Jim and Sarah Chapman #8 2023 The year of doing less

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Most people holding a newborn baby in a photograph are either proudly presenting the baby to the camera and look so happy & overjoyed, or are looking directly at the baby with love and adoration and someone else has taken the photo to capture that special moment, and that’s why these photos are usually sweet and lovely to see (although I don’t agree with posting baby faces on social media).

Jim’s photo….is a photo he’s taken of himself, he’s centred completely, and the baby is no more than an accessory for him. I’ve never liked him, but he seems to get worse and worse, and I think this picture really sums him up. Toxic narcissist.
 
donutwitch said:
Most people holding a newborn baby in a photograph are either proudly presenting the baby to the camera and look so happy & overjoyed, or are looking directly at the baby with love and adoration and someone else has taken the photo to capture that special moment, and that’s why these photos are usually sweet and lovely to see (although I don’t agree with posting baby faces on social media).

Jim’s photo….is a photo he’s taken of himself, he’s centred completely, and the baby is no more than an accessory for him. I’ve never liked him, but he seems to get worse and worse, and I think this picture really sums him up. Toxic narcissist.
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He's so narcissistic it's just gross, he's also holding onto the phone more securely than the baby
 
MarthaFarkus said:
Most men look cute holding a newborn but Jim just looks like the creep he is. No mention of Sarah at all, no love towards her for all she’s been through - all her body has been through. Nothing.
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i honestly find it really sad, i scrolled back to see if he ever appreciated Sarah when Margot was born but of course not, first mention of her was to point out that Margot looks more like him. he's an absolutely awful dad for sure.
 
He is certainly very strange. He is all about him and his image. So many examples of his self obsession but the one that always sums it up is when Sarah gave him a beautiful photo of her and Margot. Jim mocked it and put it away in a drawer saying 'why on earth would you give me a photo of you?'. This is the man who spends hours drawing pictures of his own face.
He horribly seems to be all about keeping his women insecure.

(I just remembered on stories a few weeks ago Sarah had a necklace with 'M' and 'J' on it. I assumed the J was Jim but obviously not).
 
blurstoftimes said:
nothing about sarah at all, she really is just his baby incubator. he is such a raging narcissist it gives me the creeps
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THIS!!! Omg this. I agree, he's a raging narcissist. I also think he's straight up misogynistic. The way he's acted during both of her pregnancies really solidifies that for me.

It's all about him, how he feels, what he wants, etc. Never mind the fact that she just risked her literal life or altered her body forever, or anything...oh no. She's a total afterthought to him.

Scarlettmine said:
And of course he doesn't miss the chance to let us know HE LIKES HIM. Thanks Jim, now duck off.
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Right?! And the thing is: I can't even tell if Jim was joking or not. It was a bad "joke" to begin with, but I also think there might be some truth there...like he's relieved or something that his kid is acceptable to him.

jayne2240 said:
The obsession with the blonde is already bleeping weird. And even if you don’t mean it, why would anyone phrase it as “he’s nothing like his sister. I like him” he’s coming across like a colossal dick head.
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Totally agree, he is such a dick. He's already comparing them and basically announcing which one is his fave.
 
I cannot believe i’d seen their new baby announced and jim’s only photos are of (his only) hand over the baby and a MIRROR SELFIE loosely holding his newborn like it’s a trophy new iphone. And the caption is ‘he’s blonde nothing like his sister. I like him’ UMMM? First of all I’m not the biggest Sarah fan but she’s just had your second baby and not one post, caption or photo of her? appreciation post? a picture of the both of yours hands over baby like all other cheesy influencers? I wasn’t sure if ppl were being a little dramatic calling him a narcissist but damn man nothing at all for your wife or an appreciation. Just talking about your newborn and their hair colour. Shocking. Also sarah, please post more if you want of you and baby, you did all the work! Don’t let that ugly narc take all your shine.
 
lilsky666 said:
I cannot believe i’d seen their new baby announced and jim’s only photos are of (his only) hand over the baby and a MIRROR SELFIE loosely holding his newborn like it’s a trophy new iphone. And the caption is ‘he’s blonde nothing like his sister. I like him’ UMMM? First of all I’m not the biggest Sarah fan but she’s just had your second baby and not one post, caption or photo of her? appreciation post? a picture of the both of yours hands over baby like all other cheesy influencers? I wasn’t sure if ppl were being a little dramatic calling him a narcissist but damn man nothing at all for your wife or an appreciation. Just talking about your newborn and their hair colour. Shocking. Also sarah, please post more if you want of you and baby, you did all the work! Don’t let that ugly narc take all your shine.
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Quite.
Jim can't pretend he is being private and not disclosing much as that has never stopped him before. Not to acknowledge Sarah once, even to say that she is fine, just seems downright mean. It's all about him. Always has been and always will be.
 
lilsky666 said:
I give it a week for the novelty to wear off before he’s posting about how hard his life is as if he grew and pushed the baby out himself. Hasn’t he spent the entire time since having margot complaining about being a dad and having no identity? *mini violin ensues*
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Would love to know what he thought his identity was before Margo? Z-lister? Has-been that never was? One time GQ man of the year as purchased by his management? Let us not forget unpublished screenwriter or stationary guru!
 
lilsky666 said:
I give it a week for the novelty to wear off before he’s posting about how hard his life is as if he grew and pushed the baby out himself. Hasn’t he spent the entire time since having margot complaining about being a dad and having no identity? *mini violin ensues*
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Oh blimey you are right.
You can bet he still spends all morning down at the bloody gym having 'me' time.
Selfish git.
 
formerly_sitkx said:
“He’s nothing like his sister. I like him.” Ummm??? Those are inside thoughts honey
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And the comparing of his children has already begun…he will duck up these poor kids so much, hopefully they will get some money from all the ads they’re forced to do, you know a consolation price for having no privacy…

My prediction is that the new kid will “take the spotlight“ now that Jim has his new shiny toy to play with…maybe that’s not a bad thing for Margot.
 
What an odd rant on his stories about the umbilical cord grossing him out. Find it bloody entitled to demand to Sarah he doesn’t want to change any nappies that day in case it falls off….she gave birth like a week ago he should be doing everything to make her load easier.

Also just find it so odd going online and making vomming noises on camera over and over about your newborn sons belly button. There’s just no sense of awareness why would you make that public. I get some parts of parenting aren’t pretty….but why would you film your disgust about it online. That’s your newborn son and he can’t exactly help it.
 
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