I only do JM threads. I lost a family member due to corporate manslaughter/ greed. I came across Jack appearing to appoint herself as some sort of expert, when even a small amount of background reading showed she had no formal training to be speaking in the way that she was. She appeared, to me, as almost enjoying the devastation, feeding on the tragedy. I put my feelings down to grief and told myself to stop being so ungracious and that any publicity meant greater awareness. I now understand that it is possible that she profited from people donating to her due to pretending to help a situation when she had no place or real expertise to do so ( her Dad being a fireman is not expertise by proxy) and I am very angry. She cluttered up social media trying to be the big ‘I am‘ when a person I loved died, many other people died and her ‘proxy emergency service expert act’ was deeply disrespectful/ misleading - I have huge feelings about this.
I ignored Jack for quite some time ( fairly easy as she isn’t that well known in this country) but earlier this year some UK colleagues wouldn’t shut up about her. I voiced concerns and started lurking here, feeling that perhaps I was being unfair, grumpy and as one colleague suggested ‘over sensitive’. Tattle made me realise that my anger and misgivings were justified. It takes all my self discipline not to call out my colleagues or at least set their browser tabs permanently to Tattle.
I am so impressed that in between the banter, good humour etc… are a collection of people who just simply want to stop the lies and exploitation. Too an extent I think many of us recognise that Jack probably has a serious psychiatric/ personality disorder. The acolytes enable her to do harm to herself, her child, her animals and faceless, nameless individuals who, in good faith, donate to her very expensive lifestyle. She also undermines every frontline emergency worker in the country but she is never called out for it, except on here. I also believe the media who use her as a face to fit their space are equally happy to besmirch Tattle because they are culpable for creating her and encouraging the ever growing BS.
I also don’t know of any other Internet forum where right wing, left wing, GC, trans supporting people etc etc co exist without ripping each other’s eyeballs out via rusty spoons ( or perhaps am too slow to notice?). Not to mention those who devote hours to archiving, comparing, checking, politely and kindly answering questions, sometimes the same questions repeatedly without a hint of snark, superiority or malice.
Jack could learn a lot about internet behaviour here, as could others. I want Jack stopped, I also want her to get help. But as one trainer at a work event I attended said ‘ If you have the Prince or Princess in your room, you can bet that the King and Queen are at home‘ Jack will have learned some, if not all, of her behaviours, grandiose saviour complex from somewhere imho. Sorry, shutting up now