Acuriousviewer
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She just looks like a child ;( needs more meat on her for sure.
Holly Gabrielle #9 makes a statement
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Just don’t understand why she feels the need to constantly compare her body back on itself if she says she’s recovered??? Like surely if she had body neutrality she wouldn’t even feel the need to post specifically about her body, she would just be living her life not even thinking about it anymore.
This suggests to me that she has a lot more work to get to a point of genuine neutral thinking with her body image! Posting about her body whether it has more weight on it or not is really not necessary imo
This suggests to me that she has a lot more work to get to a point of genuine neutral thinking with her body image! Posting about her body whether it has more weight on it or not is really not necessary imo
formerly_sitkx
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Every few years she says “okay NOW I’m actually recovered, unlike the last time” and the cycle repeats constantly. And she’s never actually recovered at all
Has she ever been in therapy? She clearly should
Also 10kg is not even much in ED recovery and considering it's probably purely muscle that she's gained.
I had anorexia in my late teens and have since gained maybe 20 (necessary) kgs and not just muscle. I have fat on my body now, as women are supposed to have and my body looks different but it also functions as it should. Her posting this and looking exactly the same is surely just trolling us hahaha
I had anorexia in my late teens and have since gained maybe 20 (necessary) kgs and not just muscle. I have fat on my body now, as women are supposed to have and my body looks different but it also functions as it should. Her posting this and looking exactly the same is surely just trolling us hahaha
What’s interesting about this though is that I do think she looks different- she has gained some weight for sure.
the issue here isn’t weight anymore per-se, but I think it’s more to do with her view of her body and relationship with exercise/fuel etc. weight gain or not, it’s clear she is stuck in a cycle. Her post on Instagram only makes this clearer. Repeating cycles of thinking she’s ‘recovered’ and trying to prove this to us by posting a photo of her having gained weight, only for her to realise years on that she actually wasn’t ‘recovered’, but is now because she’s gained an extra 5kg.
She focuses on the weight being the solution rather than the fact mentally she has soooo much work to do. Gaining weight in recovery is only a small part of the battle, and Holly is going about it 100% the wrong way.
the issue here isn’t weight anymore per-se, but I think it’s more to do with her view of her body and relationship with exercise/fuel etc. weight gain or not, it’s clear she is stuck in a cycle. Her post on Instagram only makes this clearer. Repeating cycles of thinking she’s ‘recovered’ and trying to prove this to us by posting a photo of her having gained weight, only for her to realise years on that she actually wasn’t ‘recovered’, but is now because she’s gained an extra 5kg.
She focuses on the weight being the solution rather than the fact mentally she has soooo much work to do. Gaining weight in recovery is only a small part of the battle, and Holly is going about it 100% the wrong way.
I mean to me she doesn't look different but I agree, rhe main this (as insaid) is the letting herself go comment. Insane. I don't think doe one moment she has gained 10kg between those photos, but even if she had she needs to gain more than that
macrofriendly
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Honestly I think she mostly does it because she knows it'll draw in views/engagement to her posts and content
crowleyskeeper1
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She claims that she knows herself well enough to know that therapy is not for her.
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We call that ED baiting which is terrible knowing that a lot of young girls simply watch for tips on how to sink deeper into ED. This is why is discouraged to post before and now and videos memorializing ED behavior purposefully..
Soo what are we thinking of her newest video? Personally, I cannot remember a lot, maybe because I did something actually fun while watching ^^ Anyway, she is going to move out next year.
That may be interesting?
Other than that, the usual stuff. She is happy, has no ED, loves her new job and is training for another run. Oh, and she is going to travel somewhere again.
That may be interesting?
Other than that, the usual stuff. She is happy, has no ED, loves her new job and is training for another run. Oh, and she is going to travel somewhere again.
irunforfun
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It’s quite worrying to think of how narrow her life is now. Everything is with Angelo. They work in the same room, they eat sleep train fart repeat together. Day in day out. He doesn’t seem to see friends (or the abused rabbit he abandoned), she doesn’t seem to have friends and aside from possibly conversing with her mum, it is just them. I can’t imagine them I reacting with anyone at VCO either. It’s unsustainable and so stifling!
Havent watched her in so long but watched the vids she uploaded this week and she has developed a new annoying laugh that makes me cringe so much. Also not surprised that she still struggles to pronounce basic things e.g bicester. Fair enough if youre not from the UK but cmon holly.
I hope she's pretending for "I'm so funny" content that jnflucners seem to use, if not this is just ridiculous
wolkenstadt
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The Vegan Campout Festival Video is so boring. And the event didnˋ t seem to make much fun, you could eat there and hear talks. Or they skipped some fun parts of the programme. They did not seeem to talk much to other people, but I think thats the sense of it: exchange with people about veganism.
What do you think?
What do you think?
irunforfun
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The VCO is what you make of it. It’s an opportunity to be surrounded by people with similar values and days of eating out and not once having to check whether it contains non-vegan ingredients! Mostly it’s about meeting up with friends, making new ones and chatting about anything and everything. But these two don’t know how to interact with others. And they don’t do anything really to talk about. So I imagine small talk (and big talk) would be a challenge. They are boring AF so of course their vlog will be boring AF!
Icing _on_ the_cake
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Holly only understands doing things extremely.
Controlling food extremely
Working out extremely
Studying extremely
Even when she tried to get into reading she set up some reading challenge. She can't seem to do things naturally or casually.
So therefore now she's dating, her approach is extreme.
formerly_sitkx
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This is spot on, she’s very very high-strung, and I think completely overwhelmed by anxiety deep down, so everything she does is tuned up to 100
So entitled too. "I think it's time I announce where me and Angelo are travelling too". Why do you need to "announce" this as if were all sat here holding our breath!