Estee Lalonde #10 No sugar, just daddy, is Ibiza James the next ultimatum recipient?

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I refuse to believe it's THAT hard to meet a moderately successful and ambitious corporate drone in London just like Normie. If she can't do that, then it's either because she is humming with red flags in everything she's doing re:dating and scaring them all off or because she thinks she deserves a more interesting, hotter dude than her personality and broomhead warrants.
 
I think Estee likes the idea of a relationship and marriage, but in reality, it's not for her. I'm frankly not sure whether she is capable at this point of having a relationship, given how weird she also behaves in friendships, getting obsessed with a person for a short amount of time, only to drop them at zero notice and pretend they never even existed in the first place. She is a people-user and that's maybe why she wants a relationship, but what she really wants is sex (okay, she can have that without the relationship) and someone to command around.
 
She doesn’t care about ‘ambition’, she would be happy to meet a trust fund guy who takes on random vanity jobs while basically living on a pile of money and pretending to care about his ‘career’… Estee isn’t ambitious, but she does want a constant flow of money and the appearance of being better than others and the aesthetic of a career woman. She has no idea what working life actually is lol.

She’s probably just embarrassed she really went for the Ibiza cab driver who wasn’t that interested in actually pursuing her or spending time in London, which she should’ve been clued into given it seems that he won’t even live near his children?

This is the first she’s ever talked about supposedly needing an ambitious man and it’s because she’s dated rich kids who were ‘artists’, DJs, etc., before and never cared as long as they had the same lifestyle. Her recent ex I believe worked in finance but she never talked about loving his career mindset or whatever… remember he was “chill”… because she did not care until she randomly went for a cab driver and needs a cool story as to why that went nowhere because it can’t be truthfully looking at her weird choices and precarious mental health.
 
She said that she doesn't want to be with someone who just sits on the couch...as she sits on the couch and just said she enjoys doing work on the couch watching TV. Her ex had a good job and was out all the time, so what is she talking about wanting someone who is open to growing and personal development?! Dating an influencer who plays She-EO for a few hours every day must be so draining, especially if you lead a relatively normal life. The selfishness and constant vanity, woof. No wonder she can't find anyone.

Did Estee get extensions, because she hasn't talked about it AT ALL?!
 
Yeah the more I think about it, the more it seems like this was a pointed dig at Mr. Worldwide. Which seems crazy, because that means she actually had feelings for him, while he knew exactly that this was a summer thing. I bet he fled when she made four trips in five weeks or so 😂.

But I also think that she deluded herself enough to believe that she’s this driven, busy person. She’s been talking about this for a few years now. And then goes ahead and shows a busy day of not going into an office, checking emails, having coffee, getting facials and posting packages.
 
getawaywithit said:
She doesn’t care about ‘ambition’, she would be happy to meet a trust fund guy who takes on random vanity jobs while basically living on a pile of money and pretending to care about his ‘career’… Estee isn’t ambitious, but she does want a constant flow of money and the appearance of being better than others and the aesthetic of a career woman. She has no idea what working life actually is lol.

She’s probably just embarrassed she really went for the Ibiza cab driver who wasn’t that interested in actually pursuing her or spending time in London, which she should’ve been clued into given it seems that he won’t even live near his children?

This is the first she’s ever talked about supposedly needing an ambitious man and it’s because she’s dated rich kids who were ‘artists’, DJs, etc., before and never cared as long as they had the same lifestyle. Her recent ex I believe worked in finance but she never talked about loving his career mindset or whatever… remember he was “chill”… because she did not care until she randomly went for a cab driver and needs a cool story as to why that went nowhere because it can’t be truthfully looking at her weird choices and precarious mental health.
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Exactly!! It sounds like she's looking for a new Aslan. Not a regular dude with a full time job, who is dead tired from their 9-5 and wants to chill on the couch. Aslan had time for his interests and hobbies because I don't think he had a job?

The way they met was such a chance occurrence (was it chat roulette? Or whatever chat platform) that she's probably hoping to find her love of her life in such a in our destiny way. Unrealistic romcom nonsense.

Estee's only measure of success is materialistic and it fell into her lap, not built on hard work or long term sustained relationships. She stumbled into her YouTube success and her relationship with Aslan. Now she thinks she's hot tit and expects the same with relationships without actually having to be in an adult relationship. That's why she reckons her tinder dates should theoretically fall in love her her wifey material. Good luck to ya!

I can't stand people who use therapy speak, when they clearly don't go to therapy.
 
Estee gives the same ick that men who weaponize incompetence do. She thinks she's SUCH an adult and deserves credit every time she cleans something. It's literally bare minimum adulting. :rolleyes: Everyone has to clean (or at least pays someone to clean). Such wifey material lol.

I think she also deludes herself into thinking that, because she has a clean apartment, she has her sh*t together and isn't spiraling. Your floors might be clean, but your life is still a mess, Estee.

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Rosie34567-2 said:
Estee gives the same ick that men who weaponize incompetence do. She thinks she's SUCH an adult and deserves credit every time she cleans something. It's literally bare minimum adulting. :rolleyes: Everyone has to clean (or at least pays someone to clean). Such wifey material lol.

I think she also deludes herself into thinking that, because she has a clean apartment, she has her sh*t together and isn't spiraling. Your floors might be clean, but your life is still a mess, Estee.

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I rolled my eyes when she said her goal was 10,000 steps a day, because it's going to become *yet another* obsession for her. And when she inevitably skips a day, she'll probably spiral and give up. At this point, she should just focus more on leaving her apartment instead of some arbitrary step count. In my opinion, it seems like she's manic and setting unrealistic goals.

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Rosie34567-2 said:
I rolled my eyes when she said her goal was 10,000 steps a day, because it's going to become *yet another* obsession for her. And when she inevitably skips a day, she'll probably spiral and give up. At this point, she should just focus more on leaving her apartment instead of some arbitrary step count. In my opinion, it seems like she's manic and setting unrealistic goals.

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How are walks a recent revelation to her when she has a dog 🧐
 
I watched the insta live she did earlier today. Yes she’s still obsessed with her hair and is generally very enamored with herself 😂 but just like in a previous live, she came across more natural and likable than in her YouTube videos these days.
She mentioned being on a Botox break right now. Which reminded me of why the short sleek bob never worked for her imo; her super smooth forehead and the straight yellow hair often gave her a very harsh look. I really hope she sticks to darker, longer hair, even if the current style isn’t ideal. It still looks better than before.

Oh but I have to say that for someone who’s allegedly so driven and career-focused, it was embarrassing that she didn’t know if today was or wasn’t the last Black Friday sale for her brand. Same with the Daisy sale. She never knows these things and yet we’re supposed to take girl boss Estee seriously.
 
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