Janette - The_Little_One_Dublin

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Thumper said:
I wasn't at all thinking about it being too soon to share. I will passionately defend anyone's right to share a pregnancy as early or as late as they wish. Of course something may happen but as someone who has lost a baby at 42 weeks, there is no safe zone and obviously she'd want to be open if something did happen. Baby loss awareness day is a huge international day of recognition for babies who didn't get to stay. At 7pm (very close to when she shared her gender reveal) people all over the world are lighting candles to remember babies lost during and shortly after pregnancy. My feed is full of images of candles and spreading love and awareness. I'm sure like me, many bereaved parents came to follow the little one because of her losses/ the Alex and bobby suits etc. For her to not share anything about baby loss is bad enough but to share something which would be hugely triggering for many people who've lost a baby seems tone deaf. Not everyone who loses a baby needs to be an advocate, but if you do choose to be like she has at times, you have a responsibility.

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I was very surprised to see that. I really hope everything goes well but it just seems so soon for a big reveal when she’s just days past the stage of previous losses.
it would have been nice to let the boys have their day today & leave it for another time. Conor’s face, he hadn’t a clue what was happening.
I feel quite nervous for her, it all seems a bit too public considering what she has been through. I guess everyone is different though.
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To add based on her last story, I am more understanding on reading that about why she would choose to do the reveal today and I totally get wanting to savour the good moments. I still think it was unessesary and insensitive to share it pretty much during the wave of light.
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Totally agree she should have shared it maybe tomorrow
 
Dusty2020 said:
What’s she talking about, what happened today
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She went to a play centre & they were closed for a private party & she had to deal with a child having a tantrum as a result. Apparently it has happened her before as they’re not updating their hours on social media like a lot of places would.
She named & shamed but then tonight said she had taken the posts down while still moaning about it.
 
Ellegee said:
She went to a play centre & they were closed for a private party & she had to deal with a child having a tantrum as a result. Apparently it has happened her before as they’re not updating their hours on social media like a lot of places would.
She named & shamed but then tonight said she had taken the posts down while still moaning about it.
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She’s fond of a good moan! Although I get her frustration to be fair.. there’s no reason in this day and age for businesses not to update their social media pages daily
 
Ellegee said:
She went to a play centre & they were closed for a private party & she had to deal with a child having a tantrum as a result. Apparently it has happened her before as they’re not updating their hours on social media like a lot of places would.
She named & shamed but then tonight said she had taken the posts down while still moaning about it.
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They actually had a post up around 1pm to say closed for private party... they cater private parties and encourage you to check. Theres also a diff place not 5mins drive from her.
 
CeeCeeBloom said:
They actually had a post up around 1pm to say closed for private party... they cater private parties and encourage you to check. Theres also a diff place not 5mins drive from her.
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ah 1pm Is a bit late to be updating in fairness sure it wasn’t long after that that Jeanette posted about it & I'm pretty sure she said she checked ahead as it had happened before.
 
Ellegee said:
ah 1pm Is a bit late to be updating in fairness sure it wasn’t long after that that Jeanette posted about it & I'm pretty sure she said she checked ahead as it had happened before.
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I am just pointing out they do encourage you to check and have their times updated daily so it easy to check. There are also a number of places close by that she could go to and let the child have their play - just looks like she chose to let drama be created for sake of an IG.
 
If a child is prone to tantrums & it’s happened there previously, things can be worded in a way that won’t cause upset to the child like let’s try X & if it’s too busy or we can’t get in we’ll go to Y or Z.
looking at the comments she shared from others yesterday the place isn’t always great with updates. That would drive me mad but once you know it might happen you can prepare kids in advance.
 
poppyseed1 said:
Is she on vacation again ?!
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She is, I was just packing away a stack of old suits to give to a friend & said to my husband these probably paid for this bloody cruise 😂 she must be raking in a fortune. Very basic ordering system, very basic website & calling in favours for launch days so she can keep her staff numbers to the absolute minimum. Is this her 3rd cruise in less than 2 years?
 
Ellegee said:
She is, I was just packing away a stack of old suits to give to a friend & said to my husband these probably paid for this bloody cruise 😂 she must be raking in a fortune. Very basic ordering system, very basic website & calling in favours for launch days so she can keep her staff numbers to the absolute minimum. Is this her 3rd cruise in less than 2 years?
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3rd cruise in about 6 months I say ! I don’t see the appeal myself but she has money to burn
 
Never seen this thread before she is beyond. Melt treats that little boy whose near 4 like a baby dresses her little girl like a boy or in shoes with big black socks and awful dresses the moaning is insane skip her stories now the new baby will live in little one suits god bless her
 
I don’t understand the popularity of these suits. They are crap. I got some when my baby was born from a friend. I never put them on him. They are sooo light. The material is cheap and feels rough. Can’t understand it at all.
 
Emma889 said:
Never seen this thread before she is beyond. Melt treats that little boy whose near 4 like a baby dresses her little girl like a boy or in shoes with big black socks and awful dresses the moaning is insane skip her stories now the new baby will live in little one suits god bless her
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I think the little boy has Autism so might have sensory issues , but yeah some of the girls outfits are questionable especially crop tops on young kids , such a no no for me, she’s not exactly a style queen herself though 🙈
 
poppyseed1 said:
I think the little boy has Autism so might have sensory issues , but yeah some of the girls outfits are questionable especially crop tops on young kids , such a no no for me, she’s not exactly a style queen herself though 🙈
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She has never said he has a diagnosis other than a speech delay, he’s actually come on so much over the last year. I’ve been following for a long time since I can really see it. I know this sounds horrible but I think she really babied him to compensate for the babies she lost because she didn’t think she would have another after.
 
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