Jenny Apple

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HairyBerries said:
Lol yet you're the one once again mouthing off
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It wasn't a diagnosis dumby, the doctors had to carry out MRI's to confirm a potential diagnosis. I had symptoms which pointed to a rare brain disease.

Sheesh, you'd think you lot care so much about other people. It seems to me you hate them.
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You appear very puerile. It would do you good to learn a modicum of respect towards fellow posters. We can disagree without resorting to childish slurs.
 
Doherty557 said:
Kyle is not simply just doing house hold chores and looking after the kids. He is dealing with the horrific reality that his wife will die and that his kids will have no mothers. It’s an awful burden to bear and one that will weigh him down constantly, do you know how tiring that is?

Living with cancer is awful, for both the patient and their loved ones. Carers deserve more recognition and their struggles are completely valid.

And what’s with this talk that Kyle will have a new wife so quickly after Jenny’s death? We have no proof or reason to believe that so it’s bizarre to be throwing that into conversation.

I’m hoping something will go right for Jenny soon, she has had so much bad luck with treatments not working. I hope there is something out there for her that will give her more time.

I am always so envious in the US that doctors seem to not want to give up on you. Whilst I fully appreciate the NHS, our options are more limited and at the end of the day, our lives are valued to them as a budget. I believe in universal healthcare at all but I guess the bonus in the US is if you have good insurance or personal wealth, you can keep trying for new treatments
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Jenny will be dead. But preach for Saint Kyle. I think there are now more sympathy comments for him on the last video. The top 2 are exclusively for him.

Also, you don’t know what kind of hell I’ve been through so no point in pretending you do.
 
Miriam3 said:
Kyle is not the victim here. More and more I see people in the comments praising Kyle and not even mentioning Jenny. I don’t know if it matters but Saint Kyle isn’t working, he’s on summer break. It is very sad though that he has to spend his summer break caring for his dying wife and his small children. I see much less compassion for women who do all this stuff and more. There are many men who do the same with no recognition.

What is it about Kyle, specifically, that attracts overwhelming sympathy? Is it because he has to take care of his own children? Is it because he has to fetch things for Jenny and give her messages? Because he has to do housework? Again, women do these things regularly and never get any recognition. Is it because his wife is dying? If he was so sad over this we would see it and he wouldn’t want to go to Disneyland without her unless it’s for the kids, who I doubt care much about it right now. I don’t see sadness, mostly I see him blowing smoke up Jenny’s bum.

Maybe they’ve both been in denial and now they aren’t so much. Jenny has always known the situation so maybe she’s shutting down the smoke blowing. He likes to keep her placated because that’s easier on him. It’s easier to care for (and be around) someone who’s agreeable than someone who crying and worrying about death. She’s mentioned before that he puts a stop to that talk even in private. Maybe she needs him to be an adult and be able to have those conversations without everything being about him, or making goofy faces or singing silly songs. I think we can also drop the notion that he’s silly because these videos are for the kids.

Also, where are the scan results? She had scans a week ago. They have the results now. They are just dragging this out, having made it sound like the scans were just yesterday. I’m sure they have better things to do than post a quick update for people who now have public prayer groups formed, and people who are losing sleep over her condition. People, who I might add, are funding their lifestyle.
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I am in 100% agreement with everything you have said.
 
I don't knew how to say this and be politically correct. Let's just say Kyle has a very pronounced feminine side IMHO. They both seem very childlike to me. The engagement video with the toy castle was cute and I guess the beginning of him treating her like a Disney princess.

I understand what a horrible ordeal they are going thru and I think he is doing a good job juggling all the emotions and tasks but he did look different in that last video. I thought he almost looked like he was just over the whole chatting in the car crap.

The comment section on the videos truly have turned into a blow smoke up Kyle's ass for the most part. I think someone said he is the one that reads the comments . They never seem to acknowledge any of the comments.

Has Jenny had success tolerating any of the previous treatments? I read that the clinical trial they want to get her in has less side effects than other options so maybe she will have better luck this time.
 
They seemed bothered by the last minute appointment with the pulmonologist in the last video. It seemed like it interrupted their plans for the day and they seemed irritated to me. I'm not sure how far they have to drive to get to COH but maybe traffic was annoying.
 
Doherty557 said:
I am always so envious in the US that doctors seem to not want to give up on you. Whilst I fully appreciate the NHS, our options are more limited and at the end of the day, our lives are valued to them as a budget. I believe in universal healthcare at all but I guess the bonus in the US is if you have good insurance or personal wealth, you can keep trying for new treatments
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Yet, life expectancy has continued to improve in the UK, and you can expect, on average, to live longer, compared to those in the US:

"The average life expectancy in the UK has risen from 68.63 years in 1950 to 80.43 years in 2020, compared to 68.06 and 77.41 respectively in the US."

https://www.12ft.io/https://www.dai...fe expectancy in,77.41 respectively in the US
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TryingMyBest said:
I don't knew how to say this and be politically correct. Let's just say Kyle has a very pronounced feminine side IMHO. They both seem very childlike to me. The engagement video with the toy castle was cute and I guess the beginning of him treating her like a Disney princess.
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Kyle seems very effeminate to me and the proposal seemed very “show tunes”. 😂 You’re right, not very politically correct to mention, I guess. To each his own. So many people thought the proposal was romantic and sweet. I think it was bizarre. It was also strange the way Jenny reacted to it. She didn’t seem surprised or overly happy about it. Maybe she knew about it in advance. The funny thing about Kyle’s “feminine side” is that he seems to think of himself as sort of a jock. Somewhere he describes himself as being a football player/enthusiast.
 
Doherty557 said:
And what’s with this talk that Kyle will have a new wife so quickly after Jenny’s death? We have no proof or reason to believe that so it’s bizarre to be throwing that into conversation.
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I think it's a case of just throwing in any random comment to turn people against specifically Kyle, and Jenny, suggesting things that there is no basis for at all. It's one thing to remark where there is actual evidence, but just making stuff up hurling it into the mix and hoping others run with it is a bit too much like the toxic friend that drips poison to me.
 
Miriam3 said:
Jenny will be dead. But preach for Saint Kyle. I think there are now more sympathy comments for him on the last video. The top 2 are exclusively for him.

Also, you don’t know what kind of hell I’ve been through so no point in pretending you do.
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I don't want to derail a thread by disagreeing with anyone but truly, I am trying to understand where these hateful thoughts toward Kyle are coming from? We don't have to like everyone, but to write things like 'Jenny will be dead' seems very cold and I hope she doesn't read that. It is also quite triggering to people facing the same prognosis as her.

I genuinely hope you are okay, I find your reaction to this couple a little concerning, not because I disagree with it but because it seems to be coming from a place of hurt within yourself. Whatever you have been through/are going through, I truly hope you come out the other side well ❤️ I have found Tattle to ironically be a very supportive place to be, especially within the cancer community as we are all here because we either have (or did have) cancer ourselves, have been (or still are) carers for sick people, or are health professionals. I hope you have a good support network around you or I hope you can unleash your own thoughts here so others can help you
 
TryingMyBest said:
... I read that the clinical trial they want to get her in has less side effects than other options so maybe she will have better luck this time.
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If this trial was the most promising one for her, why hadn't it been chosen in the first place (assuming, of course, it already existed when another trial had been chosen for her) ?
The progression from clinical trial to clinical trial would seem to go from most promising to least promising. The reason is why would time be wasted on a less promising trial if a more promising one had been available to begin with? This is a question I would have asked the oncology team, however stressful it might be to hear the answer.
 
ScrattyRatty said:
Well that's fine for him, but some people just don't want the prayers and say so and that should be respected too. I am sure many people would refrain from posting religious comments under those circumstances, I just don't understand those that don't.
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Finally you and l agree on something!!! There is a special place in hell for me and l couldn't care less "if you can't handle the heat get out of the kitchen" 👍
 
Doherty557 said:
I don't want to derail a thread by disagreeing with anyone but truly, I am trying to understand where these hateful thoughts toward Kyle are coming from? We don't have to like everyone, but to write things like 'Jenny will be dead' seems very cold and I hope she doesn't read that. It is also quite triggering to people facing the same prognosis as her.

I genuinely hope you are okay, I find your reaction to this couple a little concerning, not because I disagree with it but because it seems to be coming from a place of hurt within yourself. Whatever you have been through/are going through, I truly hope you come out the other side well ❤ I have found Tattle to ironically be a very supportive place to be, especially within the cancer community as we are all here because we either have (or did have) cancer ourselves, have been (or still are) carers for sick people, or are health professionals. I hope you have a good support network around you or I hope you can unleash your own thoughts here so others can help you
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This sounds like the equivalent of “bless your heart” or “I’ll pray for you.” No, thank you for all your fake, condescending concern.

My point with “Jenny will be dead soon” is that she’s the one who deserves the empathy and compassion. I’m sorry for you if you’ve had experiences in your own life that make it seem as though Kyle is a hero for doing what he should be doing. He’d be a dirtbag if he wasn’t.

I think you’ve forgotten where you are. Maybe you should start a thread in the “rave about” section.
 
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Miriam3 said:
This sounds like the equivalent of “bless your heart” or “I’ll pray for you.” No, thank you for all your concern.

My point with “Jenny will be dead soon” is that she’s the one who deserves the empathy and compassion. I’m sorry for you if you’ve had experiences in your own life that make it seem as though Kyle is a hero for doing what he should be doing. He’d be a dirtbag if he wasn’t.
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Jenny won't know anything about it, being dead (or if you like, in a better place). Kyle and the kids and her family are the ones who will need empathy and compassion, they will be the ones left to pick up the pieces. And are you suggesting that it is wrong to praise someone for doing the right thing and caring for the family he loves? Are you all about the negative?, it does seem so.
 
Miriam3 said:
This sounds like the equivalent of “bless your heart” or “I’ll pray for you.” No, thank you for all your fake, condescending concern.

My point with “Jenny will be dead soon” is that she’s the one who deserves the empathy and compassion. I’m sorry for you if you’ve had experiences in your own life that make it seem as though Kyle is a hero for doing what he should be doing. He’d be a dirtbag if he wasn’t.
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I'm not being fake, I would rather support someone when I feel like they could do with it. If you don't want the support, that's fine, don't take it.

My own experience is my partner leaving me the week of my diagnosis, so yes, I admire Kyle, and any human who stands by their partner who is unwell. Unfortunately, a lot of people leave in these situations because they can't cope with it
 
ScrattyRatty said:
I think it's a case of just throwing in any random comment to turn people against specifically Kyle, and Jenny, suggesting things that there is no basis for at all. It's one thing to remark where there is actual evidence, but just making stuff up hurling it into the mix and hoping others run with it is a bit too much like the toxic friend that drips poison to me.
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Someone mentioned that Josh will probably be married again soon. No one seemed to mind.

Of course there’s no toxicity or poison in your comment, or any of your other comments. You’re just here to spread love and happiness on a gossip site.

People who put their lives on YouTube will be scrutinized. I’m sorry you don’t see how that works unless you’re the one doing the scrutinizing.
 
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Miriam3 said:
Someone mentioned that Josh will probably be married again soon. No one seemed to mind.

Of course there’s no toxicity or poison in your comment, or any of your other comments. You’re just here to spread love and happiness on a gossip site.

People who put their lives on YouTube will be scrutinized. I’m sorry you don’t see how that works unless you’re the one doing the scrutinizing.
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It's not about spreading love and happiness. It's about being reasonable. ScrattyRatty is plenty critical when it is deserved. You, on the other hand just simply despise Jenny and Kyle for some mysterious reason. You have tripped up a few times revealing your hatred for them. It discredits the points that you make because your hatred is irrational. Jenny or Kyle have never done anything to deserve hate. They can be criticised, this is tattle, but what you are trying to do, is beyond reason.
 
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