Jade Billington #3 Jade's gone AWOL, is Matt off the payroll?

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Jesus Christ she's a knobhead😂 'obviously I've known about these things for a while' this is her 'friend's life she's talking about like it's hot gossip😳
 
I really feel for Jade. I truly believe there are better and happier times ahead for her even if things are tough in the short-term.

I always felt Matt came across as quite an insincere person. Having said that, people, regardless of gender, have every right to leave a relationship if they are unhappy. I think it’s a bit unnecessary that nasty comments are being left on his insta. A break-up can be devastating even when you’re the one who has instigated it.
 
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Brogan’s response on her post irritates me. It’s like she’s making it clear she knew
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I saw the same comment and people were quite annoyed with her. Tbh it didn’t bother me, all of us are just now finding out for sure and we could all say something along the same lines about knowing how hard the past weeks have been
ETA: okay y’all I saw her IG story she’s terrible And I revoke my previous statement 😂
 
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Finished work and just noticed her IG post and 9
new pages on here🙃

I really feel for Jade. I have been with my husband for 12 years as well and I couldn’t imagine your entire world being turned upside down like that when they did so much together. Tbh after re watching that last video back Matt didn’t seem himself and looked upset/as if his mind was somewhere else.

I wonder if she will move to be closer to her family now. I can imagine it would be really hard to stay in their current home. And she just renovated ‘their dream kitchen’😬 I’m sure I remember Matt saying he doesn’t actually have much of a family. I hope she continues with her channel, maybe back off so many of the IG ADs, try to be more true to herself, take inspiration but not copy her fave influencer and gain some confidence back.

Hopefully she doesn’t let any toxic people suck her in such as gabriella, sophie&dave and brogan while she is so vulnerable!
 
Well this has been a wild day. I haven’t been on here in months and hadn’t even considered that the sabbatical could be because of anything other than mental health, bereavement, or some other reason they have given in the past for not posting. I don’t closely follow really any youtubers and honestly just don’t give a tit if people (in the public eye) drop off the face of the earth with no explanation, so I suppose I just never thought about it.

My mouth literally dropped open when I read her post today. If someone asked me why I thought there had been silence for a couple months i never would have even thought of them splitting. Sophie and Dave irritate me to no end but I actually like Jade, and regardless I can fathom my long term partner leaving me with absolutely no warning.

Many years ago I had a boyfriend cheat on me but he came clean and asked if I would consider staying if he/we went to therapy. We went to a few sessions and I remember wanting to slap the therapist because she made a snide comment about me not having any idea. It’s somehow more painful when you have no idea it’s coming and you’re totally blindsided, plus there’s this internal shame that you should have seen the signs.

Absolutely heartbreaking, and I hope she knows that she’ll be better off without him, even if it doesn’t seem like it now.
 
Long time lurker,
First time poster👋🏼 I used to love watching Jades videos (the Florida vlogs) apart from the baby voices and the constant thumbs up🤦🏼‍♀️ I actually enjoyed watching them and felt them to be a nice, genuine couple. Shocked about what I’ve read about her and Matt honestly did not see that coming!! He always looked to be smitten with
 
I wonder if he did do the dirty and the person he did it with found out about jades YouTube etc and threatened to expose him
And that's why he looks so not himself on the video
Maybe he's got in the back of his mind what could end up in the comment section
 
Theory: I feel like the sexuality reason makes sense and also offers an explanation as to why there was no reason.

“This is it” suggests that he’s finally done with the relationship so he’s been battling and contemplating this in his mind and it’s over because he can’t keep it up anymore. But maybe he isn’t ready to tell her that it’s because he’s gay because he might not be ready to tell anyone and it would render their entire 12-year relationship void and make her question if anything was ever genuine and he knows she deals with self-esteem issues. In the same vein, he doesn’t want to make up a reason like “I’m not in love with you anymore” because that makes it sound like she did something wrong and he wouldn’t want her to feel that way.

If he is gay, trying to conceal it and overcompensating with Jade, while I don’t agree with it, must be so exhausting.

I might not make sense, it’s late😂😅
 
I honestly can empathise with both of them.

I've been in Jade's position - broken up with seemingly out of nowhere after 8 years. I didn't eat and barely moved from bed for weeks. It's awful and I feel terribly for her.

BUT - and hear me out - my relationship after that which lasted 3 years was ended by me. I felt really trapped with a person I just didn't love and because of a few financial and logistical factors (we lived abroad together at the time), I stuck it out for way longer than I should have even though I knew there was no future for us.

Listen, if there's someone else in the picture then I agree - he's a POS. But if he just knew it wasn't right for a while and had to build himself up to do it then to be honest, I kind of get that. When it happened to me I kind of just reached a boiling point and blurted it out one day after about a year of wanting to. Not justifying it at all - Jade deserved better, just saying I've been in his shoes too and it's also not easy.

Also just for the record - I definitely think he's gay and couldn't fight with it anymore.
 
He is on his Instagram as his comments are being filtered out .... not deleting all the split comments so people going on his page will be able to see that he and jade have split - but taken out all the nasty comments about him being a rat and cheat etc

New thread title idea:
Matts in the dog house but we still want to hear about Mickey Mouse
 
I don’t understand how anyone can post 6 weeks ago ‘ ‘love this photo of us❤️‘ under her photo, and then literally days later want to end things. You just don’t do that to someone you’re suppose to love and care for.

I understand you can fall out of love, and he does have every right to be happy but I do think it was out of the blue since he posted stuff like that right up until the very end, it’s not like he slowly showed any signs or hint, she said she had another video to go up - so I presume they filmed another video and then suddenly, he just came out with it. To me that’s just a horrible, horrible move and I hope karma comes for him
 

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I've just thought- didn't Oohlalala (Jade's sister) say it's hard seeing two people you love go through something hard? (Something like that...)

So if my sister's husband had cheated on her, there's no way id have said i love/care for him. Making me think the cheating might not be true.

I kinda wish we had'nt worked out Oohlala was jade's sister, as she might have been more willing to share more stuff then :(
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This is a good point. Although she may not know he cheated if even Jade doesn't ...

On a separate note, my ex was cheating on me (he had cheated before with someone else who tried to tell me but I tried not to see it). He is now married with a child to the second one. He refused to give me an explanation at all and even one of our best girl friends in the group said "maybe there just isn't an explanation". I mean wtf. There obviously was!
 
I have been thinking about it... I feel like what she means by no explanation is that he didn’t say there was a problem/someone else/that it was her. I think he probably did just say this is it, I don’t want this any more but couldn’t give her a reason as to why, he just didn’t want to be with her and you can infer from that it’s because he was no longer in love with her. They’ve obviously spoke since because she knows he “isn’t returning” to social media. I don’t think he literally said “this is it” and walked out. I understand why she wouldn’t divulge in the entire conversation they had as she is probably still trying to understand it herself. They could have had the smallest of bickers and it all came out. I know they claimed they never argued but my friends say this all the time despite having seen them have full on ding dongs but they truly believe they don’t argue haha!

If he has left her because of his sexuality, she may well be protecting him as he may not be ready for the world to know. I can’t imagine she will give more information, there’s not really a need to is there?
My hope is she’s okay, she must have been blindsided as she uploaded that video and the comments he put on her photos mere days before this all potentially happened doesn’t give off vibes of wanting to end your relationship.
 
I rewatched recent vlog and Matt is definitely not himself... deffo something on his mind. He looks guilty. The question about never going to Disney together and then about booking a surprise trip to Disney ... he was very very quiet when she said we often know what each other is thinking and how long they had been together.

I actually watch this hating him...looking back on his insta too last May wife appreciation posts etc hmmm I just don’t know it seems so sudden for him to have hid it for so long if he’s just fallen out of love with her so i deffo think he’a cheated. Never liked him always found him very insincere. Poor jade I’m honestly gutted for her
 
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