I don’t think the problem is buying second hand things, I think it’s double standards.
I absolutely love vinted and you can get absolute bargains but I buy for myself, husband and children - I always check it’s in good condition first. We don’t have loads of money but this way we get really nice things for a fraction of the cost but I would never have all my baby things second hand and scruffy then spend copious amounts on myself for things like brownies, uggs?!?! The only time she’s been bothered about footwear and showed us any were those god awful walking boot things she wore everywhere even in summer with dresses.
mom very intrigued to see what she’s bought Moley for Christmas - that man has the patience ofa saint and a purse string looser than….. well I’ll leave that to the imagination