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unhinched said:
Has he always done that or is it just since his sister was born? I don’t have sound on for stories and normally read hers but otherwise flick through quickly so must have missed this. I mean he’s two and two year olds can be pretty wild so I don’t think this is outside of the range of normal.
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She quite often posts that he was so unsettled at bedtime or nap time and cries / screams and they take an hour plus to settle him. It’s definitely not a new thing. My oldest is very highly strung and used to be a nightmare to get to sleep as a toddler but never crying / screaming and I don’t know anyone else whose child does that. I wonder if she just exaggerates it. Or maybe he’s just in a rage from constantly having a camera in his face and being hovered over while he eats!
 
I wonder how much support she is getting at home. She seems to be out a bit for self care, and also how many gifted swaddles does she need. I don’t know why people who have money have to be gifted self care and things, surely other people who are more relatable could influence as much. I had support but I would never have been able to get out as much she has, especially with her PPH that she was able to take selfies with.
 
That is insane! She's like 5 weeks old being held by a 2 year old, on a stone floor 🤦🏼‍♀️

"He's the best big brother".... Til he's not and he drops her 🤦🏼‍♀️
 

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MilkAndTwoSugars said:
That is insane! She's like 5 weeks old being held by a 2 year old, on a stone floor 🤦🏼‍♀️

"He's the best big brother".... Til he's not and he drops her 🤦🏼‍♀️
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Raced here to say the same thing!!! My eldest was 5 when she finally became a big sister and we NEVER let her hold the baby standing up - she was always sitting down, and had an adult hand supporting bub’s neck when she was a newborn. Charles is hardly more than a baby himself - SO stupid.
 
she is unbelievable. “we have a son and a daughter, isn’t this just the best?!” followed by “if you’re struggling in the ivf shitstorm then its not a walk in the park, hang in there”. is she ok?!! sleep deprivation maybe?
 

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MilkAndTwoSugars said:
she is unbelievable. “we have a son and a daughter, isn’t this just the best?!” followed by “if you’re struggling in the ivf shitstorm then its not a walk in the park, hang in there”. is she ok?!! sleep deprivation maybe?
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So tone deaf!
Followed by ‘I really should write a book one day’. Oh that would be a fascinating read. How about just a one-liner ‘don’t wait until you’re nearly a pensioner to have children and then cry infertility’?
 
MilkAndTwoSugars said:
i wonder where Charles is, maybe hubby has the day off, or she got a nanny afterall x
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As soon as she was pregnant I thought poor old Charles will be shoved off to daycare full time!
Absolutely no shade to daycare, both my kids went 4 days from just under 1as I had work. But it’s different when it’s just so someone can have that yummy mummy lifestyle with just the baby with them pretty much full time.
 
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