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Witchfinder Sargeant said:
She doesn't have to go into the gory details but she could use her words. "I'm not well, can you make dinner?"
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The point I’m making is they won’t tell the difference! And I imagine they’ll be saying why? You never make us dinner.
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VeniVidiVicki said:
I’m convinced the whole autism thing is about unlocking more cash. She is now applying for DLA because she wants help from the Family Fund, who only give money to families with severely disabled children. Once she unlocks that, she’s apparently going to apply for PIP. I’m not clear what her lifelong disability is that means she’s unable to work.

She’s right that many children get DLA before they receive a diagnosis. That’s because they won’t assess for eg ADHD for children until they’re at least 6. CAMHS is also massively overwhelmed in East Kent and the waiting time is at least 2 years. My child was on the SEN register from reception, was awarded DLA at 8 but not assessed/diagnosed with ASC until 10 because he is academically able. Despite that, he finds a lot of things very hard.

Given what she says her children are capable of and enjoy, I don’t think her child being awarded DLA is a certainty at all.

Oh and i just want to address something someone said earlier in the thread - autistic children are typically not as capable as neurotypical children of the same age. Many ND kids of 13 would find it really difficult to make simple meals or do the laundry or do self care. My child is getting a lot better at doing things for themself but is way behind a neurotypical child of the same age.

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How many kids has she got?? I thought she had twin boys and an older boy? To my knowledge young kids don’t get pip, they get dla until 16 then they apply for pip.
Everything she says is confusing.
if she gets uc and dla for two kids she’s not destitute, why is she begging all the time? I reckon she’s a gambling addict. Has to be something like that.
 
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griftalo said:
The point I’m making is they won’t tell the difference! And I imagine they’ll be saying why? You never make us dinner.
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How many kids has she got?? I thought she had twin boys and an older boy? To my knowledge young kids don’t get pip, they get dla until 16 then they apply for pip.
Everything she says is confusing.
if she gets uc and dla for two kids she’s not destitute, why is she begging all the time? I reckon she’s a gambling addict. Has to be something like that.
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Yes something is definitely amiss if you are given a FREE £1000 over the course of a week, and then get the begging bowel back out immediately? For a uniform you’ve already been given money for twice? How long do you think it will be before she claims PTSD from the Aldi manager rightfully telling her to stop hol using up the queue by transferring money from her one and only bank account to her other bank account that she definitely does not have.
 
griftalo said:
The point I’m making is they won’t tell the difference! And I imagine they’ll be saying why? You never make us dinner.
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How many kids has she got?? I thought she had twin boys and an older boy? To my knowledge young kids don’t get pip, they get dla until 16 then they apply for pip.
Everything she says is confusing.
if she gets uc and dla for two kids she’s not destitute, why is she begging all the time? I reckon she’s a gambling addict. Has to be something like that.
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I think you’re right on the number of kids but I think she means (I think!!) that she’s planning on applying for PIP for herself and DLA for her ‘autistic’ twin. As far as I can make out, none of her children currently receive disability benefits.
 
DisgruntledGoat said:
I don’t understand why she needs to get cabs everywhere in the first place - surely where she lives has buses? She lives in Canterbury, not the arse end of nowhere. As a non-driver I can well appreciate that buses can be expensive and unreliable but every fucker else seems to manage to plan for that, and she crowdfunded bus passes for her kids, did she not??
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I don't know how much taxis cost in Canterbury, but where I am, I doubt £6.10 would probably not even get you a mile, so her teenage children could definitely walk if this is the school run
 
VeniVidiVicki said:
Oh and i just want to address something someone said earlier in the thread - autistic children are typically not as capable as neurotypical children of the same age. Many ND kids of 13 would find it really difficult to make simple meals or do the laundry or do self care. My child is getting a lot better at doing things for themself but is way behind a neurotypical child of the same age.
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Thank you, tenderstem.
 
I don't understand how anyone can think that video makes her look like she's in the right. It's so horrible to watch.

She's literally letting forth an endless tirade and barely letting the Aldi worker speak. At a few points the Aldi worker says "I'm not engaging while you're filming me" (or something like that, I can't remember the exact words and I'm not going back and listening to her yelling at her).
 
mchops said:
Isn't the most important thing getting a statement for your child so they can achieve at school more important than claiming money? It was when my son was diagnosed.
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It depends on how much your child struggles in school. Parents of children who are pretty much coping in mainstream have a massive fight on their hands getting an EHCP in Kent. Majority tory councils, lots of private and grammar schools and pockets of massive deprivation means there’s not much money and children’s services are horribly underfunded.
 
mchops said:
Isn't the most important thing getting a statement for your child so they can achieve at school more important than claiming money? It was when my son was diagnosed.
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You can certainly do both at the same time. I did one kids ehcp request myself. She doesn’t even need school to do it. They’ll make a statement for it obviously but as a parent you can begin the process.
 
VeniVidiVicki said:
Oh and i just want to address something someone said earlier in the thread - autistic children are typically not as capable as neurotypical children of the same age. Many ND kids of 13 would find it really difficult to make simple meals or do the laundry or do self care. My child is getting a lot better at doing things for themself but is way behind a neurotypical child of the same age.

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Reading back though, I think my point about her not being able to use ASD as an excuse for the boys not to help was a bit disjointed. I do apologise for how that read and if I caused offence. It was meant more in the way that she has 3 kids at home, at least 2 of whom definitely could be pitching in - and as a parent of a kid with additional needs (potentially) it’s her responsibility not to enable him to do nothing at all, but to make reasonable adjustments to his expectations to find what he can do in a way that works for him to nurture his independence. (She seems to insinuate her son is developmentally fine though - she only thought he might be autistic after his behaviour changed once he reached senior school).

I’m sorry though if it read differently to how it was intended! I do acknowledge that ND kids all have different skills and develop in different ways and face different struggles ❤

Mine thrives with anything methodical (like maths) and really really loves following through recipes and cooking (my kitchen is always chaos 😂) - pulled off a whole roast dinner solo at younger than her boys’ age too! Brilliant at household chores as well - as long as I write a foolproof step-by-step of instructions! (i.e. I have to write stuff like “tie up the bin bag from the kitchen bin and transfer it into the dustbin outside” because if I just put “take the bin outside” the whole kitchen bin will just be placed in the garden and then I’m like ummmm, where’s the kitchen bin?! 🤦‍♀️😂). Self-care though? Forget it. Tooth brushing, hair washing, baths, etc. Umm… a bit more tricky to encourage even with lists!
 
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mchops said:
What does ' othering ' mean.
You shouldn't be spending benefits on gambling then begging others for cash, in my opinion.
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it's a concept that actually was very profound in postcolonial studies with regard to the East and the West, in the sense that Western culture created an 'other' (with the implication that the 'other' subjugated was inferior to Western culture) and therefore justified colonisation. Like a lot of things with Internet culture, people use it for everything now.
 
ForgettyBetty said:
To clarify, is the £1000 mentioned last week or so including, or separate from, the "help" she got from a "food charity" AND the "general public on here" after the Aldi meltdown left her with nothing to feed her children at 8:30pm ?
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In total I think someone worked out that between buy me a coffee and the charity that gave her money it was about £1k. She tweeted it was “only” about £600 so even let’s ignore what people would have privately paypalled after she gives her sob story about not being able to withdraw her buy me a coffee (one specifically to cover uniform) , my question still stands. What the duck has she spent £600 in a week? £600 EXTRA that she didn’t know she’d get? Monroe levels of spending.

ETA: she plucked about 3 random things she’d paid for over the last year or so that added up to maybe £1200 and thinks this is enough evidence to prove her finances but she’s literally been given £1000s and doesn’t have much to show for it. She specifically got money for uniform, confirmed that in a tweet then begged for the same thing that week! There’s definitely something going on there and if I were a speculator I’d suggest the thing going on also explains the violent and abusive behaviour on X
 
lilykestrel said:
it's a concept that actually was very profound in postcolonial studies with regard to the East and the West, in the sense that Western culture created an 'other' (with the implication that the 'other' subjugated was inferior to Western culture) and therefore justified colonisation. Like a lot of things with Internet culture, people use it for everything now.
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Don't give her ideas. The last thing we need is yet another degree claim, this time in postcolonial studies. :D
 
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