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I know that menstrual conditions can be devastating, but equally, your period shouldn't be a surprise event. It's going to happen every month. You know if it's going to be bad, and you develop coping strategies.

I start taking pain a couple of days before. I make sure that I have meals in the freezer (I cook extra and freeze it for days when I CBA).

Yes, I know, privileged to have a freezer etc but life still has to go on even if I'm incapacitated, I can't retire to my fainting couch for two days a month. I live on my own, if I don't do it, it doesn't get done.

Maybe I'm being unreasonable but I would expect two 13 year old boys to be able to use a washing machine, cook some simple meals, iron a shirt, do some basic housework and be able to chip in when mum isn't well.
 
I cba today at all, I’ve not been well all week. Covid probably. (This thread has got me through, not gonna lie). We’ve got a homemade veggie cottage pie for later though because last time I made one I made three.

I think there’s a lot to be said for living for the moment, but you also have to live for the future.

Think ahead:
Can I make extra meals out of this meal for freezing for a difficult day so I don’t have to buy costly convenience food?
What non-essential can I forfeit so I can afford to put a little monthly amount in a rainy day fund?
Should I order this school blazer a couple of sizes up so that it lasts longer?
Does it need replacing, or does it just need fixing; and can I fix it myself?
Do I need it or do I want it?

She’s just frivolous with money and then wants the world to pay. Like why is she paying a carpet fitter when she’s in “poverty”? Why not have a go at doing it with her sons? There’s YouTube tutorials. I laid two carpets by myself when I was 41.5 weeks pregnant (last minute nesting) - it’s not that hard.
 
Witchfinder Sargeant said:
I know that menstrual conditions can be devastating, but equally, your period shouldn't be a surprise event. It's going to happen every month. You know if it's going to be bad, and you develop coping strategies.

I start taking pain a couple of days before. I make sure that I have meals in the freezer (I cook extra and freeze it for days when I CBA).

Yes, I know, privileged to have a freezer etc but life still has to go on even if I'm incapacitated, I can't retire to my fainting couch for two days a month. I live on my own, if I don't do it, it doesn't get done.

Maybe I'm being unreasonable but I would expect two 13 year old boys to be able to use a washing machine, cook some simple meals, iron a shirt, do some basic housework and be able to chip in when mum isn't well.
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IF it's true that she does have such bad periods, and at 45yo, she will be perimenopausal, regardless of severity of symptoms, then I do have a lot of sympathy for what she's going through. But as you say, you make allowances for it, and especially as a single mum, you just have to get on with things. I've had heavy periods all my life, but after starting peri in my mid 30's I suffered from horrific flooding, which would start out of nowhere and I literally couldn't move from the toilet until it eased up. I had a job to go to and two teenagers, so I wore two super plus tampons and a pad, and packed my bag with maternity pads every time I left the house, until I got a doctors appointment and a prescription for tranexamic acid. You can even buy it otc with your grifted money, Sarah.
 
Her spelling and defence of it

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WoolyMammoth said:
It's such a shame. Anyone calling anyone else things like that, especially children in a school (the lowest set reference above) who are already getting the crappy end of the stick if they are finding learning difficult, it's so disappointing.

I had to answer my own kid's question "am I stupid? X says I am". We're fortunate that ours is and was OK with school and exams so it was easy to bat that off. But it was said with the same worry and concern a child who was really struggling would have. Nobody should have to lose confidence that early. Particularly given once it's gone their chance of progressing just falls away because they've lost faith in their ability.
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To call the group the r****d group she is basically calling her own child that since that is the group he was put in.

Why hasn't she had her child tested yet? My youngest Grandson is only 4 and is being tested now for a diagnosis before he starts school so they have support in place for him to cope. I know each area are different with getting help, but at 13, so the whole of nursery (if the kids went there) and primary school no one noticed a problem? But in high school there is a problem? Shouldn't the school bring in a psychologist to assess in class? Why isn't she pushing for a diagnosis? As he would get extra help that he needs and could leave school with qualifications. Surely as parents we all want the best for our children?
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DameCarlotta said:
how on earth does she think the rest of us, who have issues with periods, manage?
I can not imagine not providing food for children, even if it’s a tin of soup or eggs on toast. She could have picked up a tin of beans when she went to the the shop for her chocolate?
Without being TMI, I suffer horrendously, so I do get it but if she can get to the shop she can heat up food for her kids.

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My periods were horrendous like a slaughter house for days. I still cooked for the kids. My work was really understanding and I did get those days as my days off so after it I had 0 days off on week 1 and on week 2 I only had 1 day off. I was attached to my TENS machine for the pain and paracetamol, but I cooked a meals. My GP sent me to gynaecology and I was approved for a hysterectomy. Off on the sick for 6 weeks, I went slap bang into menopause, but I was lucky I has no symptoms with menopause unlike my sister who ended up on HRT.

She should have a word with her GP if he won't agree with it send her to gynaecology and they would recommend her to have it.
 
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nothanksbabes said:
I feel so sorry for any woman with endometriosis, fibromyalgia, rheumatoid arthritis and the countless other invisible illnesses grifters have latched onto purely because women are disbelieved, so any skepticism that they might be being dishonest can be met with outrage and accusations of ableism and misogyny.
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StewPots said:
Makes me glad tbh that the main illness I have that leaves me genuinely bed bound ( like today ) or in hospital is very rare - so rare it’s on the NORD website and they’d never guess it. Least they can’t co-opt that particular one, or my (also very rare ) bowel condition.

The others get co-opted frequently by so many of these types of people and it really is bleeping maddening.

I had a “friend” once who said - no word of a lie - “I wish I could have your condition so I could stay in bed all day and not have to deal with my kids. You’re so lucky” 🤬🤬🤬

Yeah, I’m so lucky to be blessed with a ruined career, multiple stressful hospital admissions ( all of which exacerbated my already piss poor MH and I now have a form of bipolar and a personality disorder ) and being unable to do simple things with my kids without planning it like a military operation and still hoping I’ll be well enough to do it. I spent my 40th stuck in bed, and yesterday masked a whole host of tit to be able to give my son an amazing party. So duck off bleep.

Some people are just bleeping unreal and have no regard for other people’s feelings, experiences and how having a debilitating condition affects them ray to day. duck off.

Sorry that was a me-rail all 🧡
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I’m so sorry. They could be related to my mum who told me, while I was a struggling single parent with multiple health problems “you’re so lucky you don’t have to work”. It’s so insensitive.
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Witchfinder Sargeant said:
I know that menstrual conditions can be devastating, but equally, your period shouldn't be a surprise event. It's going to happen every month. You know if it's going to be bad, and you develop coping strategies.

I start taking pain a couple of days before. I make sure that I have meals in the freezer (I cook extra and freeze it for days when I CBA).

Yes, I know, privileged to have a freezer etc but life still has to go on even if I'm incapacitated, I can't retire to my fainting couch for two days a month. I live on my own, if I don't do it, it doesn't get done.

Maybe I'm being unreasonable but I would expect two 13 year old boys to be able to use a washing machine, cook some simple meals, iron a shirt, do some basic housework and be able to chip in when mum isn't well.
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I agree on the planning aspect, but I disagree about the boys, they probably can’t tell she’s “unwell” as it sounds like she’s always on the same level of inactivity.
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Naboo The Enigma said:
IF it's true that she does have such bad periods, and at 45yo, she will be perimenopausal, regardless of severity of symptoms, then I do have a lot of sympathy for what she's going through. But as you say, you make allowances for it, and especially as a single mum, you just have to get on with things. I've had heavy periods all my life, but after starting peri in my mid 30's I suffered from horrific flooding, which would start out of nowhere and I literally couldn't move from the toilet until it eased up. I had a job to go to and two teenagers, so I wore two super plus tampons and a pad, and packed my bag with maternity pads every time I left the house, until I got a doctors appointment and a prescription for tranexamic acid. You can even buy it otc with your grifted money, Sarah.
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Tranex user here too. Otherwise the toilet water goes black from the blood loss.
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Juliasez said:
To call the group the r****d group she is basically calling her own child that since that is the group he was put in.

Why hasn't she had her child tested yet? My youngest Grandson is only 4 and is being tested now for a diagnosis before he starts school so they have support in place for him to cope. I know each area are different with getting help, but at 13, so the whole of nursery (if the kids went there) and primary school no one noticed a problem? But in high school there is a problem? Shouldn't the school bring in a psychologist to assess in class? Why isn't she pushing for a diagnosis? As he would get extra help that he needs and could leave school with qualifications. Surely as parents we all want the best for our children?
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My periods were horrendous like a slaughter house for days. I still cooked for the kids. My work was really understanding and I did get those days as my days off so after it I had 0 days off on week 1 and on week 2 I only had 1 day off. I was attached to my TENS machine for the pain and paracetamol, but I cooked a meals. My GP sent me to gynaecology and I was approved for a hysterectomy. Off on the sick for 6 weeks, I went slap bang into menopause, but I was lucky I has no symptoms with menopause unlike my sister who ended up on HRT.

She should have a word with her GP if he won't agree with it send her to gynaecology and they would recommend her to have it.
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Regarding the testing, if she’s as crappy a parent as she seems, the normal thing for schools to do is point a finger back at the parent, get them to do a parenting course. So if she hasn’t engaged with that they won’t be arsed to do anything I imagine. I have four kids, eldest I got nowhere with and they got into the assessment as an adult, next one; school denied there was any problem and didn’t help at all, I had to get support and a referral through audiology at nearly 16yrs, next kid, school cba listening as not smashing classroom up and exceeding national
averages, we had to change school to get where we are now, 9yrs old and finally going to be assessed for adhd, luckily my youngest is being assessed too. I owe the last two referrals to our schools amazing sendco.

I would also like to add that I refer to all my children as my children. Not my asd/adhd kid. She’s vile for doing this constantly. Attention seeking ableist lazyarse bleep.
 
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Juliasez said:
To call the group the r****d group she is basically calling her own child that since that is the group he was put in.

Why hasn't she had her child tested yet? My youngest Grandson is only 4 and is being tested now for a diagnosis before he starts school so they have support in place for him to cope. I know each area are different with getting help, but at 13, so the whole of nursery (if the kids went there) and primary school no one noticed a problem? But in high school there is a problem? Shouldn't the school bring in a psychologist to assess in class? Why isn't she pushing for a diagnosis? As he would get extra help that he needs and could leave school with qualifications. Surely as parents we all want the best for our children?
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Because he’s only started showing traits since high school, because autism appears overnight like that of course - and those “traits” in an older child couldn’t possibly have anything to do with puberty, stress, poor sleep hygiene, adverse childhood experiences, adjustment, attachment, lousy parenting and boundary setting, etc.
 

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The woman that Sarah quote tweeted that she was a n and had her children removed. She never had children.

She thinks I'm someone called Kay and Kay did not know anything about the argument she had 5 years ago it was only stories she heard. Actually no I read it in real time, from the very beginning in May/June 2018 and right through every account she had. She was suspended and so was every sock account and her mum's account. She lost every account she opened and I followed her on every account and only ever tweeted her over animal charities. This one I could not be bothered to follow wait on JM story to surface or the days her football team plays and she needs to unlock. I'm only putting this here as I don't want someone else blamed for my post. She did post up here in JM threads but think she must have left. She still reads (obviously as she read my post and I was to take it down or ask Admin to or she will go to the police 🙈) as she screenshots posts about Sarah from here. She is right though my name here is not my real name and my email is not my regular email address.
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byefeliciax said:
Because he’s only started showing traits since high school, because autism appears overnight like that of course - and those “traits” in an older child couldn’t possibly have anything to do with puberty, stress, poor sleep hygiene, adverse childhood experiences, adjustment, attachment, lousy parenting and boundary setting, etc.
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My Grandson showed traits even as a baby, he does not have eye contact with you ever, he lashes out and has complete melt downs. The only person he does not lash out at is me, but I have a magic bag that has sweets in. He does not give kisses to anyone you need to kiss his head. He cuddles mum, dad his brother (if he is in a good mood) and his pets but no one else. Baby sat the other week and we watched the Grinch 4 times and he would not watch anything else. I must admit I'd never seen it before and was good the 1st time, by the 4th viewing I was fed up. Was glad when mum and dad was in and I left to go home. But traits were there well before then. He was diagnosed GGD from a baby and only ever hit 1 milestone and only just.
 
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Juliasez said:
The woman that Sarah quote tweeted that she was a n and had her children removed. She never had children.

She thinks I'm someone called Kay and Kay did not know anything about the argument she had 5 years ago it was only stories she heard. Actually no I read it in real time, from the very beginning in May/June 2018 and right through every account she had. She was suspended and so was every sock account and her mum's account. She lost every account she opened and I followed her on every account and only ever tweeted her over animal charities. This one I could not be bothered to follow wait on JM story to surface or the days her football team plays and she needs to unlock. I'm only putting this here as I don't want someone else blamed for my post. She did post up here in JM threads but think she must have left. She still reads (obviously as she read my post and I was to take it down or ask Admin to or she will go to the police 🙈) as she screenshots posts about Sarah from here. She is right though my name here is not my real name and my email is not my regular email address.
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My Grandson showed traits even as a baby, he does not have eye contact with you ever, he lashes out and has complete melt downs. The only person he does not lash out at is me, but I have a magic bag that has sweets in. He does not give kisses to anyone you need to kiss his head. He cuddles mum, dad his brother (if he is in a good mood) and his pets but no one else. Baby sat the other week and we watched the Grinch 4 times and he would not watch anything else. I must admit I'd never seen it before and was good the 1st time, by the 4th viewing I was fed up. Was glad when mum and dad was in and I left to go home. But traits were there well before then. He was diagnosed GGD from a baby and only ever hit 1 milestone and only just.
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I have to say that 🐉 woman is a bit odd too.

I know her entire life story, she says she’s been harassed, targeted, bullied etc. she says she’s had all her personal info put out online but I don’t know who this bunch of people are that are targeting her. Everything I know, is from stuff SHE has posted HERSELF (when her acc isn’t locked)
she is also another strange ‘tweeter’, she basically posts every brainfart she has.

also, the hypocrisy in a lot of her tweets it’s astounding. She can’t stand MH slurs jet calls people crazy etc. Shouts at both SJ and JM for saying they have everything worse, but then will tell a story of how, in fact, SHE has had it worse. She tells SJ to get off twitter and stop reading here, when she herself is GLUED to twitter and reads tattle and posts SS of everything here

sometimes I just can’t! 😂
 
She’s still using the Aldi situation she was wrong in to push the grift. Absolutely shameless. I hope they ban her from every single “stofe” after the way she bullied that poor manager.

ETA: I knew she’d be thick enough to get back on the grift, but I didn’t think she’d be thick enough to do it this soon. Seriously, what the duck does she spend her money on to burn through it that quick??

Also, imagine being so much of a crappy, horrible person you think you are in the right over that Aldi thing.
 
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I’m convinced the whole autism thing is about unlocking more cash. She is now applying for DLA because she wants help from the Family Fund, who only give money to families with severely disabled children. Once she unlocks that, she’s apparently going to apply for PIP. I’m not clear what her lifelong disability is that means she’s unable to work.

She’s right that many children get DLA before they receive a diagnosis. That’s because they won’t assess for eg ADHD for children until they’re at least 6. CAMHS is also massively overwhelmed in East Kent and the waiting time is at least 2 years. My child was on the SEN register from reception, was awarded DLA at 8 but not assessed/diagnosed with ASC until 10 because he is academically able. Despite that, he finds a lot of things very hard.

Given what she says her children are capable of and enjoy, I don’t think her child being awarded DLA is a certainty at all.

Oh and i just want to address something someone said earlier in the thread - autistic children are typically not as capable as neurotypical children of the same age. Many ND kids of 13 would find it really difficult to make simple meals or do the laundry or do self care. My child is getting a lot better at doing things for themself but is way behind a neurotypical child of the same age.

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VeniVidiVicki said:
I’m convinced the whole autism thing is about unlocking more cash. She is now applying for DLA because she wants help from the Family Fund, who only give money to families with severely disabled children. Once she unlocks that, she’s apparently going to apply for PIP. I’m not clear what her lifelong disability is that means she’s unable to work.
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She had to learn to WALK again.

ETA: not that it seems like the bone idle lazy bint did any walking before her “accident” anyway
 
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