Chinions off topic chat #7

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It’s her who used to hang about with Paul breech whatever his name is. She comes up on mine all the time and I just find her strange. She said she has involvement by someone but not social services who have engaged her with parenting class. I want to know who’s involved🤣she’s a nurse
 
lauren96111 said:
I do, there is something I can’t put my finger on but she’s odd
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I think it’s the way she has an answer for everything but then she is so utterly monotone. She came up cause someone asked her if she still thought lucy letby was innocent. She used to make videos defending her when the trial was on.

I do agree with some things she says though like when the som destroyed his bedroom and he expected her to pay for it again😳but she’s just strange idk
 
stargirl23 said:
Surely social have to be involved if she’s going to parenting classes 😂 you don’t just get random involvement from other organisations for parenting 😂
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I’m so surprised she even has any involvement. Her parenting I do actually agree with. It sounds like the sons dad takes him for the weekend spoils him then when he goes back to her he doesn’t behave because he doesn’t get everything the dad gives him. Must be a voluntary thing although quite sad if others have made her feel like she needs it
 
Has anyone switched up their child’s routine to try and start a new one and regretted it instantly!? Usually give my little a bottle sitting on my knee right before bed so when she finishes it I lay her down in her cot and then she lies down till she falls asleep at about 7 but tonight I gave her it downstairs about 30 mins ago because I’m trying to cut out a bottle before bed and she’s now standing in her cot wide awake just crying because she obviously wants the bottle which she had at quarter past🙃🤦🏻‍♀️ so stressful🤣
 
stardust1 said:
I think it’s the way she has an answer for everything but then she is so utterly monotone. She came up cause someone asked her if she still thought lucy letby was innocent. She used to make videos defending her when the trial was on.

I do agree with some things she says though like when the som destroyed his bedroom and he expected her to pay for it again😳but she’s just strange idk
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Yeah i agreed with the whole son thing but she comes across like it’s her way or no way if you get me. The whole thing with Paul was so odd
She gives me head teacher in the 60’s vibes 😂😂
 
lazydaizy said:
Has anyone switched up their child’s routine to try and start a new one and regretted it instantly!? Usually give my little a bottle sitting on my knee right before bed so when she finishes it I lay her down in her cot and then she lies down till she falls asleep at about 7 but tonight I gave her it downstairs about 30 mins ago because I’m trying to cut out a bottle before bed and she’s now standing in her cot wide awake just crying because she obviously wants the bottle which she had at quarter past🙃🤦🏻‍♀️ so stressful🤣
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Breaking a routine is so much harder than starting one. Honestly though stick with it! Might be a hard couple of nights but she'll get the hang of it x
 
lazydaizy said:
Has anyone switched up their child’s routine to try and start a new one and regretted it instantly!? Usually give my little a bottle sitting on my knee right before bed so when she finishes it I lay her down in her cot and then she lies down till she falls asleep at about 7 but tonight I gave her it downstairs about 30 mins ago because I’m trying to cut out a bottle before bed and she’s now standing in her cot wide awake just crying because she obviously wants the bottle which she had at quarter past🙃🤦🏻‍♀️ so stressful🤣
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How old is she? Tbh my 2 year old still has milk for bed
 
stardust1 said:
I’m so surprised she even has any involvement. Her parenting I do actually agree with. It sounds like the sons dad takes him for the weekend spoils him then when he goes back to her he doesn’t behave because he doesn’t get everything the dad gives him. Must be a voluntary thing although quite sad if others have made her feel like she needs it
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Oh that’s so sad, hopefully it’s just to try deal with the behavioural changes and not because she’s been made to feel like a failure of a mother
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stardust1 said:
How old is she? Tbh my 2 year old still has milk for bed
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Yeah my son was nearly 3 before we stopped milk at bed time 🤦🏻‍♀️ had so many crappy comments about it but a cup of milk before bed won’t harm anyone and he still ate well. I’d just rather the easy bed time hahaha. By the time we gave it up as he was older he understood more and it got to the point he ended up stopping it himself, he’d either never finish the milk or wouldn’t ask for one. Found it easier doing it that way

But with routines the first night is always hard, they don’t understand why their comfort is suddenly being taken away. Try replacing the bottle with a comforter, teddy, muslin or soft blanket etc and she’ll soon learn if you keep it up. Maybe take up water and offer her that instead if she wakes or cries for milk. In a week she’ll learn and stop crying for the milk
 
She’s 18 months I was originally hoping to give her the bottle downstairs to wean her off needing the comfort of it and then change to a cup of milk instead but I think I’ll just go back to her normal routine for now I don’t want to rock the boat too much bless her! She’s always needed a lot of comfort when it comes to sleep so I’ll give it a few months then try again!
 
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