Conor McGregor #13 We Stand With Nikita

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It would have been very busy for lunches
Ohh I wouldn’t have thought that at all. I’d have thought that most their clientele would be at work replenishing their drug supply.

I’ve an in law living quite close to it and he said when I asked him about it in 2022, that it was fine most the time but super busy at the weekends with lots of young ones, granted he works Monday- Friday in the city so wouldn’t be home at lunch time.

I’m glad to see the business is suffering, I mentioned I had a friend who was in there the Saturday after the result and I was gutted to see people still going.
 
I just read over on Erin’s thread, a girl who lives very close by was out for a walk this afternoon and Terry’s Golf has been egged!!! Egg running down the back window and shells all over the driveway!!!!! Blinds down most of the time, only the living room up for a few hours a day.
 
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Just saw this video on tiktok. His stout being removed from shelves is one thing but seeing his staff remove the merchandise is so unbelievable satisfying. His company has to spend time and money on this. Brilliant.


..... Have a nice weekend ! 😃😃😎😎😎

Starting to sink in now, is it.....?


A bleep, caught out.....


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Still more to come yet, with the Court Costs Award..... 😎😎


Ill enjoy that 😃
 
OK lads to be fair a lot of the excellent counterpoints on this thread have actually made me confront my bias, and find it too narrow and lacking. Ye are right; Nikita’s actions that night are completely besides the point and morals don’t come into it, Thank you. ☺

I am a survivor of CSA (ages 4 to 11) and I have a voice similar to yours on repeat in my head constantly. What could I have done differently to keep myself safe, what did that man see in me that made it okay to abuse me, why was I so worthless that no adults stopped him even though they knew what he did to other kids before he got to me. Even now as an adult there is a wall of silence around what happened to me because if anyone in the family admits what happened was wrong they may have to acknowledge there own inaction and that's uncomfortable, so the family narrative is that I'm unstable, my PTSD is because I'm somehow inferior to them, I just need to pull my socks up and get on with things, to stop being depressed and fragile.

I know this poster is probably just stirring online and thinks their being funny but the reality is people like this make me think my internal voice is right, a part of me deserved it and there is something fundamentally corrupt in my core as a person. I am in my forties now and I still carry the shame and horror of what he did to me, I was never able to have children because of how he physically damaged me, relationships are tough, life is tough, being outside is just tough due to the amount of fear I still carry, nowhere is safe.

My stomach drops whenever I read comments questioning what Nikita should have done because I have never been brave enough to speak as loudly and as determined as Nikita, and I know those same questions would be asked of me, why I didn't speak out, shout or scream to stop him. He took my voice, I'm glad Nikita has hers.
 
I am a survivor of CSA (ages 4 to 11) and I have a voice similar to yours on repeat in my head constantly. What could I have done differently to keep myself safe, what did that man see in me that made it okay to abuse me, why was I so worthless that no adults stopped him even though they knew what he did to other kids before he got to me. Even now as an adult there is a wall of silence around what happened to me because if anyone in the family admits what happened was wrong they may have to acknowledge there own inaction and that's uncomfortable, so the family narrative is that I'm unstable, my PTSD is because I'm somehow inferior to them, I just need to pull my socks up and get on with things, to stop being depressed and fragile.

I know this poster is probably just stirring online and thinks their being funny but the reality is people like this make me think my internal voice is right, a part of me deserved it and there is something fundamentally corrupt in my core as a person. I am in my forties now and I still carry the shame and horror of what he did to me, I was never able to have children because of how he physically damaged me, relationships are tough, life is tough, being outside is just tough due to the amount of fear I still carry, nowhere is safe.

My stomach drops whenever I read comments questioning what Nikita should have done because I have never been brave enough to speak as loudly and as determined as Nikita, and I know those same questions would be asked of me, why I didn't speak out, shout or scream to stop him. He took my voice, I'm glad Nikita has hers.
Well said ♥️
I am so sorry for what you have been through xxx
 
I am a survivor of CSA (ages 4 to 11) and I have a voice similar to yours on repeat in my head constantly. What could I have done differently to keep myself safe, what did that man see in me that made it okay to abuse me, why was I so worthless that no adults stopped him even though they knew what he did to other kids before he got to me. Even now as an adult there is a wall of silence around what happened to me because if anyone in the family admits what happened was wrong they may have to acknowledge there own inaction and that's uncomfortable, so the family narrative is that I'm unstable, my PTSD is because I'm somehow inferior to them, I just need to pull my socks up and get on with things, to stop being depressed and fragile.

I know this poster is probably just stirring online and thinks their being funny but the reality is people like this make me think my internal voice is right, a part of me deserved it and there is something fundamentally corrupt in my core as a person. I am in my forties now and I still carry the shame and horror of what he did to me, I was never able to have children because of how he physically damaged me, relationships are tough, life is tough, being outside is just tough due to the amount of fear I still carry, nowhere is safe.

My stomach drops whenever I read comments questioning what Nikita should have done because I have never been brave enough to speak as loudly and as determined as Nikita, and I know those same questions would be asked of me, why I didn't speak out, shout or scream to stop him. He took my voice, I'm glad Nikita has hers.
Bless you - hold your head up high.
No recipient of sexual abuse deserves it, or can cause it being initiated, or can be blamed for it .

It is ALWAYS ON THE PERPETRATOR.

Remember that. Always & Forever. ❤️❤️
 
I am a survivor of CSA (ages 4 to 11) and I have a voice similar to yours on repeat in my head constantly. What could I have done differently to keep myself safe, what did that man see in me that made it okay to abuse me, why was I so worthless that no adults stopped him even though they knew what he did to other kids before he got to me. Even now as an adult there is a wall of silence around what happened to me because if anyone in the family admits what happened was wrong they may have to acknowledge there own inaction and that's uncomfortable, so the family narrative is that I'm unstable, my PTSD is because I'm somehow inferior to them, I just need to pull my socks up and get on with things, to stop being depressed and fragile.

I know this poster is probably just stirring online and thinks their being funny but the reality is people like this make me think my internal voice is right, a part of me deserved it and there is something fundamentally corrupt in my core as a person. I am in my forties now and I still carry the shame and horror of what he did to me, I was never able to have children because of how he physically damaged me, relationships are tough, life is tough, being outside is just tough due to the amount of fear I still carry, nowhere is safe.

My stomach drops whenever I read comments questioning what Nikita should have done because I have never been brave enough to speak as loudly and as determined as Nikita, and I know those same questions would be asked of me, why I didn't speak out, shout or scream to stop him. He took my voice, I'm glad Nikita has hers.
So sorry that this happened to you and I was being completely sincere, comments on this thread have changed my opinion and caused me to think more deeply about my internal bias. Hugs to you.♥️
 
I am a survivor of CSA (ages 4 to 11) and I have a voice similar to yours on repeat in my head constantly. What could I have done differently to keep myself safe, what did that man see in me that made it okay to abuse me, why was I so worthless that no adults stopped him even though they knew what he did to other kids before he got to me. Even now as an adult there is a wall of silence around what happened to me because if anyone in the family admits what happened was wrong they may have to acknowledge there own inaction and that's uncomfortable, so the family narrative is that I'm unstable, my PTSD is because I'm somehow inferior to them, I just need to pull my socks up and get on with things, to stop being depressed and fragile.

I know this poster is probably just stirring online and thinks their being funny but the reality is people like this make me think my internal voice is right, a part of me deserved it and there is something fundamentally corrupt in my core as a person. I am in my forties now and I still carry the shame and horror of what he did to me, I was never able to have children because of how he physically damaged me, relationships are tough, life is tough, being outside is just tough due to the amount of fear I still carry, nowhere is safe.

My stomach drops whenever I read comments questioning what Nikita should have done because I have never been brave enough to speak as loudly and as determined as Nikita, and I know those same questions would be asked of me, why I didn't speak out, shout or scream to stop him. He took my voice, I'm glad Nikita has hers.
I'm So sorry you had to go through that. Shame on anyone who has turned a blind eye. Please know there are people out there that will believe you 💗 Nobody should ever have to go through that , especially an innocent child and there is nothing in the world that you could have possibly done to deserve that or encourage it. The animal that done it to you is the sole person to blame, end of story. And not just in your case, but in ALL cases of sexual assault, no exceptions. I hope you have been able to find some love and support in life since. Sending you so much love ❤️
 
I am a survivor of CSA (ages 4 to 11) and I have a voice similar to yours on repeat in my head constantly. What could I have done differently to keep myself safe, what did that man see in me that made it okay to abuse me, why was I so worthless that no adults stopped him even though they knew what he did to other kids before he got to me. Even now as an adult there is a wall of silence around what happened to me because if anyone in the family admits what happened was wrong they may have to acknowledge there own inaction and that's uncomfortable, so the family narrative is that I'm unstable, my PTSD is because I'm somehow inferior to them, I just need to pull my socks up and get on with things, to stop being depressed and fragile.

I know this poster is probably just stirring online and thinks their being funny but the reality is people like this make me think my internal voice is right, a part of me deserved it and there is something fundamentally corrupt in my core as a person. I am in my forties now and I still carry the shame and horror of what he did to me, I was never able to have children because of how he physically damaged me, relationships are tough, life is tough, being outside is just tough due to the amount of fear I still carry, nowhere is safe.

My stomach drops whenever I read comments questioning what Nikita should have done because I have never been brave enough to speak as loudly and as determined as Nikita, and I know those same questions would be asked of me, why I didn't speak out, shout or scream to stop him. He took my voice, I'm glad Nikita has hers.
Sending you the biggest hug in the world. I’m so sorry there was no one to protect you from him. It kills me hearing stories like yours knowing no adult stepped in to protect young children from these men. Please please please always remember you did nothing to deserve it, you were only a child, I’m so sorry so many adults failed you. The people on this thread will always believe you. ❤️❤️❤️❤️
 
Just asking - would it be knackerish carry on if she was from Donnybrook and had a private school education?
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Saintly heroes? I prefer real people myself with all the flaws and weaknesses
I appreciate that Nikita is an imperfect victim who got her day in court and was vindicated. I had some very bad things happen to me when I was young and I never did anything about it because I thought I put myself in that position. The majority of rapes occur in situations like this, where the girl did something "wrong". It means a lot that all that didn't matter.
 
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