Jennifer Lopez & Ben Affleck - Bennifer

do you find this romance

  • cringeworthy

    Votes: 210 84.7%

  • fabulous

    Votes: 38 15.3%
  • Total voters
    248
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Sea said:
I feel sorry for Jlo's kids, in their short lives the many men that have played a role in their lives as father figures or protectors of their mum and on public as well as private scale: their dad, Cris, Alex, Ben, the next one.
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How many women half his age has their father married and gone onto have more children with? Both parents need to be held equally accountable. Also see Affleck and the revolving door of much younger women since Jennifer Garner and that we will see after Jennifer Lopez
 
Swipeupyouguys said:
How many women half his age has their father married and gone onto have more children with? Both parents need to be held equally accountable. Also see Affleck and the revolving door of much younger women since Jennifer Garner and that we will see after Jennifer Lopez
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I'm not a Ben fan so am not desperate to defend him, but looking at his history, he dated 1 woman 8 years younger than him (when she was in her late 30s and he in mid 40s). He had a 2 month fling with a model in her 20s 🤢. He had a year with Ana (her in early 30s and him 16 years older - for this one I'm more grossed out that she looks much much younger than her age)
So after JGarner he married once to JLo and in between had 2 serious r- ships.

Duh just realised your talking about Marc Anthony! I don't know anything about his love life as we don't hear about him.. but quick look yes he's accountable too for the many wives he has. Does he have anything to do with his & JLo's children? The kids are probably going to be messed up (the girls is already with the Non Binary stuff). Narc parents.
 
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It was never going to work in the long term let’s be honest, she’s a full on narcissists obsessed with her image and how beautiful she is.. the woman could burn alive and not notice the flames in the mirror .. and he’s a bored miserable wrong side of 40 man with little to keep his interest in the daily drudge of life…

Both just drifting around hoping something interesting happens ..

well here it is you pair of weapons.. your divorce that will keep you busy for a while.. good luck to your next partners …
 
Came onto this thread for a nosey and have found more gossip that I didn't even know about! 🍿 Mariah, cancelled tours, all the block schtick, P Diddy... is there anything in the rumours that it isn't her singing on her songs? Or what's the story about that?

My partner doesn't keep up with all the celeb gossip but he's said before that Jennifer Lopez seems nice and that there's never been any real scandals about her. I'll have to put him right 😌

I wonder why Ben wasn't the one to file the divorce papers, he looked so miserable all the time. That clip of her emerging from the car at a red carpet event and him storming past with a face of thunder told a tale! Jen's always revelled in the limelight and he looked like he hated all that. I was happy for them reuniting a couple of years ago, but in my own little nostalgic way - I was 14 when they first separated and remember feeling sad about it 😂 so I kind of bought into the Bennifer love story but it soon became a bit much.

All the divorce rumour stories were getting tedious. Remember the photos of her on a yacht without him and she was photographed taking a photo of her own bum 😳 desperate.
 
I think they both sold themselves as a changed person.

J lo probably said she wont be as public but she loves it, and she has had famous partners before but in her eyes an A list hollywood Actor was the golden egg and she wanted to flash him about and have that fairytale romance

Ben probably sold himself as a family man who is over his alcohol issues.

J Lo needs to go back to A Rod- thats exactly the type of guy she needs and wants, all about the materialistic stuff and image.

I will give J lo one thing though- she seems to always maintain a relationship with children from previous relationships. Like marc’s kid from his previous relationship and ben afflecks kids have been hanging with her.
 
Pinkii said:
I think they both sold themselves as a changed person.

J lo probably said she wont be as public but she loves it, and she has had famous partners before but in her eyes an A list hollywood Actor was the golden egg and she wanted to flash him about and have that fairytale romance

Ben probably sold himself as a family man who is over his alcohol issues.

J Lo needs to go back to A Rod- thats exactly the type of guy she needs and wants, all about the materialistic stuff and image.

I will give J lo one thing though- she seems to always maintain a relationship with children from previous relationships. Like marc’s kid from his previous relationship and ben afflecks kids have been hanging with her.
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I think she is a massive narcissist and overrates her abilities but at the same time she doesn’t seem to be a bad person, just a bit lacking in self awareness.
no comment on Ben but alcoholism isn’t good and I hope he gets help and support if he is struggling as it must be difficult for the children…. Perhaps Jen garner sticks around as he is the father of his kids to try to keep things as normal for them as she can.
 
Password4321 said:
Let us know what you think of it ❤ I became a big fan of Selena after I watched the film x
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Password4321 said:
Aww I love it too- mainly as I love Selena. I’m no JLo fan but credit where credit is due, I thought she was great in the film.

P.S love your avitar 👍🏻🤗
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That's where I got into JLo, I thought who's this and then I followed her career, I did like some of her music and have it on vinyl, i have not watched her documentary yet, I think I have to be in the right frame of mind for that 🤣🤣.
 
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