my 3yo still has her soother & bottle for bed & sometimes in the evening if she gets hit with a wall of exhaustion or she would be wrapped around my legs whining while I’m sorting dinner. The soother & blankie are far safer than her standing at the cooker with pots & pans on the hob.
my eldest was 4.5 & old enough to understand it was tkme to give them up as I spent a few weeks mentally preparing him for it. My 3yo isn’t quite there yet so I’m in no rush. We still have a lot of bad nights with her so I don’t want to take anything that gives comfort. We were in little one sleepsuits until recently too but now her legs are longer they’re actually a pain for nappy changing.
we stopped with suits a couple of weeks ago & potty training finally clicked this week so it’s def pjs from now on for practicality.
i really wouldn’t judge anyone using bottles & soothers at this age, I know there are concerns about his development, she has addressed this herself & anyone with children with additional needs will confirm that some need things a lot longer than toddler years.
i just hope with all the sickness he’s been suffering with that she’s sterilising them & replacing regularly. Some tonsillitis strains are highly contagious & with other small children regularly in the house it could easily spread. My son picked it up from a friends child as a baby & suffered repeat infections for over a year, I got it from him a couple of times having never suffered from it before