Gemma Louise Miles #8 Xmas isn't such a cinch, visit primark, grab a grinch :LOL:

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tale22 said:
This pregnancy reveal is SUPER STAGED! They knew it was positive long before filming, how do I know? It's GLARING LOL, how comes of all pregnancy tests shes taken(from her mouth) THIS one happens to be the positive one that just so happens to be caught on camera. This is a planned content baby, her videos weren't as exciting since Jamie stepped into them and she needed something to spice it up, a baby, I called this last year. Soooooo predictable!🙄

Now on gender, girl babies get more views and items to advertise, bows etc, Gemma will be gutted if it's a boy. 🙃 Also Gemma follows Aaryn Williams, she will copy her content. Mark my words....

Also Gemma is silly, juggling wedding planning and pregnancy (newborn) is a trainwreck. Call me old fashioned, but there's a reason people do the wedding part first.
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Idk, she may have filmed the negative ones too but just not posted them?
 
She already buying Beige baby clothes
 

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tale22 said:
This pregnancy reveal is SUPER STAGED! They knew it was positive long before filming, how do I know? It's GLARING LOL, how comes of all pregnancy tests shes taken(from her mouth) THIS one happens to be the positive one that just so happens to be caught on camera. This is a planned content baby, her videos weren't as exciting since Jamie stepped into them and she needed something to spice it up, a baby, I called this last year. Soooooo predictable!🙄

Now on gender, girl babies get more views and items to advertise, bows etc, Gemma will be gutted if it's a boy. 🙃 Also Gemma follows Aaryn Williams, she will copy her content. Mark my words....

Also Gemma is silly, juggling wedding planning and pregnancy (newborn) is a trainwreck. Call me old fashioned, but there's a reason people do the wedding part first.
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I was going to say this too. She must have already taken one to be so so sure. I mean some women do know but she said she repeatedly had taken tests. So does that mean she filmed everyone and has backlogs of vids where they've been negative. I think not. She did it before but I don't think Jamie knew for sure coz he did look a bit shocked. I just don't get pregnancy reveals. Why not just sit down and tell the audience not show?
 
To give her the BOD. This is a pregnancy reveal video no? So adding in all the negative clips, if she filmed them, could be a) a bit upsetting if she's been wanting to get pregnant all this time b) the opposite of what she's trying to show in the video.
If I put myself in her shoes, I probably wouldn't post the clips either.
 
georgiecait said:
To give her the BOD. This is a pregnancy reveal video no? So adding in all the negative clips, if she filmed them, could be a) a bit upsetting if she's been wanting to get pregnant all this time b) the opposite of what she's trying to show in the video.
If I put myself in her shoes, I probably wouldn't post the clips either.
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Two things about posting negs and showing journey - her channel is somewhat an uplift, happy, fluffy, "cosy" (eek) channel and to show a neg (potentially several times) would upset and distress a lot of viewers who pop on there as an avoidance, a distraction from their own daily journey.

Equally, behind each youtuber/vlogger/all other media people, there are real humans, with their own real feelings and I'm guessing on occasions, they may not wish to show themselves sad or vulnerable? 🤷‍♀️

Yes it would be honest and open, but then would that balance out against a viewer's feelings?
 
Poor baby won't have any toys that dont fit in with thier home eaesthetic and IG feed... as bad as this sounds why do i feel like influcners have babies for content? Going to hell for saying that 😔 i have a baby i dont show her face online i couldn't imagine sharing intimate parts of my life on YT either.. its alien to me... the world we live in now.. also why do big companies like mamas and papas give out to these people?? Theyre not a small company we knlw they exist .. just so predictable all these greedy people getting thier freebies
 
Thatgirl__ said:
Poor baby won't have any toys that dont fit in with thier home eaesthetic and IG feed... as bad as this sounds why do i feel like influcners have babies for content? Going to hell for saying that 😔 i have a baby i dont show her face online i couldn't imagine sharing intimate parts of my life on YT either.. its alien to me... the world we live in now.. also why do big companies like mamas and papas give out to these people?? Theyre not a small company we knlw they exist .. just so predictable all these greedy people getting thier freebies
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My family members are in their 20's and I don't show pics of them or share stuff with my friends on fb or insta, I don't share any info on my pets either. I am one of those odd folk though, I don't have any pics out on show in my home of any family/friends/pets. They are kept in albums.

I'd really love companies to "loan" items to them for comparison and feedback, then the items donated to others who need them. I hate to see fairly well off online folk be given a pram worth hundreds, saying it's their fav thing, only for them to show another one 2 weeks later, then another..... :rolleyes:

Same with car seats, then bath time products. It would be better to show all 3 products and give honest reviews on them. To me, that would make them more helpful, likeable and honest. We know they get paid to show off, so you can't really believe what they tell you.
 
Thatgirl__ said:
Poor baby won't have any toys that dont fit in with thier home eaesthetic and IG feed..
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I have such strange mum guilt that my home isn’t filled with bright, obnoxious singing plastic shite. I have minimal wooden, montisorri toys which I rotate. Makes me sound like such a SNOB!! Babies really don’t need lots of toys, at the end of the day our grandparents probably had next to nothing and they developed fine.. I don’t think the colour of toys really matters
 
Yet another beige baby for content, with no doubt freebies galore. Absolutely does your head in. She's already got baby clothes from Asda, of the beige variety of course. Also Greenberry? or something. Think she's actually bought them though. Still not watched the finding out we're pregnant video, can't bring myself to.
 
Who is Asking said:
Girl. I dunno. Doesn't sit right with me, the hinting at a ttc journey, when so so many couples are overwhelming in their emotions and the ACTUAL excitement of perhaps its this time, each month that passes however allows for a darkness type of thing when its all they can hope , imagine plan for is the day that its positive, and its the light in an otherwise darkened room... this i understand is OTT ,for me to say but it just taints what experience they wanted to share,the actual reality, instead of this limp, pulling out the "each time I do a test and each month its negative ". Devastating & thats cruelly, the way for so many & i really would never want to trigger or provoke anyone with my tuppence worth, I really truly feel the agony,and know your a warrior, you are in my thoughts. I may well be off. However.....personally, if tjat was the case, each month negative, why not add that in, maybe even 3/4 different times you did test and thought you were,but weren't. Even if just to music or listen to that audio of those times. Giving authenticity to the story your rolling with, only its hard for me to feel any type of way with Gemma when, all these tests yet Jamie doesn't know what he's to do, the instructions pretty much, learned by heart on my mind,least near enough, as the familiarity of the routine,is engraved upon my mind and heart. A muscle memory almost, yet Jamie needs guiding???! Doesnt help this is filmed recently. Unless at the 9_10min of the upload , showing her hands and those nails, aren't the same she started vlog with, wearing the ring , spewing the 'ive forgotten,be nice to watch back" yeah so long ago gem. Come on. Integrity, doing the right things even when nobody's watching ... but she knows we are watching. Hense the feeding of this scenario. Odd. i really hope my gut is wrong, and Jamie steps up. And even more so, connects with Sophie again. Who was a loyal and much needed support for Gem before, imagine the void now

Girl. I dunno. Doesn't sit right with me, the hinting at a ttc journey, when so so many couples are overwhelming in their emotions and the ACTUAL excitement of perhaps its this time, each month that passes however allows for a darkness type of thing when its all they can hope , imagine plan for is the day that its positive, and its the light in an otherwise darkened room... this i understand is OTT ,for me to say but it just taints what experience they wanted to share,the actual reality, instead of this limp, pulling out the "each time I do a test and each month its negative ". Devastating & thats cruelly, the way for so many & i really would never want to trigger or provoke anyone with my tuppence worth, I really truly feel the agony,and know your a warrior, you are in my thoughts. I may well be off. However.....personally, if tjat was the case, each month negative, why not add that in, maybe even 3/4 different times you did test and thought you were,but weren't. Even if just to music or listen to that audio of those times. Giving authenticity to the story your rolling with, only its hard for me to feel any type of way with Gemma when, all these tests yet Jamie doesn't know what he's to do, the instructions pretty much, learned by heart on my mind,least near enough, as the familiarity of the routine,is engraved upon my mind and heart. A muscle memory almost, yet Jamie needs guiding???! Doesnt help this is filmed recently. Unless at the 9_10min of the upload , showing her hands and those nails, aren't the same she started vlog with, wearing the ring , spewing the 'ive forgotten,be nice to watch back" yeah so long ago gem. Come on. Integrity, doing the right things even when nobody's watching ... but she knows we are watching. Hense the feeding of this scenario. Odd. i really hope my gut is wrong, and Jamie steps up. And even more so, connects with Sophie again. Who was a loyal and much needed support for Gem before, imagine the void now

Girl. I dunno. Doesn't sit right with me, the hinting at a ttc journey, when so so many couples are overwhelming in their emotions and the ACTUAL excitement of perhaps its this time, each month that passes however allows for a darkness type of thing when its all they can hope , imagine plan for is the day that its positive, and its the light in an otherwise darkened room... this i understand is OTT ,for me to say but it just taints what experience they wanted to share,the actual reality, instead of this limp, pulling out the "each time I do a test and each month its negative ". Devastating & thats cruelly, the way for so many & i really would never want to trigger or provoke anyone with my tuppence worth, I really truly feel the agony,and know your a warrior, you are in my thoughts. I may well be off. However.....personally, if tjat was the case, each month negative, why not add that in, maybe even 3/4 different times you did test and thought you were,but weren't. Even if just to music or listen to that audio of those times. Giving authenticity to the story your rolling with, only its hard for me to feel any type of way with Gemma when, all these tests yet Jamie doesn't know what he's to do, the instructions pretty much, learned by heart on my mind,least near enough, as the familiarity of the routine,is engraved upon my mind and heart. A muscle memory almost, yet Jamie needs guiding???! Doesnt help this is filmed recently. Unless at the 9_10min of the upload , showing her hands and those nails, aren't the same she started vlog with, wearing the ring , spewing the 'ive forgotten,be nice to watch back" yeah so long ago gem. Come on. Integrity, doing the right things even when nobody's watching ... but she knows we are watching. Hense the feeding of this scenario. Odd. i really hope my gut is wrong, and Jamie steps up. And even more so, connects with Sophie again. Who was a loyal and much needed support for Gem before, imagine the void now
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1000% Elle darby did the same called it a TTC journey when she got pregnant on her 2nd cycle 🤦‍♀️ Makes me so angry 😡😡
 
I understand her not compiling a video full of all her negative tests and posting it to YouTube, nobody would want to do that.

BUT… if she did this whole rigmarole every single time, the cosy background, the gushing into the camera, the eyes watering, the camera on the tripod, the ‘you turn it over’/‘no you turn it over’ etc. That would be exhausting! And after a couple of times you would just be repeating the reaction for the sake of the video. It would no longer be an organic reaction.
So I 100% think she’d already taken a test. I’ve no doubt about it.

Instagram and YouTube are not real life, we need to remember that.
 
As someone with a TTC journey behind me I know what a massive challenge it can be ( and I'm wishing all you girls still in the process much love and courage during this period, and lots of babydust to you all <3 ). Just quitting your contraception and waiting "where the universe takes us" is NOT trying to concieve :rolleyes:

It bothers me hugely how everything from the influenza crowd is so... dishonest and curated. There is NO shame in accidental pregnancies, there is NO shame in just living your life in a genuine way and sharing bits and pieces of it that you want to share, whyyyy pretend it's something it's not?? It's baffling... Especially since there is so many of them already, wouldn't you want to stand out from the mass of social media huns all looking the same, having the same house, same clothes, same beige life. It's becoming irritating at this point.
 
jusssttb said:
I have such strange mum guilt that my home isn’t filled with bright, obnoxious singing plastic shite. I have minimal wooden, montisorri toys which I rotate. Makes me sound like such a SNOB!! Babies really don’t need lots of toys, at the end of the day our grandparents probably had next to nothing and they developed fine.. I don’t think the colour of toys really matters
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It doesnt but a lot of toys nowadays do have colour to them, it helps thier development to with books to etc, each to thier own I guess
 
Aunt Lydia said:
I understand her not compiling a video full of all her negative tests and posting it to YouTube, nobody would want to do that.

BUT… if she did this whole rigmarole every single time, the cosy background, the gushing into the camera, the eyes watering, the camera on the tripod, the ‘you turn it over’/‘no you turn it over’ etc. That would be exhausting! And after a couple of times you would just be repeating the reaction for the sake of the video. It would no longer be an organic reaction.
So I 100% think she’d already taken a test. I’ve no doubt about it.

Instagram and YouTube are not real life, we need to remember that.
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Yes - and I remember her doing a q&a and asked about why it was light in her ‘morning routine’ videos and she was laughing a bit sarcastically and saying obviously it’s not real and she films her content as a what it looks like not what actually happens. I remember thinking then that she totally thinks of her viewers as mugs if they don’t see it’s all fake and made up online.
 
Well I guess that why she was tracking her cycles and promoting the app for a while. I reckon she jumped on the band wagon soon as elle announced she was pregnant 🤰

When they moved in she said I don't see us with kids here so probably been trying the last few months?

She's got ppl in the comments thinking she's had a long journey
 
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