Estee Lalonde #10 No sugar, just daddy, is Ibiza James the next ultimatum recipient?

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You know how Lana del Rey recently married that random guy… It kind of reminded me of Estee lol especially with her more recent fling… anyway, I was reading a thread of Lana’s fans discussing what seemed to be this weird phase she’s going through and someone was like, “It’s giving ‘I stopped taking my lithium*’ tbh and I would know because I’ve been there”.

*medication for bipolar disorder

Anyway like I said it reminded me of Estee and I’ll leave it there if you know what I’m saying.
 
For the record, I'm a single woman in my 30s who believes women should have sexual freedom, and who also believes man-wise it is rough out there.

But Estee is so toxic and has such an unhealthy relationship with herself. Like, of course she's not finding healthy relationships with men. I'd find her off-putting as a friend, let alone a long-term partner.
 
glenn_coco said:
For the record, I'm a single woman in my 30s who believes women should have sexual freedom, and who also believes man-wise it is rough out there.

But Estee is so toxic and has such an unhealthy relationship with herself. Like, of course she's not finding healthy relationships with men. I'd find her off-putting as a friend, let alone a long-term partner.
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Yes for sure, totally agree :) people should be free to explore but Estee is a clown short of a full circus performance at this point. I honestly can't even imagine being friends with someone like her.
 
glenn_coco said:
Reckons moving to West London will manifest a man because no where else has.

If you've lived in North, East and South London and still can't find a man, maybe it's you and not the location?
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It’s so weird! Like that is truly such an unhinged way of viewing dating.

Just adding to that, I also find it so weird how the last time she moved, she moved to be “closer to her friends”… when they all already lived in London.

1. She’s implying that anyone outside of a 15 minute radius is not worth seeing.
2. She literally builds her life around other people (in a bad way).
3. She’s super immature, lazy and entitled. Living in a large city = long commutes. Many people make that trek from south London to north London on a daily basis. 🙄
 
Callan said:
I haven't watched yet but yikes... Amelia did say that she's never met someone who had more one night stands than Estee, guess it's her coping mechanism for any relationship ending.
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Yeah but the thing seems to be that the one night stands or whatever aren’t casual to Estee. She develops feelings for the guys and is angry that they don’t match that same „energy“. She’s once again not looking at herself, it’s the guys‘ fault for not seeing eternal love in a quick hookup. Estee expected to find a new serious relationship minutes after her engagement ended.
She should have all the casual sex she wants - but she doesn’t it, it’s always a quest for a relationship.
 
londongirl2001 said:
Yeah but the thing seems to be that the one night stands or whatever aren’t casual to Estee. She develops feelings for the guys and is angry that they don’t match that same „energy“. She’s once again not looking at herself, it’s the guys‘ fault for not seeing eternal love in a quick hookup. Estee expected to find a new serious relationship minutes after her engagement ended.
She should have all the casual sex she wants - but she doesn’t it, it’s always a quest for a relationship.
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She did say multiple times that she starts dating the day the relationship is over, guess she really meant it lol.

Maybe it's like replacing one addiction with another? Not sure...
 
Aside from her dating woes, which is clearly a her thing. She is an aging influencer. So while this life may seem fun and easy when you're younger, lets be real, its not really providing depth to a person or their life. So as they age, the market of influencers expands, and there is more competition (especially with younger people) its very clear it will cause this sort of behavior. Thats why she seems to get more unhinged by the moment, she must realize on some level that she's created a privileged but empty life, and she's getting older so now she's grasping a straws trying to stay relevant, not just to the world, but herself. Look at Louise Pentland for example, an aging youtuber who seems to have moved this bizarre energy into her oldest daughter, and on the opposite side (kinda) yyou have SumbeamJess who while was a youtuber at least was doing writing and book stuff away from youtube, so youtube and that world didn't become her only world like it has for the Estees and Pentlands of internet fame and influencing.

Her brand water mirror was founded out of the need to have something outside of youtube (and for capitalism obvis) but she's not good at being a "girl boss" so the brand is flat and not relevent outside of her small circle of other influencer people and brands. She didn't know what she wanted to do with her life when she was younger and got lucky by meeting Aslan and starting youtube, the only two interesting things that have happened organically to this woman. Then she just latched on to that for a lack of knowing what else she wants to do, and again lucky for her she got rich from it.

idk probably not true but seems this way to me!
 
I finally watched the vid... wow Estee has ZERO self-awareness (as per usual):

Estee: "I want to date someone with a career and who is ambitious"
Also Estee: She has literally never had a full-time job in her life. She gave herself a title.

Estee: "I want to be with someone who is curious, who is get-up-and-go, who is motivated" and "isn't happy with the bare minimum"
Also Estee: Struggles to get out of bed in the morning and regularly tells us that "done is better than perfect" and she's "just trying to get through the day."

Estee: "strong feelings for someone and then it ends"
Also Estee: expects her hookups and one night stands to be husband material. The whole point of hookups is that they end.
 
calabazarock said:
That bit about strong feelings is like wow, estee, please get professional help in the form of psychological therapy. Because this happens in her romantic relationships but also with her friendships.
She needs to reivent herself and add freaking value to herself.
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Oh yeah, she seems to imprint on her favorite friends instantly with similar results at the end. Friendship ends.

Amelia has more money than her so she's safe and Rebecca is on the payroll so semi safe as well. Also is like her part time nanny/chef/dog sitter etc.
 
calabazarock said:
That bit about strong feelings is like wow, estee, please get professional help in the form of psychological therapy. Because this happens in her romantic relationships but also with her friendships.
She needs to reivent herself and add freaking value to herself.
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Right?! Her behavior seems so unwell. She claims she wants a husband, but she keeps choosing to hookup and have "situationships," and then getting upset when they leave her. What do you want, Estee?!

That's like saying you want chocolate cake, you order vanilla cake, and then you get upset that you're served vanilla cake. 🤦‍♀️

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I think the main issue is she just jumps out of the frying pan and into the fire so to speak with her relationships. She can’t bear being on her own so has these casual relationships where the other party just see it as a fling/one night stand or don’t want anything too serious at that stage of the game. She doesn’t and thinks it’s a full on relationship from the very off, which comes over quite desperate and then it’s no surprise they run for the bleeping hills! Then she repeats this behaviour over and over not learning her lesson!

It’s the fact she purposely sets out to get a man as well that gives me the ick. I’m a great believer in just going out and just meeting people, building a friendship/relationship first. I don’t go out thinking “I’m going to meet my next boyfriend tonight”. Create a bit of interest and intrigue Estée, play hard to get! I wouldn’t be surprised if she meets a man in a bar, goes home with him and then the next morning she runs him through her plan of being engaged within six months and then planning her future with a man she only met an evening ago. She’s just quite full on and aggressive in her dating approach which isn’t attractive or attracting the right kinds of men.

In addition, she’s hilarious with the standards she has set for the men she wants to date. If a bloke is nice and treats you well then why does his career matter so much? It’s comes over as so materialistic and honestly if I was a bloke then I’d think you were just after my money and my lifestyle then for actually who I am as a person.
 
Rosie34567-2 said:
I finally watched the vid... wow Estee has ZERO self-awareness (as per usual):

Estee: "I want to date someone with a career and who is ambitious"
Also Estee: She has literally never had a full-time job in her life. She gave herself a title.

Estee: "I want to be with someone who is curious, who is get-up-and-go, who is motivated" and "isn't happy with the bare minimum"
Also Estee: Struggles to get out of bed in the morning and regularly tells us that "done is better than perfect" and she's "just trying to get through the day."

Estee: "strong feelings for someone and then it ends"
Also Estee: expects her hookups and one night stands to be husband material. The whole point of hookups is that they end.
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It seems to me that she's looking for a person who "completes" her = has every quality that she lacks of, instead of working on herself and finding an equal partner.
 
I had such a laugh listening to this crap that I just had to transcribe it for ya'll LOL
Gawd she's a vapid weirdo.

"I cannot seem to meet someone who is willing to... how do I put this... I can't really seem to find a man who matches my energy, my ambition. And I can't find a guy that's like, interested in self development and like, wants to be a better version and takes opportunities. Like, I haven't... so far... met anyone that's like, up for... growth, you know? I don't want to be with someone who is just like happy with the bare minimum. That's just like not what I'm interested in. I want to be someone curious, I want to be with someone who has a "get up and go," is motivated, wants to try new things, has a career of some kind... I keep dating people who just like, don't have careers... and I'm so focused on my career that I find that really difficult. And I think going forward I'm not going to waste my time going on dates with people, and like dating people, who don't want to put in the work for themselves. I'm just so over it, like I find it just like, brings down my energy when I'm like, hustling all over the shop and they're just like... laying on the couch... I dunno..."
 
I feel like to at least some extent, she's probably meeting guys who are motivated to do way more than "the bare minimum"...just not for a hookup, or someone they went on a few casual dates with. She seems like she'd get all manic and expect long-term boyfriend level commitment and effort from someone immediately.
 
AnnaWintour said:
I had such a laugh listening to this crap that I just had to transcribe it for ya'll LOL
Gawd she's a vapid weirdo.

"I cannot seem to meet someone who is willing to... how do I put this... I can't really seem to find a man who matches my energy, my ambition. And I can't find a guy that's like, interested in self development and like, wants to be a better version and takes opportunities. Like, I haven't... so far... met anyone that's like, up for... growth, you know? I don't want to be with someone who is just like happy with the bare minimum. That's just like not what I'm interested in. I want to be someone curious, I want to be with someone who has a "get up and go," is motivated, wants to try new things, has a career of some kind... I keep dating people who just like, don't have careers... and I'm so focused on my career that I find that really difficult. And I think going forward I'm not going to waste my time going on dates with people, and like dating people, who don't want to put in the work for themselves. I'm just so over it, like I find it just like, brings down my energy when I'm like, hustling all over the shop and they're just like... laying on the couch... I dunno..."
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What career? Going on free holidays? Opening PR packages? Bossing around, cosplaying as a buisnesswoman? She's delulu. She expects her partner to be interested in self-developement, yet she refuses to go to theraphy despite her decade-long suffering from depression and anxiety.
 
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