James and Maeva Made in Chelsea

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AbnormalFrog said:
It's so odd...in the early weeks with both my babies I was constantly checking they were breathing. Which isn't a great way to be, they both needed help to breathe when they were born and my son stopped breathing his first night so I think i was overly anxious about it...but I cannot imagine not being able to check on my newborn baby. I had SUCH a huge sense that no one could look after these kids like I can.
It's sad.
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I agree, I really struggled with PND/anxiety and for the first few weeks I struggled to let my partner hold my daughter, I was checking on her constantly and I just cannot imagine being away for 10 days.

My daughters a toddler now and I still couldn’t imagine not seeing her for 10 days
 
I was one of the people willing to give them the benefit of the doubt when baby first went to MIL and Jemz was skiing.

But date night, that is taking the piss. What couple has a date night when their babies is two months old. Let alone when they've not seen the baby for 10 days. You'd think she's be rushing to get him as soon as she was negative.
 
AbnormalFrog said:
It's so odd...in the early weeks with both my babies I was constantly checking they were breathing. Which isn't a great way to be, they both needed help to breathe when they were born and my son stopped breathing his first night so I think i was overly anxious about it...but I cannot imagine not being able to check on my newborn baby. I had SUCH a huge sense that no one could look after these kids like I can.
It's sad.
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I don't have health anxiety but as a first time mum I definitely had to keep checking she was still breathing! She's 10 months old now and I occasionally do it still. That's completely normal (I think/hope)!!

I can't really add anything new. I don't believe Maeva has health anxiety. I honestly think Maeva planned the pregnancy to force Jemz' hand and get the proposal (and wedding) she wanted. I know it's very anti feminist to assume but if it looks like a duck and quacks like a duck... I also think Maeva wanted a little girl and has struggled to bond with a little boy. Jemz didn't particularly want a child at this stage in his life anyway. Not really a great recipe for success. Poor little Beau.
 
Alexaj said:
I don't have health anxiety but as a first time mum I definitely had to keep checking she was still breathing! She's 10 months old now and I occasionally do it still. That's completely normal (I think/hope)!!

I can't really add anything new. I don't believe Maeva has health anxiety. I honestly think Maeva planned the pregnancy to force Jemz' hand and get the proposal (and wedding) she wanted. I know it's very anti feminist to assume but if it looks like a duck and quacks like a duck... I also think Maeva wanted a little girl and has struggled to bond with a little boy. Jemz didn't particularly want a child at this stage in his life anyway. Not really a great recipe for success. Poor little Beau.
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Yes it wouldn’t it wouldn’t be a surprise if she had planned it, so she can put a lock on James. I think with Meava she would like to be a stay at home wife, while James brings home the bacon. Now that it’s been a month since they had the baby, it’s started to set in how hard it is. I don’t like to judge someone’s parenting, as I can imagine it’s incredible hard, but I hope they don’t just don’t dump him off to MIL when times get tough.
 
Maeva very openly wanted marriage and kids by a certain time. I mean she even proposed first. James said yes to marriage/kids, but later down the line. If he feels trapped I would put the blame more on him than her as she had an explicit timeline.

On TV it looks like Maeva is the controlling one but remember James wasn't the nicest character before he met Maeva. He appears the weaker of the two but somehow convinced her to leave London for his f*cking country-SIiiiDE! Let's not forget he cheated by kissing other girls.

I do hope they get it together as they seemed sweet on their tv special.
 
Alexaj said:
I don't have health anxiety but as a first time mum I definitely had to keep checking she was still breathing! She's 10 months old now and I occasionally do it still. That's completely normal (I think/hope)!!

I can't really add anything new. I don't believe Maeva has health anxiety. I honestly think Maeva planned the pregnancy to force Jemz' hand and get the proposal (and wedding) she wanted. I know it's very anti feminist to assume but if it looks like a duck and quacks like a duck... I also think Maeva wanted a little girl and has struggled to bond with a little boy. Jemz didn't particularly want a child at this stage in his life anyway. Not really a great recipe for success. Poor little Beau.
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My boys 2 and I still have to check he's breathing. He does look dead when he's asleep though. It's a mother's nature to check on their baby and need to be near them. Which is why Meava behaviour seems so odd.

But I think rich people are raised to reject human behaviour, they think they're too civilised and cultired for love and feelings. Most of them have kids then outsource care to nanny's and boarding schools.
 
Pumpkin84 said:
She looked abit underwhelmed on the gender reveal episode when they cut the cake open
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As I mentioned before on the thread we got kicked out of lol 😂 this was the first visible point (possibly had before) she detached. When she said “I’m overwhelmed” she’d begun to check out and that was at an early scan. Motherhood shouldn’t be and isn’t for everybody (nor should you never be able to have a break from your children) but so soon(!) and for so long (!)

She wanted this, fought for it and thought it would be easy not really caring whether she would be good at it or not. Shes spoilt selfish and very unlikeable and I feel sorry for the baby.
 
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