at this point. I’m sure a lot of eyes will be looking for any little thing during her testimony.
 
Has anyone done any reading on this subject (pictures below.)
 

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