I think it's exactly this....now making out an actor's career and their personal lives are not related so her abuse hasn't caused career damageI agree. One possibility is that Alice has been told by the lawyers that she is damaging Ioan's career and Ioan specifically outlined her threats to do so in his TRO evidence. She is now trying to build a defense by supporting someone who has been accused of cheating by publicly saying she is able to separate an actor's work from their personal actions, so how could she be guilty of trying to harm Ioan's career when all she is doing is 'speaking her truth'?
yep she totally only accused him of cheatingI agree. One possibility is that Alice has been told by the lawyers that she is damaging Ioan's career and Ioan specifically outlined her threats to do so in his TRO evidence. She is now trying to build a defense by supporting someone who has been accused of cheating by publicly saying she is able to separate an actor's work from their personal actions, so how could she be guilty of trying to harm Ioan's career when all she is doing is 'speaking her truth'?
Damn, that is funnyOucassi's 'Boxed Wine by the Manky Pool' was a beautiful painting, though.
Either way, he must be thanking his lucky stars that he managed to offload her with absolutely no backlash on him, and she'd have been delighted to think two men wanted her at the same time. IME the only way a narc moves on is if it's their idea, and then the person they're leaving might as well not exist (until the person they leave has the temerity to find someone else)AE met IG on the set of 102 Dalmatians so OP didn't introduce them. He "had no problem with them sleeping together" because he was probably getting the ick about AE and we know he didn't want to marry her anymore. IG took AE off his hands and was therefore a godsend. (He may also have been questioning his heterosexuality at this point - we don't know). She lived off him alright but the little work she got might not have been to do with him calling in favours. I doubt it happened that way, but who knows.
He "was gay" - later on yes or he's bi both now and then.
That meeting with her lawyer, which she's never told us details about, must have gone really well then.I think it's exactly this....now making out an actor's career and their personal lives are not related so her abuse hasn't caused career damage
I did wonder if this was a salvage operation. Now I'm wondering if something is going to come out about Alice and she's testing the waters, but who knows what goes on in her headI agree. One possibility is that Alice has been told by the lawyers that she is damaging Ioan's career and Ioan specifically outlined her threats to do so in his TRO evidence. She is now trying to build a defense by supporting someone who has been accused of cheating by publicly saying she is able to separate an actor's work from their personal actions, so how could she be guilty of trying to harm Ioan's career when all she is doing is 'speaking her truth'?
I think this is also because she has finally figured out she is a toxic substance in Hollywood. She has woken up and realised that TV is the only medium she may be considered. She knows she is not glamorous enough for a 'Real Wives' and may have twigged that Hallmark won't touch her with a barge pole (they have disconnected from Lori Loughlin). Her brand of scorched earth revenge is coming back to bite her and she is back peddling. I think the only thing that will work is a good 3 months off to rehab for 'exhaustion & mental stress'. She can come back thinner, healthier and hopefully with a better outlook (or at least more self control), do the relevant 'mea culpa's' and start working again.
The story I read - Olivier drove her to the studio that morning and intro'd her to Ioan who he already knew.
AE said OP introduced them? I'm taking that with a very large pinch of salt. IG and OP were not exactly moving in the same social or work circles. I think this is her way of saying because "he introduced us" - translation - he didn't mind us shagging despite our engagement.
You always have to question AE's "truths".
I agree with Alice, I as a rule separate the artist's personal life from the art, too.
I suspect, tho, that Alice wouldn't say this about Bianca's art.
With Ioan, she's in an interesting position: You can bet she wants him to fail sooooo bad with all his future projects. But that means less money for the girls and possibly herself.
AE said OP introduced them? I'm taking that with a very large pinch of salt. IG and OP were not exactly moving in the same social or work circles. I think this is her way of saying because "he introduced us" - translation - he didn't mind us shagging despite our engagement.
You always have to question AE's "truths".
Alice is a nobody to her. Alice's little Instagram comments mean nothing to her. I doubt she will ever notice a nobody's comments.I hope Lily James finds out she’s the latest pawn in Alice’s battshittery and tears her a new one
When I see something funny on the internet I usually laugh in my head, sometimes I might give a little chuckle. But Olivier Oucassi made me laugh out loud. What a start to the day! Thanks, Alice.Now Alice is name dropping her Ex Olivier and his Mom what a coincidence, after reading that BW was in France with Mama and Papa G.
I just think its hilarious, the way Alice is always competing with her. Its a one sided competition though, but the smartest woman in the room is too dense to realize that
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@Autisteuse and @ReturningthePearls i had a great big message type to you guys, then it all disappearedI think, despite everything that you're going through, you're doing fantastically well. You habe great self-awareness and grace in admitting that your coping strategies perhaps aren't the best way to go about things. And you're loved and supported by this fantastic community.
I wonder if you apply what you've learnt as a grief counsellor to yourself, it might help? Part of the problem with havimg narc parents is realising that no matter what you do, no matter how far you twist yourself into a pretzel shape trying to gain their love, acceptance and pride, that it's never going to be enough. And that's definitely no fault of ours: THEY are the ones who lack empathy and are unable to love. But it feels like a kind of bereavement to come to that realisation, and to cope with it.
Be kind to yourself. You deserve all the kindness in the world. xx
my fave Oucassi painting entitled “Bert and Ernie”Olivier Who?!
mAlice is trying to compare herself and her situation to Pam to try and redeem her terrible reputation. What a transparent fool!She even manages to insult Pam in a way, LJ gave her “humanity” and is more relatable than Pam herself. I understand praising LJ performance, but do you have to drag Pam down as well? Is the revisiting of her trauma not enough?
God she is such an hole
I don’t think that post has the reaction she wanted. Most people putting Pam’s view across or pointing out the hypocrisy of the LJ/DW affair
“All points of view are valid” Omg since when trying to be like Bianca much?