Glowupwith_becca #4 Fugly shoes, won’t drink booze. #freechris

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avabella said:
I really don’t think she had any problem with alcohol. L
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I agree.
Theres a difference between having an alcohol problem and knowing alcohol doesnt hold value in your life.

For instance, I have ocd and know I can go out and enjoy a drink but the next 3 days I will be paying for it in terms of my obsessional thoughts and feeling horrible. I now only drink on special occasions when Im willing to put up with the struggle after.
Deciding that the negatives of alcohol out weigh the positives doesnt mean you have an awful relationship with alcohol, it just means you arent willing to sacrfice your health for it.

Also it is hard being completely alcohol free, when i go out and say im not drinking, you get quizzed why. So maybe becca is setting boundaries by making it clear shes alcohol free
 
She'll start packing on the lbs if she eats too many of those date 'snickers' things.

For someone who is charging people for weightloss advice she's ridiculously unaware of nutrition.

Yes dates with peanut butter are more nutritional than a snicker but they're not when you slather on galaxy chocolate and definitely won't be less calories.
 
It baffles me how her Insta posts barely get any comments…I suppose she’s constantly getting them like TikTok?
 
I think she needs to cut herself some slack, most recent video crying over her first wedding dress try on. She seems to put so much pressure and expectation on herself. I also get this feeling she wants to have all these positive experiences for the content as well (what was it 3 different places they stayed on their last holiday?!) and if it doesn’t go perfectly, how she expected it or give her an opportunity to post on social media then she has a total meltdown.
I think she’s such a prime example of when social media takes over your life and starts to become toxic. Step away Becca!
 
Thats a really tough watch. This is a girl exactly as said above where every moment externally needs to be positive, Yaassss, robot dance.

Inside she is not happy.

Speak to a professional Becca as that might be a common reaction (based on the supporting comments) but it ain't healthy and points to a true unhappiness deep down that being skinny cannot fix.
 
Steffyweffy said:
What because the wedding shop staff didnt drool all over her or pan to her every need, shes on crying! I went to 7 wedding dress shops before I found my dress, its not uncommon. No need to come on and cry about it because you didnt have your fairytale moment.
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Totally agree. I honestly find this woman so so bizarre her toxic positivity is disordered behaviour I think . I think nowadays we all encouraged to be so much more ‘open’ and ‘in touch with our emotions’ since mental health is talked about more, which is great, and people are more supportive, but it’s like - if you think it’s ok to cry & be emotional about everything youl never be able to deal with anything. I found no nice dresses in first wedding shop I went to & just said ‘nah didn’t like that shop’ and moved on with my life ? She’s pathetic needs to grow up
 
Hello. New to this thread but been lurking on this nutjob for a while! I think she is angling for a gifted dress to be honest. She wants someone to step in to show her a 'good experience' along with a nice discount! Aside from that this woman is absolutely mad as a box of frogs. How she thinks she will cope with kids i'm not sure!
 
emmysue said:
Totally agree. I honestly find this woman so so bizarre her toxic positivity is disordered behaviour I think . I think nowadays we all encouraged to be so much more ‘open’ and ‘in touch with our emotions’ since mental health is talked about more, which is great, and people are more supportive, but it’s like - if you think it’s ok to cry & be emotional about everything youl never be able to deal with anything. I found no nice dresses in first wedding shop I went to & just said ‘nah didn’t like that shop’ and moved on with my life ? She’s pathetic needs to grow up
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Same, it wasn’t magical or dreamy or anything, I put some dresses on didn’t like them, the women weren’t particularly helpful so I left and went to a different one another day. We don’t have to feel big feelings about ABSOLUTELY EVERYTHING we do.
 
This is exactly why it’s called toxic positivity. I feel for her but I also hope it’s a wake up call for her.

There’s space for a range of experiences and emotions. Not everything has to be the result of you being the creative director of your life. Sometimes there are situations you can’t control.
 
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