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I watched this Friday night stream and it seems it was a different night than the Disney trip (some Tiffany style mixing up dates?) He did say he was having trouble keeping up with the videos that Jenny wanted him to do - that he was behind - and that's why he was doing a stream, and answering people's questions, because it's easier than staying up late to edit. In the stream, he said that tonight (Friday night) was a Christmas program at Winnie's school and both kids enjoyed it. Then they were going to watch Home Alone as one of their Christmas films, he would make mac and cheese because the kid in the film eats that, and that they'd stay up late, but it was Friday so that's ok.

He said Jenny's parents were ok and her brother asked if they could hang out together more and Kyle said he would schedule more of that, and maybe even take him on a holiday trip with them (eventually - nothing soon - to Florida, Disney World of course, but then, people from Florida were asking him if he'd like to go, so maybe he was just being polite. Another person from New York City asked him if he'd like to go there but he said his kids were probably too young yet.) He mentioned his mother lived an hour away from them and they do see her, and that he'd probably spend Christmas with Ashley's family.

Anyway, I was so glad to hear him mention that he was going back to work after Jenny's Dec 30 memorial thing. I'm a weirdo around here but I like Kyle and think he's doing ok. I'm not a fan of filming your children, but Jenny started it (imo), and I think it'll take time for him to do this grief series that she wanted him to do. No mention of the book, thank god. I hope he doesn't spend years of relating everything they do to Jenny, but it's very early days, so it seems normal enough. He did say he was still seeing a therapist. Good! If you read here, Kyle, I think you're doing fine as a single dad and things wil be easier when you go back to work - you'll have your students to think about all day - your kids every night - and slowly, you'll move on. (hopefully from the kid-centered videos too, amirite, Josh?)
 
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I watched this Friday night stream and it seems it was a different night than the Disney trip (some Tiffany style mixing up dates?) He did say he was having trouble keeping up with the videos that Jenny wanted him to do - that he was behind - and that's why he was doing a stream, and answering people's questions, because it's easier than staying up late to edit. In the stream, he said that tonight (Friday night) was a Christmas program at Winnie's school and both kids enjoyed it. Then they were going to watch Home Alone as one of their Christmas films, he would make mac and cheese because the kid in the film eats that, and that they'd stay up late, but it was Friday so that's ok.

He said Jenny's parents were ok and her brother asked if they could hang out together more and Kyle said he would schedule more of that, and maybe even take him on a holiday trip with them (eventually - nothing soon - to Florida, Disney World of course, but then, people from Florida were asking him if he'd like to go, so maybe he was just being polite. Another person from New York City asked him if he'd like to go there but he said his kids were probably too young yet.) He mentioned his mother lived an hour away from them and they do see her, and that he'd probably spend Christmas with Ashley's family.

Anyway, I was so glad to hear him mention that he was going back to work after Jenny's Dec 30 memorial thing. I'm a weirdo around here but I like Kyle and think he's doing ok. I'm not a fan of filming your children, but Jenny started it (imo), and I think it'll take time for him to do this grief series that she wanted him to do. No mention of the book, thank god. I hope he doesn't spend years of relating everything they do to Jenny, but it's very early days, so it seems normal enough. He did say he was still seeing a therapist. Good! If you read here, Kyle, I think you're doing fine as a single dad and things wil be easier when you go back to work - you'll have your students to think about all day - your kids every night - and slowly, you'll move on. (hopefully from the kid-centered videos too, amirite, Josh?)

Kyle will absolutely take Michael to Walt Disney World if they ever go, because Michael would be eligible for a Disability pass, which I’m sure they use at Disneyland. Kyle would never miss an opportunity to exploit him for that. His fat ass is too lazy to wait in lines with people who have not suffered the way he has suffered - the biggest sufferer who has ever suffered. Poor Kyle. 😂
 
IHe will find another woman in the year but won’t show her until at least two years have passed. Trying to scam the viewers that he had actually waited at least two years post her passing rather than a year. He may get off of SM when he finds someone else then suddenly pop back on with the dreaded LIFE UPDATE! In this way his cult remains supportive and happy for him.
 
IHe will find another woman in the year but won’t show her until at least two years have passed. Trying to scam the viewers that he had actually waited at least two years post her passing rather than a year. He may get off of SM when he finds someone else then suddenly pop back on with the dreaded LIFE UPDATE! In this way his cult remains supportive and happy for him.
Yes I agree I think he will find female company at some time to the future and I also see him fathering a few more kids. His life will move on as it’s inevitable and the rawness of this loss and grief will slowly dissipate allowing for life after loss! I hope the kids remain his focus for some time yet. I’m not sure Disney is their thing or his but I guess it’s a focus nevertheless.
 
Look at Winnie in the latest video in DisneyLand, she takes to Jenny so much from this angle!
 

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Yes I agree I think he will find female company at some time to the future and I also see him fathering a few more kids. His life will move on as it’s inevitable and the rawness of this loss and grief will slowly dissipate allowing for life after loss! I hope the kids remain his focus for some time yet. I’m not sure Disney is their thing or his but I guess it’s a focus nevertheless.
Or a male companion, you never know these days 😉
 
What broke my heart was from a couple videoes ago. Kyle had found a Lego set that Ellis had been wanting, bought it for Christmas and left it in the truck. He picked Ellis up from school and Ellis saw it. Kyle felt badly that he couldn't even hide the present from Ellis but wonderful thoughtful Ellis told him to not worry, he'll forget about it until Christmas. Ellis is having to grow up so much more quickly that he should. I might be incorrect but I feel he's having to help Kyle cope with everything. And he has to be a good big brother to Winnie. I hope his therapist is helping him with his feelings.
 
What broke my heart was from a couple videoes ago. Kyle had found a Lego set that Ellis had been wanting, bought it for Christmas and left it in the truck. He picked Ellis up from school and Ellis saw it. Kyle felt badly that he couldn't even hide the present from Ellis but wonderful thoughtful Ellis told him to not worry, he'll forget about it until Christmas. Ellis is having to grow up so much more quickly that he should. I might be incorrect but I feel he's having to help Kyle cope with everything. And he has to be a good big brother to Winnie. I hope his therapist is helping him with his feelings.

I agree. The sense I get from the videos is certainly that Ellis feels a responsibility to take care of his dad and little sister.
 
I agree. The sense I get from the videos is certainly that Ellis feels a responsibility to take care of his dad and little sister.
That is very common with children that have lost a parent, l think Josh (POG) spoke about his Son doing the same thing after Sarah's passing. It is something that will be handled by both Kyles and his Sons therapist and this too shall pass in time as they process the stages of grief.
 
That is very common with children that have lost a parent, l think Josh (POG) spoke about his Son doing the same thing after Sarah's passing. It is something that will be handled by both Kyles and his Sons therapist and this too shall pass in time as they process the stages of grief.

In the case of Ellis, he was showing signs of this before Jenny passed and was/is most likely caused by having two helpless, childlike parents. Kyle isn’t going to miraculously step up and be an adult, so Ellis will probably continue to feel like he needs to be the adult. He will probably grow into an anxious, hyper vigilant adult.
 
This woman popped up on my feed and she’s the perfect example of an ignorant, mentally ill family member who negatively affects their loved one’s medical care. Not only did she constantly argue with all of her husband’s doctors and nurses in front of her sick and dying husband, she refused any treatment for him that had any chance of lengthening his life. She refused chemo, but complains all through a two hour video that no one ever gave them hope.

He died of stage 4 small cell lung cancer which had spread to his bones, but she’s convinced it wasn’t the cancer that killed him, but malnutrition which she doesn’t connect as being caused by cancer.

I feel sorry for the man who had to live with her and anyone who has to communicate with her in any capacity.

I did not watch much of her blabbering, just read the transcripts.

 
In the case of Ellis, he was showing signs of this before Jenny passed and was/is most likely caused by having two helpless, childlike parents. Kyle isn’t going to miraculously step up and be an adult, so Ellis will probably continue to feel like he needs to be the adult. He will probably grow into an anxious, hyper vigilant adult.
I don't watch the children much, usually just listen to Kyles crap. The one l noticed as being very anxious before Jenny passed was the Daughter, sucking those fingers and looking very sad and confused.
 
What's happened to Vlogmas? The horrible MK woman seems to have an awful lot of support on her latest video - the tables are turning I think. I've been MIA for a week so may well have missed some things. Its been a hard week. Thanks so much @makesenseofit for your lovely message.

He's back 👍
I hope your Uncle is comfortable or at peace and hubby made it back in time. Look after your little Girl and don't forget take care of YOU. ❤️
 
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