Enjoying Being Emma #2 Headaches every single day, James don’t mess up that tuff tray

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What do you think she is living for? Like genuinely. She only seems to get excited about having cleaned her house or prepped her tea. I can't imagine living like that. She wanted these babies for so long and we all know kids can be hard work but bloody hell. She's such a fun sponge! Everything is so negative!!
 
Her stories today… wow. Went through so much pain and heartbreak for those babies and does nothing but moan. I get parenting can be hard but I can’t help she’s somewhat to blame due to letting James do whatever he wants and get up whenever he wants. Transporting sand on the train track that’s on the carpet? Why even let him have sand in the house? She’s always wanting to keep them ‘occupied’ or ‘wear James out’. Not actually enjoy her mat leave with her 2 babies and is clearly desperate to be back at work.
 
The kid is bored shitless and is pining for the activity and structure he has on nursery days. She doesn’t do anything with him unless it’s of benefit to her. Without wanting to blow smoke up my own arse, we’ve all had covid this last week but my toddler recovered quicker than either of us. We haven’t lazed around all day, we’ve been up, we’ve made buns, we’ve done lots of colouring and painting, we’ve built dens in the living room, she’s helped cook every day, we’ve done some messy play in the garden, we’ve played football outside, we’ve played with her mud kitchen. At times I’ve felt like I’ve wanted to lay down and cry, just to sleep and feel sorry for myself. But I haven’t because I’m her mum, she deserved better than that and I knew it would be harder if I didn’t do a thing with her when the boredom set in. She does nothing with him but count down to when he doesn’t need engaging with.
 
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