Jim Chapman #6 Tan's a cheat, Sarah came after, now please tell us what happened to Martha

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Putting in my two pence worth here but I'm really surprised by those defending Sarah for airing Jim and Tanyas dirty laundry on an Instagram story of all things. You can't have your cake and eat it- it's OK for them to use Margot as their meal ticket and for Sarah to attempt to create a career off the back of Jim but if they get any trolling they throw Tanya under the bus? If the trolling is affecting them so badly surely the solution is to remove Margot as content and even consider giving up the influencer lifestyle. It is tacky at the very least, and makes Sarah look pathetic and point scoring. Even with this revelation, trolls will still call their daughter ugly. It is awful but cant blame Tanya for random nutters sending hate.
 
Jim could easily have told Sarah to say what she did or at least agreed it was just time to get it all out there. I’m so confused as to how anyone could be pissed at Sarah for sticking up for her partner who was cheated in by his vile ex wife. Tanya is absolute trash for allowing all this hate to continue to pile up on Jim and Sarah and now their baby, knowing full well it was her who was unfaithful!
If it were my partner and people were spreading lies and his ex never stood up and took accountability if 100% do the same. Sorry but I’m team Sarah 100% in this situation.
 
Cllem said:
Jim could easily have told Sarah to say what she did or at least agreed it was just time to get it all out there. I’m so confused as to how anyone could be pissed at Sarah for sticking up for her partner who was cheated in by his vile ex wife. Tanya is absolute trash for allowing all this hate to continue to pile up on Jim and Sarah and now their baby, knowing full well it was her who was unfaithful!
If it were my partner and people were spreading lies and his ex never stood up and took accountability if 100% do the same. Sorry but I’m team Sarah 100% in this situation.
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It's more the way it has been handled. Plus, you say vile ex wife bit we don't know the circumstances behind the cheating? Cheating is wrong 100% but we don't know what was going on in their relationship. Plus, why on earth was Jim arse licking Tanyas IG posts after the split if she cheated its all very weird. She obviously did cheat as Jim has been dying to spill the beans for ages and alluded to it on Steven Bartletts podcast. But I think there is more to it then just black and white cheating
 
Mamabear29 said:
It's more the way it has been handled. Plus, you say vile ex wife bit we don't know the circumstances behind the cheating? Cheating is wrong 100% but we don't know what was going on in their relationship. Plus, why on earth was Jim arse licking Tanyas IG posts after the split if she cheated its all very weird. She obviously did cheat as Jim has been dying to spill the beans for ages and alluded to it on Steven Bartletts podcast. But I think there is more to it then just black and white cheating
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Right, Jim and Tanya obviously had this agreement to not mention it. The more I even think about it, I dont even know why Sarah thought mentioning cheating would stop someone calling the baby not cute. How odd
 
Cllem said:
Jim could easily have told Sarah to say what she did or at least agreed it was just time to get it all out there. I’m so confused as to how anyone could be pissed at Sarah for sticking up for her partner who was cheated in by his vile ex wife. Tanya is absolute trash for allowing all this hate to continue to pile up on Jim and Sarah and now their baby, knowing full well it was her who was unfaithful!
If it were my partner and people were spreading lies and his ex never stood up and took accountability if 100% do the same. Sorry but I’m team Sarah 100% in this situation.
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It wasn’t Tanya’s decision for Jim and Sarah to plaster their child all over the internet, it was their sole decision. I don’t see why she’s responsible for any hassle they might get off the back of it tbh
 
Mamabear29 said:
You can't have your cake and eat it- it's OK for them to use Margot as their meal ticket and for Sarah to attempt to create a career off the back of Jim but if they get any trolling they throw Tanya under the bus? If the trolling is affecting them so badly surely the solution is to remove Margot as content and even consider giving up the influencer lifestyle.
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Exactly. It’s not like they’re being forced to post photos of their baby/family/daily lives. They’ve actively chosen this route because it’s lucrative and easy money. But the internet/social media can be a vicious place, which is why it makes sense for her to take steps to protect her sanity (e.g block certain words/ignore messages). She doesn’t have to do these things but she should, rather than complain but not do anything to curtail the abuse.

And if you can’t handle the scrutiny and looney toon behaviour, then just give up this attempt to become an influencer. Not all of us are cut out for fame. I certainly wouldn’t be able to handle it. But if you can’t take the heat, then get out of the kitchen.

I’m not a Tanya fan, but she honestly doesn’t owe Jim and Sarah anything. There was never a need for her to come out and say “stop hurling these cheating accusations at Jim because it was actually me! I was the cheater!” I mean, as if? When they split, they both said they would continue to be good friends and put up an image of a happy, amicably-split couple. So why would she then dredge up her past relationship and put herself in a bad light to defend her ex and his new partner? She doesn’t post anything remotely personal on her IG and she’s clearly moved on, but I’ll bet she gets vicious dms too (from everything about her and Jim, Martha, her acting career and her disastrous beauty line).

It’s really only Jim and Sarah that keep bringing Tanya up. Whether it’s posting crazy dms/comments mentioning her or alluding in interviews that there was infidelity and it wasn’t on his part… they need to just move on with their lives, focus on their growing family, and stop letting Tanya live rent-free in their heads.
 
Tea&Toast said:
So did she kill the dog while she was cheating on Jim or after 🤔 Come on Sarah spill the rest of the tea about the bleeping witch 😂 Did Martha accidentally die in some freak S&M sex game between her and her bit of rough Rhys, that would really be the final straw for Jim, he loved that dog more than Tanya and who could blame him 😂
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Is the dog dead? I've missed a big chunk of this drama and have always wondered where the dog disappeared to. Has someone come out and admitted the dog died?
 
Chatty-Jo said:
Is the dog dead? I've missed a big chunk of this drama and have always wondered where the dog disappeared to. Has someone come out and admitted the dog died?
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Unfortunately no one knows whether the dog was rehomed or died, but the silence on the matter doesn’t make it look good. There is a rumour that Tanya accidentally killed the dog, by leaving her coke stash lying around, but who knows. The stupid cow probably fed the poor dog something poisonous by mistake, she’s that thick and only ever used the dog for selfies anyway. I wonder sometimes if it was spite, because Jim adored that dog.

I really think Jim needs to come out and defend Sarah now, otherwise I think it will look bad if he isn’t supporting his wife on this. He might as well clear the whole thing up on his YT channel and tell us what happened to Martha while you’re at it Jim.
 
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Tea&Toast said:
The stupid cow probably fed the poor dog something poisonous by mistake, she’s that thick and only ever used the dog for selfies anyway. I wonder sometimes if it was spite, because Jim adored that dog.
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See, here is a perfect example. We have people speculating that Tanya deliberately spitefully poisoned their dog to get at Jim. And this isn’t new, the coke rumour started on here and GG from these same people saying ‘I bet he got into Tanya’s stash’ and now it’s a ‘oh I’ve just heard it around’ rumour on here, Reddit, and Tik Tok, and thus undoubtedly in Tanya’s DMs too. She gets the exact same insane tit, she just doesn’t repost them constantly. The image that it is Sarah who has been hounded after the divorce and saddled with everything is an image created by Sarah.
 
Mamabear29 said:
It's more the way it has been handled. Plus, you say vile ex wife bit we don't know the circumstances behind the cheating? Cheating is wrong 100% but we don't know what was going on in their relationship. Plus, why on earth was Jim arse licking Tanyas IG posts after the split if she cheated its all very weird. She obviously did cheat as Jim has been dying to spill the beans for ages and alluded to it on Steven Bartletts podcast. But I think there is more to it then just black and white cheating
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Yes exactly this!! People are like oh Tanya slept with someone, no one knows what happened, it might have been an emotional affair.
 
getawaywithit said:
See, here is a perfect example. We have people speculating that Tanya deliberately spitefully poisoned their dog to get at Jim. And this isn’t new, the coke rumour started on here and GG from these same people saying ‘I bet he got into Tanya’s stash’ and now it’s a ‘oh I’ve just heard it around’ rumour on here, Reddit, and Tik Tok, and thus undoubtedly in Tanya’s DMs too. She gets the exact same insane tit, she just doesn’t repost them constantly. The image that it is Sarah who has been hounded after the divorce and saddled with everything is an image created by Sarah.
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Ok I take your point, it’s more likely she fed the dog something poisonous by mistake, she really is that stupid and let’s face it she only used that dog as an accessory for Instagram. And btw Sarah was hinting at Tanya being irresponsible when it came to Martha, so that’s not unlikely. Jim must have been devastated though, he really did adore that dog. Btw I had no idea about the coke rumour until I saw it on this thread yesterday, so I’m not part of that rumour.

But I disagree Tanya is not getting the same kind of insane stalker comments that Jim & Sarah have been getting on Instagram since the break up. Tanya isn’t being stalked by insane people on Instagram, she hardly even gets any bad comments on her Instagram and even the mildest criticism is deleted, to leave only sycophantic comments. Any bad comments about her are on here and she doesn’t have to look at them.
 
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Cllem said:
Jim could easily have told Sarah to say what she did or at least agreed it was just time to get it all out there. I’m so confused as to how anyone could be pissed at Sarah for sticking up for her partner who was cheated in by his vile ex wife. Tanya is absolute trash for allowing all this hate to continue to pile up on Jim and Sarah and now their baby, knowing full well it was her who was unfaithful!
If it were my partner and people were spreading lies and his ex never stood up and took accountability if 100% do the same. Sorry but I’m team Sarah 100% in this situation.
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But if people are calling her a home wrecker surely it is on him. To say she is not?
 
Also Sarah is the girl who went on Raya to find a partner. She’s always wanted fame or to be with someone famous. She should have known that having any kind of following online comes with these deranged people who send nasty messages.

Either Jim should’ve protected her better from it if she can’t cope or she shouldn’t have become an influencer.
 
Cllem said:
In no circumstance is cheating ok.
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Oh I never said it was- I said cheating was 100% wrong. I just wanted to point out it is rarely black and white. For example I know a woman who had an out of the character one night stand as she was suffering depression after a miscarriage. I have a friend who had an emotional affair because she was frightened to leave her narcissistic controlling now ex. I refuse to villainfy tanya on limited information,or any woman.
 
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