Your concern for her is commendable
@Lanie but I shan’t be joining in. From what I see, she’s got nobody to blame but herself. So many genuine, hardworking people have lost so much in the last year and there will be many others who have clung onto their businesses through real adversity (and probably without the chances and opportunities Jack has had)
She has had months to prepare for this. She recruited an Accountant/Sunday School teacher to assist. LJC could undoubtedly point her in the direction if he wasn’t available but she just can’t deal with important things in the here and now. I know next to nothing about ADHD and don’t doubt for a second that could have contributed if it’s applicable here…but if a person chooses not to factor in their difficulties then things will go wrong.
IMHO she is a procrastinator and a daydreamer, always looking for a distraction rather than do another cookbook or do her taxes or apologise to people. She’s also got a (left over chippy) chip on her shoulder that I too think contributes to her problems.
Whatever is occupying her weeks just now, I hope it’ll help her identify her strengths and weaknesses. But she’ll have to tackle this head on, burying her head in the sand will only make things worse.
I’m wondering if the tidying the room video came from her trying to work on her defects? Idk, it strikes me as something someone would put into the “what gets on your nerves that you can do something about today?” I’m sure I’m reading wayyyy too much into this!