Ioan Gruffudd & Alice Evans #144 Dispatch to Officer Dibble: crackle... Be advised suspect is a Charlie Uniform November Tango, over.

[Feather fans]

Re she "cant work because…", “shoes only worth this much and wont solve the problem" etc etc - this is all behaviour and excuses of a person who is not interested in solving her problems. She wants to talk about them and get sympathy and attention. She is not remotely interested in getting rid of them. It’s a form of energy vampirism. I had a friend like this at school, when we were teenagers. She would come over and talk and talk about her problems, rejecting any suggestion of a solution explaining why it wouldn't work. We all get like this sometimes (and "sometimes" is the key word here) and need not solution but sympathy and hugs. But she was on another level, going on and on and on and on.. and when she would leave I started noticing I felt exhausted and drained and depressed. And that is in mid teens, when we are usually a bit less sensitive (in my view) to energetics like this. Luckily I had the strength to begin to distance myself and we drifted apart and she found someone else to feed upon, but Alice reminds me of her in her never ending string of excuses why the problem cant be solved. And come to think of it Im pretty sure that ex friend of mine was narcissistic
The mere language describing narcissistic traits pointing at this energetic vampirism: them needing SUPPLY. We discuss them at length from psychological point of view but I suddenly realised that from live energy point of view they cannot exist without draining this energy from others. There are also people parasites, the ones that leech on and exist only with the help of the host, but like many parasites in nature they form some sort of symbiosis and even can benefit their host in some ways. Narcs however suck out everything they can and move on, leaving almost an empty shell. Or if they loose supply, we have this - mAlice, thrashing around desperately trying to get at least some supply from somewhere.
She used to get attention with her outrageousness and over sexualised looks. Now all she has left is her problems. They bring her attention and this is currently her only supply.

 

[Lulugrace]

Yo I was just sitting here for a minute and I think I’m gonna start working out, maybe beginning tomorrow morning. I have been evading it for SO long, and the clothes in my closet have gotten tighter and tighter, to the point where I regularly cry about it—along with not being able to run on a treadmill for two hours straight like I somehow could six years ago, along with being winded walking up a staircase, and sweating walking up the hill near my house.

Idk I’m just saying that seeing Alice fall apart in every way has kind of helped me realize that I’m just as capable of being in the same boat (health-wise) if I don’t take better care of myself and practice self-compassion and patience. I feel a bit weird using someone else’s mess as inspiration to not be like them bc I try not to do that…but Alice is also an abusive piece of trash so I don’t care.

I wanna be fit again. I wanna fit into the fun clothes I bought years ago. And I don’t want to binge eat anymore. I think I’m gonna start working out starting tomorrow and drinking more water—I bought the great water bottle that I think @KikiFromNy told us about earlier—and eating better and IN THE RIGHT PORTIONS! I would like to change. I’d thank Alice for this but she doesn’t deserve my gratitude so let’s just pretend this idea randomly popped into my head lol.

PS: Please, pleaseeeee do not think I’m equating thinness to healthiness!! You can be fat and healthy at the same time, science has proven this like a thousand times lol. And also I hope no one thinks I’m fatphobic!!! As I think I have said before, I love bigger bodies SO much…on other people. I’m very self-fatphobic, which is an issue all it’s own that I need to work out. Please know that even without seeing any of y’all in real life, I am celebrating your immaculate beauty, every single aspect of you that makes you unique and enviable. I just wanna be my previous self again, and seeing Alice completely neglect herself kind of inspires me to do and be better.

I hope all of us can take a page out of this dumb witch’s book. ❤

Good on you for feeling motivated, it doesnt matter where that motivation comes from in my eyes. I've got a load of clothes that only just fit me, if I don't breath, that I brought just before pre covid and I often cry because I can't fit in them, so you are not alone there. You'll get back to where you want to be; and I agree this has nothing to do with size, you just want to feel happy in yourself, and I think we can all relate to that

I still don’t know why people of twitter don’t share her screenshots with her with proof of her lying. Even just a couple of examples. Prove to her she’s lying I see there are people calling her out which is great but she just says “where did you read that, how do you know that” and there’s never proof.

I've seen a couple of tweets of late, with screenshots proving she says one thing, then another. Problem is that person is blocked.
I've also called her out in the past with a screenshot and was blocked too, or I'd happily bombard her with proof she's lying!

 

[House of Tea]

Alice and her bruv, Baloney Tony, like to think that this thread is full of fans of Ioan. From what I read only a few people know his work on here and have followed him from way back, the rest of us know the name/seen him in a film, or only heard of him because his ex made their private lives so very public. I fall into the latter camp, I had seen him in series 1 Liar, and from reading here I realised he had been in a Jennifer Anniston movie I had seen. I had also seen Piers Morgan mention him as a golfing buddy in LA. That was the extent of my knowledge. I had never heard of Alice Evans, only as an adjunct to Ioan. She made herself infamous by her extraordinarily bad and mad behaviour.

This thread is not an Ioan Fan Thread - It’s an anti-abuser thread. Quite a lot of people on here have had personal experience of abuse by partners and family, and they see Alice for what she is, an Abuser. So it’s not an IG thread, it’s an AA thread (Anti Abuser or Anti Alice, either is acceptable.)

Speaking of AA - heres’s a handy link for her: https://lacoaa.org/meetings.php

 

[Ametrine]

The fact that she lies by saying she never lies is spectacular

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This woman LIED ABOUT HER bleeping AGE FOR YEARS and said SHE WAS FOUR YEARS YOUNGER THAN SHE ACTUALLY WAS!

I can't even, I'm so bleeping angry with her statement.

In this interview she did with the Daily Mail in 2016 about having IVF, she says she was 44 that year. Not true, she was 47. She was 41/42 when she had Ella, and 45 when she had Elsie.

Interview with the DM in 2016 about IVF

"And if just one person reading this makes a decision to start trying for a baby at 33 instead of 36, or if a single woman makes enquiries about the best way to freeze her eggs, then sharing my story will have been worth it.

Until I started trying for a baby at 37 life had been going according to plan. I managed the acting and the travel parts of my goals, knocking on doors until they finally opened, and slowly climbed the career ladder."

You were 40/41 when you tried for a baby Alice, not 37, you big fat LIAR. Four years can make a big difference in fertility, and this article is just full of fear-mongering and LIES.

 

[welp]

she is in a similar sense interesting as her mate Donald Trump is

if the acting career goes south (or if he wants to step back) I wouldnt be too surprised if he'd succeed in a presenter/narrator career.

 

[ReturningthePearls]

It goes beyond narcissism because she also is imo a sociopath. She is more than borderline or which ever other PD people believe.

Long post, but thanks for bringing this up cuz it’s important af:

I have been grappling with this for a while now, as y’all may have guessed from my flip-floppy posting about it earlier on. When Invictus joined us and gave some thoughtful mental health insight about diagnosing others, I remember apologizing to everyone because I was indeed playing armchair psychiatrist and I really try not to do that…but I’m gonna break my rule YET AGAIN.

Y’all already know I’m a Borderline and I saw some alarming symptoms in her (extreme impulsivity, difficulty regulating emotions, substance misuse, deep emotional attachments to certain people and therefore fear of abandonment when/if they leave) and I was like, “Woweeeee this ho is a Borderline!”

I still think she is…but to an extent.

It is possible to have multiple personality disorders (don’t read that as the illness called “Multiple Personality Disorder” haha). She shows a LOT of Borderline symptoms, but they are heavily overshadowed by symptoms of narcissism and, yes, maybe she’s a sociopath as well.

If it’ll educate anyone (and this is based off of factual info I gathered when I was diagnosed years ago):

—Narcissism primarily involves egotistical behavior, severe lack of empathy, excessive sense of self-importance. You are the cream of the crop. You are the “smartest person in the room.” You are more sexually desirable than anyone else. You need to be constantly praised. You need to be recognized as the most talented, the most gracious, the most hardworking, the most valued, the most whatever. You don’t understand why people feel what they feel, because you can’t envision their experiences from their emotional perspective.

—Borderline Personality Disorder is primarily identified as having difficulty regulating your emotions. Your emotional responses are unstable. I had to go two days without my medication a few years ago and I went to the grocery store. One minute I was smiling at customers passing by, gettin’ all excited over the options in the snack aisle, and maybe seven minutes later I can only remember being sprawled out on the floor a few aisles over, sobbing uncontrollably and whimpering nonsense to a startled old woman who was hurriedly tugging tissues out of her purse to give to me and asking me what happened. That’s the thing: I had no idea what happened. There are no triggers sometimes. Without medication (and therapy helps a TON), your brain chemistry can be an absolute roller coaster every hour/few hours—sad, then manically happy, then maybe suicidal, then numb, back to manically happy, back to numb again, then content, then furious, then sad. It’s extremely hard to control without good mood stabilizers and a therapist to help you cope; don’t get me wrong, some people make it out alive, but it’s no easy feat and it’s exhausting having to check yourself every ten seconds. Borderlines don’t walk around feeling like they need their ego fed. They just have an extremely low sense of self-worth that they turn inward towards themselves and struggle to process without necessary mental health resources, which can impact the comfort of those around them.

I’m against stereotyping people with mental/personality disorders, but hey, you wanna stereotype a Borderline just to remember who we are? Remember this: unstable moods/emotional, fear of rejection, terrible self-esteem. You wanna remember narcissists? Here: self-important, egotistical, zero empathy for others. There’s a huge difference.

I don’t say this because I feel that friends in here look at me and people like me in a hurtful manner and so I’m being defensive—not at all!! This is a piece of info more for the MANY who are lurking who might not understand the difference between the PD’s because BOTH are stigmatized. But BPD is not the worst thing; people just believe we’re terrible because they don’t like dealing with over-emotional, clingy people. NPD is the REAL bad one up in here.

Sorry, Diamonds, for the babbling lol. ❤

 

[Cariad]

she is in a similar sense interesting as her mate Donald Trump is
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if the acting career goes south (or if he wants to step back) I wouldnt be too surprised if he'd succeed in a presenter/narrator career.

she is in a similar sense interesting as her mate Donald Trump is
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if the acting career goes south (or if he wants to step back) I wouldnt be too surprised if he'd succeed in a presenter/narrator career.

another snippet of Ioan siarad Cymraeg ( speaking Welsh )

 

[ReturningthePearls]

I never get tired of witnessing their affection towards each other, I swear to goodness. They’re the kind of couple who inspire you to rekindle an increasingly troubled relationship with your other half, who inspire you to hug your partner just a wee bit tighter in bed at night, or who inspire you to hope for the day when you find someone who loves you that profoundly and effortlessly. I do hope I meet someone like that one day, damn. What amazing love. I’m glad he’s happy. I’m glad she’s happy.

YO LET’S ALL SEND THEM A MUFFIN AND TEA BASKET, YOU GUYS.

 

[Occleshaw]

Good on you for feeling motivated, it doesnt matter where that motivation comes from in my eyes. I've got a load of clothes that only just fit me, if I don't breath, that I brought just before pre covid and I often cry because I can't fit in them, so you are not alone there. You'll get back to where you want to be; and I agree this has nothing to do with size, you just want to feel happy in yourself, and I think we can all relate to that ❤


I've seen a couple of tweets of late, with screenshots proving she says one thing, then another. Problem is that person is blocked.
I've also called her out in the past with a screenshot and was blocked too, or I'd happily bombard her with proof she's lying!

post it anyway, as long as her followers can see the truth

 

[sevenyearbiatch]

I bet she has some amazing stuff in her wardrobe, despite her dubious style. She’ll never fit into her ‘thin’ clothes again the way she’s going, so she should get off her fat ass and catalogue what she has, then list it. If she set up an Instagram account linked to her main one, then spammed the hell out of it on her main account to attract followers, she’d sell so much. Movie/TV memorabilia, jewelry, clothes, shoes, her bleeping tit handbags etc. Due to her alcoholism laziness, she won’t be able to keep on top of it, so she could enlist Ella and Elsie to do the hard work. Photos of the stuff, the listings, the admin, the postage. Get those girls grifting for her and reward them with stuff. Fun Mom/kid activity right? ‘ellsiiiia, oh for fucks sake, whichever one you are, go find my vintage Dior gown circa 2008, that one I put on when I fell off danced on the table, you know?’
I’d buy that red ruffle dress she wore to one of the premieres, it’s gorgeous and reminds me of As long as it doesn’t have booze stains on it. My bid - $45. There Big Al, $45 big ones for ya

 

[Diamonds60]

 

[NewTurdOnTheBlock]

I wont be surprised if AE does have a cocktail of disorders and if she does have them, then NPD is definitely in that mix.

On the other hand, I am more inclined to believe that she is just being downright unkind and self-centred by choice. And saying that she might have a disorder could be like trying to justify/explain her behaviour. I mean, people don’t choose to have disorders and it’s a real struggle within and externally. But it doesnt automagically make them evil. Alice? She is hell bent in destructing lives, even those of her own children. The way she wakes up every morning afternoon spoiling for a fight and her disregard for good advice - Sounds like pure evil to me. In fact, her behaviour seems very deliberate and does not appear to be due to any lack of awareness or emotional stability. She is damn stable at being a c*nt.

 

[NarcRage]

Going back to the narcissistic supply point...I think she absolutely loves the fact that we are on here discussing her. The worst thing for her would be if she was so irrelevant that people didn't eve talk about her. She keeps directing people to Tattle so the discussion keeps going!

Tattle also is her perfect scapegoat. If police are called it not her fault it's those pesky Tattlers who have it in for her.

We are observers and recorders of what you say and do. Nothing more. If you don't like that, stop putting it out there.

Alice dear. The police were called because of YOUR actions. Nobody else's.

You are where you are because of YOUR actions. Nobody else's.

Anyone else would have sold the house and used the cash as a deposit on a new place. Taken the generous maintenance offered and supplemented that income by presenting yourself as a Phoenix rising from the ashes. There are plenty of good parts for older actresses. Look at Connie Britton and Jennifer Coolidge for starters. This could have been YOUR life - sharing the childcare and having the opportunity to kickstart your career. Instead you sit and point the finger at everyone else and plot yet more made up stories to further your victimhood.

You get one life. You've royally fucked yours Alice.

 

[Diamonds60]

Alice says she spent her entire life savings (100k) over the last 2 years. He is Obvs still paying all house bills. He only recently cut off the bank account. Maybe 4 months ago?
I get she had to pay Leon and some to Marie but thats It. You can’t use $100k in a few months. You just can’t.
She is trying to cover for this $100k but the truth is Ioan was paying her whole life until recently.

 

[NewTurdOnTheBlock]

Anyone else would have sold the house and used the cash as a deposit on a new place. Taken the generous maintenance offered and supplemented that income by presenting yourself as a Phoenix rising from the ashes. There are plenty of good parts for older actresses. Look at Connie Britton and Jennifer Coolidge for starters. This could have been YOUR life - sharing the childcare and having the opportunity to kickstart your career. Instead you sit and point the finger at everyone else and plot yet more made up stories to further your victimhood.

You get one life. You've royally fucked yours Alice.

☝ And it’s not like she is grieving and became so lost in deep sadness that she cant collect herself. She is raging! And raging for 2 damn years. And her refusal to take these self-preservation measures are driven by hatred and vindictiveness.

 

[Zippysays]

Going back to the narcissistic supply point...I think she absolutely loves the fact that we are on here discussing her. The worst thing for her would be if she was so irrelevant that people didn't eve talk about her. She keeps directing people to Tattle so the discussion keeps going!

Tattle also is her perfect scapegoat. If police are called it not her fault it's those pesky Tattlers who have it in for her.

We are observers and recorders of what you say and do. Nothing more. If you don't like that, stop putting it out there.

Alice dear. The police were called because of YOUR actions. Nobody else's.

You are where you are because of YOUR actions. Nobody else's.

Anyone else would have sold the house and used the cash as a deposit on a new place. Taken the generous maintenance offered and supplemented that income by presenting yourself as a Phoenix rising from the ashes. There are plenty of good parts for older actresses. Look at Connie Britton and Jennifer Coolidge for starters. This could have been YOUR life - sharing the childcare and having the opportunity to kickstart your career. Instead you sit and point the finger at everyone else and plot yet more made up stories to further your victimhood.

You get one life. You've royally fucked yours Alice.

Yes! I would have sold that house pretty quickly but that's just me, if I got the elbow then mentally I have to break the bonds and get that new start, the kids are much more flexible than we give them credit for, a new much more affordable home, making new memories and money aside from the sale. Plus regular maintenance and there you go. A new life. Maybe even getting into work! But no, she chooses to stay in her old mansion, leaves filling up a disused pool, a house she can't be bothered to keep up with and if true - can't afford. Who is she trying to convince out there? I've said it before she's no big celebrity I didn't know her at all and I'm almost 49! Ioan was the famous one. What is she clinging onto because those red carpet events are gone now, they went when Ioan walked out the door. She looks a sad washed up bitter and lazy woman. Arguing with strangers everyday, blocking anyone that asks her a question that might require a truthful answer. She wants sycophants all around her who actually don't do her any favours, they deep down enjoy the show, else they'd go away. Her brother tone who appears emotionally immature and their close relationship appears very strange and too cloying for any sibling. Who are they trying to kid because I'm looking on when I choose to have a snoop and I think yeah, whatever! You can fool some people some of the time but you ain't fooling most. Her latest exploits of asking for money I found absolutely outrageous! There are real people in dire need out there and they wouldn't dream of asking for help, because they are too polite and do not expect something for nothing. She's obscene she really is. As for the alleged police visit, there's so much to pull apart there it would resemble a badly knitted cardigan! She lies so much, it's not when she's lying it's more when isn't she? Hiya Alice by the way! Enjoying your day in bed today?

 

[MooBelle]

Sounds to me like the father of the friend called the police because they couldn't get hold of her and the police met them at the house....

That was the first thing that I thought.
The kid was the last one at the sport event and the teacher/coach rang Alice and got no answer. Any childcare setting that is left with an unattended child outside of the time limits (ie when they close) have a legal obligation to call the police. They aren't insured outside of the allocated times. Well, that's how it is in the UK and I'm sure US is same.
It also occurred to me that Alice called them herself. She knows her 'parenting ' is being called out. It's not much of a stretch to imagine her making one big effort to scrub the house, stay off the booze for 5 minutes and make a fake welfare call. She now has documented proof of being a perfect mother.
Narcs are very good at future proofing their lives. If they know there is a chance they will be called out on something they will have a handy backstory or excuse.

 

[Diamonds60]

How would one get hold of the police report? Asking for a friend

 

[sallygsoton]

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The reality
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lol him posting pictures with Christian Horner is the bigger sin for me than cheerleading Alice

(yes, Alice, that is one person I dislike more than you!)

I doubt she does consider it (unless they are rich), it's just to build a pack of cheerleaders on twitter imo

BIB - and just when I thought I could not hold Welp in higher regard…she pulls this out of the bag! I so agree ❤

She spends $500 a week on herself and the girls? What does she do, order ALL of their meals through UberEATS? That's ridiculous! She's living a caviar lifestyle without making an ounce of her own money. If you buy groceries and cook, it's not that expensive. And weekly haircuts? I think she means her online shopping habit. They do not need new clothes very often.

She is so financially reckless and irresponsible, IMO.

I so agree

She is a feckless waster, scrounging off vulnerable people who fall for her lies.

It’s embarrassing to witness

 

[Fed Up]

I genuinely wonder what Ioan ever saw in Alice or if she just got stranger as she got older?

In my opinion, she got much stranger during the Trump years. That fu__er brings out the worst in everyone.