I've mentioned this before in previous threads, but please, consider that some of the Tattlers here are tall, me included.
Comments like this aren't helpful; Alice didn't look good with Ioan not because of her height, but because of her body language and attitude. There are several tall actresses and models with shorter partners, and they look fine together.
I don't consider myself to be manly even though I'm almost 6ft tall. Rather, I try and appear as elegant and feminine as possible. My boyfriend is also shorter than me, and I'm very aware that's not a social norm.
Also, the hostility and pointed comments I get from short women in real life really wears me down. Heightism is real and it seems it's the only body feature it's acceptable for people to make unsolicited comments on.