Emily Canham #7 Imhereforever bein tall, will James return from LA at all

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I live alone so during lockdown earlier this year I didn't see anyone at all until I could bubble in June. She was hugging her family as soon as she left Cornwall - it's literally in her video.

If she was so unhappy in Cornwall during lockdown she could have left and gone to her parents or her flat in London. She didn't.

Everyone struggled in lockdown but she chose where to be and who to be with. I didn't have a choice as I am a key worker and had to stay near to my place of work. If I had been furloughed I would have gone to stay with my parents.
 
If they have broken up it’s going to be very interesting to see how she plays it.

What she should do: take some time to be alone, find someone naturally, ideally someone not at all in the public eye and then keep things very private for a very long time.

What she’s likely going to do: make a break up video that makes her sound like the victim, say she’s going to take him for herself, actually jump into the arms of the first semi-famous man she can find that’ll help prop up her viewing figs, then wonder why a while down the line she has yet another failed relationship that’s been highly documented online.

I know people say it a lot but she must miss the days of Jake. I’m not saying they haven’t grown apart and wouldn’t work now even if they wanted to but back then she had a bf that spoilt her rotten (anyone remember the insane xmas and bday gifts he got her when she was basically still a kid) and her views and subs were sky high compared to now too.

Jake found success away from youtube with his other businesses so must be tough knowing the fallout from their relationship in terms of subs etc didnt knock him whereas if Emily had that kinda fallout, she’d be done.

She also needs to be really careful with her weight and what she’s putting online. It won’t be long until brands don’t want her to advertise their products as they’re becoming far more conscientious of the negative effect of using painfully thin models for any kind of brand deal.

With subs etc falling, she can’t afford to not have brand deals there as the back up.
 
V123 said:
If they have broken up it’s going to be very interesting to see how she plays it.

What she should do: take some time to be alone, find someone naturally, ideally someone not at all in the public eye and then keep things very private for a very long time.

What she’s likely going to do: make a break up video that makes her sound like the victim, say she’s going to take him for herself, actually jump into the arms of the first semi-famous man she can find that’ll help prop up her viewing figs, then wonder why a while down the line she has yet another failed relationship that’s been highly documented online.

I know people say it a lot but she must miss the days of Jake. I’m not saying they haven’t grown apart and wouldn’t work now even if they wanted to but back then she had a bf that spoilt her rotten (anyone remember the insane xmas and bday gifts he got her when she was basically still a kid) and her views and subs were sky high compared to now too.

Jake found success away from youtube with his other businesses so must be tough knowing the fallout from their relationship in terms of subs etc didnt knock him whereas if Emily had that kinda fallout, she’d be done.

She also needs to be really careful with her weight and what she’s putting online. It won’t be long until brands don’t want her to advertise their products as they’re becoming far more conscientious of the negative effect of using painfully thin models for any kind of brand deal.

With subs etc falling, she can’t afford to not have brand deals there as the back up.
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I really agree with your jake comments, not only did he buy her lavish gifts, but he spent a lot of quality time with her, went on holidays with her that she loves and complimented her verbally a lot. He was very attentive as a bf and as a first bf she could easily assume all guys will be like that with her.

If my wealthy bf of 2 years who i loved, didn't have to be away for essential work during a lockdown but chose to, to be away from me. I would be devestated like she seems to be. Hopefully would have the self esteem to walk away!

Moving in witb adam will be a mistake - evwn if they briefly have loved together they will get on each others nerves big time.
 
She went on and on last time about missing her family yet she's clearly thinking about ditching them to live with Adam for lockdown. I guess in her head she saw James maybe coming back for Christmas etc and now that's even less likely (if they are still together).

I'm just struggling to see how she found lockdown so hard last time. If only me and my bf were in a big house like they were posting a few YT videos and not working 40 hours a week from our one bed flat with no garden.
 
Super_Berry said:
She went on and on last time about missing her family yet she's clearly thinking about ditching them to live with Adam for lockdown. I guess in her head she saw James maybe coming back for Christmas etc and now that's even less likely (if they are still together).

I'm just struggling to see how she found lockdown so hard last time. If only me and my bf were in a big house like they were posting a few YT videos and not working 40 hours a week from our one bed flat with no garden.
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Unfortunately I think it’s probably a case of despite having his physical company, he probably makes her feel very much alone.
They really shouldn’t be together. It’s so unhealthy and it’s starting to manifest in her physically now for all to see
 
V123 said:
If they have broken up it’s going to be very interesting to see how she plays it.

What she should do: take some time to be alone, find someone naturally, ideally someone not at all in the public eye and then keep things very private for a very long time.

What she’s likely going to do: make a break up video that makes her sound like the victim, say she’s going to take him for herself, actually jump into the arms of the first semi-famous man she can find that’ll help prop up her viewing figs, then wonder why a while down the line she has yet another failed relationship that’s been highly documented online.

I know people say it a lot but she must miss the days of Jake. I’m not saying they haven’t grown apart and wouldn’t work now even if they wanted to but back then she had a bf that spoilt her rotten (anyone remember the insane xmas and bday gifts he got her when she was basically still a kid) and her views and subs were sky high compared to now too.

Jake found success away from youtube with his other businesses so must be tough knowing the fallout from their relationship in terms of subs etc didnt knock him whereas if Emily had that kinda fallout, she’d be done.

She also needs to be really careful with her weight and what she’s putting online. It won’t be long until brands don’t want her to advertise their products as they’re becoming far more conscientious of the negative effect of using painfully thin models for any kind of brand deal.

With subs etc falling, she can’t afford to not have brand deals there as the back up.
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Yes I know she talked about how toxic he was and they had kinda different personalities with Emily seeming quieter & more reserved and Jake being more outgoing, but its not like Emily and James have very similar personalities either. But he did treat her like a princess, you totally got the vibe that she could do anything and hed be there for her, and yupp he bought her like 15 christmas gifts each year, i remember once he went out and bought her all the mac lipstick colours she didnt have (yes i know he was "toxic" because he swore in front of her a few times), meanwhile James buys her a toy car, a pair of shoes and maybe a purse in their 2 year relationship. I do think that Jake wasnt perfect and spoiled her in the way where she thought she could find someone like him but better, but now shes probably realized that he wasnt too bad.

Im not comparing them monetarily but Jake seemed to put more effort and thought into what he got Emily and seemed to care about what she thought/said, I get the impression Emily cant tell James sh*t. Like if she said to him its really important for him to come to her house for family dinner, I doubt hed care. Or she'll ask him to do something on social media and he'll grudgingly come on a live with her where he seems like he doesnt give 2 cares about her, they do not act like a 2 year couple, even ones that dont like being on social media (which is a complete lie considering James is trying to re-invent his career in the limelight). She never talks about him as being there for her also, like in her last vlog where she said she was sad so she talked to Adam for 1 hour... no mention of talking to James, unless hes now forbid her from mentioning his name now too :rolleyes:

Its very sad, especially when you see her try to justify it

I also just realized the time he posted about her last in April, was bc of her birthday... he didnt even say he loves her, he said something like "it is emily canhams birthday today, i could write a lot about how much she brings to my life but i'll spare you"... 🤦‍♀️honestly sounds like a post about your cousin, if my boyfriend of two years posted about my bday and didnt say i love you.. i mean i know all couples are different and some dont say it as much, but now im wondering if theyve even said they love each other after 2 years.
 
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the thing is after Charlie cheated on her she said her friends encouraged her to give him another chance? Now idk about anyone else but if my friend had been cheated on and wanted advice i would say that and the damage of the relationship has been done now and that he could cheat again (which obvs Charlie did) I just don’t know a friend that would encourage you to give a cheating boyfriend who had obviously been using her for money a second chance ??? No doubt it was lucy she asked though, and I mean who would take relationship advice from her?🤣
 
Minipizza said:
the thing is after Charlie cheated on her she said her friends encouraged her to give him another chance? Now idk about anyone else but if my friend had been cheated on and wanted advice i would say that and the damage of the relationship has been done now and that he could cheat again (which obvs Charlie did) I just don’t know a friend that would encourage you to give a cheating boyfriend who had obviously been using her for money a second chance ??? No doubt it was lucy she asked though, and I mean who would take relationship advice from her?🤣
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She really just kept going down hill after Jake, with him being so happy with Leah, Im sure shes thinking about how happy she was before
 
sunshine254 said:
Yes I know she talked about how toxic he was and they had kinda different personalities with Emily seeming quieter & more reserved and Jake being more outgoing, but its not like Emily and James have very similar personalities either. But he did treat her like a princess, you totally got the vibe that she could do anything and hed be there for her, and yupp he bought her like 15 christmas gifts each year, i remember once he went out and bought her all the mac lipstick colours she didnt have (yes i know he was "toxic" because he swore in front of her a few times), meanwhile James buys her a toy car, a pair of shoes and maybe a purse in their 2 year relationship. I do think that Jake wasnt perfect and spoiled her in the way where she thought she could find someone like him but better, but now shes probably realized that he wasnt too bad.

Im not comparing them monetarily but Jake seemed to put more effort and thought into what he got Emily and seemed to care about what she thought/said, I get the impression Emily cant tell James sh*t. Like if she said to him its really important for him to come to her house for family dinner, I doubt hed care. Or she'll ask him to do something on social media and he'll grudgingly come on a live with her where he seems like he doesnt give 2 cares about her, they do not act like a 2 year couple, even ones that dont like being on social media (which is a complete lie considering James is trying to re-invent his career in the limelight). She never talks about him as being there for her also, like in her last vlog where she said she was sad so she talked to Adam for 1 hour... no mention of talking to James
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I think it’s all about what James and wants need out of the relationship. Speaks volumes that she was struggling for content during lockdown but James refused to do a single video with her, yet he used Emily to do an Instagram live to promote his band. She kept saying it’s because their careers are different, and they’re really not? They’re both in entertainment, it’s not like he’s a banker that needs to keep his privacy or whatever else.
It’s her that spends thousands to visit him, it’s her that drives him around the country on Xmas eve etc etc etc
 
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I think it’s all about what James and wants need out of the relationship. Speaks volumes that she was struggling for content during lockdown but James refused to do a single video with her, yet he used Emily to do an Instagram live to promote his band. She kept saying it’s because their careers are different, and they’re really not? They’re both in entertainment, it’s not like he’s a banker that needs to keep his privacy or whatever else.
It’s her that spends thousands to visit him, it’s her that drives him around the country on Xmas eve etc etc etc
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Yupp, not really sure how youtuber/influencer is much different than entertainment/singer these days, yes if he was a high school teacher it would make sense but the excuse that he doesnt want to put things on social media when he is literally advertising a new album all over social media, doesnt make any sense, especially after 2 years of being together. I'm pretty sure Charlie's career wasnt social media related yet he let her film all those youtube videos of them at Disney together, and i dont think Charlie was great either. But youre right it is all about James all the time, I wonder if she's afraid if she displeases him he'll dump her, otherwise im not sure why the sudden switch of her becoming completely submissive in a relationship when she didnt really seem like that with Charlie or Jake. She dumped Charlie when he cheated, I hope she'd do that with James but its sad that I can't be sure she would now
 
That Charlie relationship was an odd one. They were seemingly living completely different types of lives before they got together then all of a sudden she was obsessed with him despite him being nowhere near her looks wise and apparently not personality wise either given he cheated. Kinda seemed like she just wanted a boyfriend and the “childhood crush” was the closest thing to goals around at the time. he used her for sure, I’ve just no idea why she let him.

it’s sad. I think her and Jake were always gonna break up eventually but he clearly adored her and she hasn’t had that since. I don’t know about her relationship with James but she clearly isn’t happy about something in life. I hope she finds something to bring her happiness because i don’t think she’s a bad person.
 
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