CathyReaywrites (formerly thatsinglemum)

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I can still see it. And I can also still see the first proper high profile paid collab she's got that she's posted today


Mission accomplished it would seem..... 🙄
 
I agree there is too much plastic in most things, drives me mad. The point is this was a free gift to her and it wouldn't kill her to have a damn day off. She could have at least said thank you but it was literally "cute gift but use less plastic." She could find fault in an empty room.
 
Mo Harris said:
I’ve noticed her do this a few times in the relatively short time I’ve been following her. She’ll post about a bad experience she’s had, and then when people respond with sympathetic comments she replies along the lines of ‘THIS HAPPENS TO ME ALL THE TIME AND IF YOU DONT REALISE THAT THEN YOURE PART OF THE PROBLEM’. I can kind of see her point, I live with an invisible illness and it does sometimes frustrate me when people don’t appreciate how hard it can make my day to day life. I think being snarky with people who are trying to empathise is more likely to just alienate them than make them more aware though.
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I’ve thought about this before, had to unfollow her due to her condescending manner, I actually thought there is no right way to reply to her! Nothing you could say would be right... she also does this thing when she posts about a negative event or situation, she will cut people off when they reply by saying let’s talk about nice things or something along that line, she’s a head duck tbh, patronising, condescending and constantly bleeping angry!! 😂
 
Deeds22 said:
I’ve thought about this before, had to unfollow her due to her condescending manner, I actually thought there is no right way to reply to her! Nothing you could say would be right... she also does this thing when she posts about a negative event or situation, she will cut people off when they reply by saying let’s talk about nice things or something along that line, she’s a head duck tbh, patronising, condescending and constantly bleeping angry!! 😂
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This is spot on and why I have such a huge problem with her and people like thirtysomethingsingle. She will highlight difficulties disabled people have, which is fab as it raises awareness but she is not happy with any response she gets from people. If people sympathise then they get "Disabled people don't need your sympathy they need you to educate yourselves!" If you speak up for disabled people then you get "We don't need able bodied people to speak up for us!" You literally cannot say anything to her.
 
Yet another narritive being pushed by her which means you can't question her or her actions.

You can't question the fake emails because if you do you're just a privileged monster who is denying the lived reality of disabled people, you can't question her flagrant demands for money from companies (and others) because if you do you're a privileged monster who is furthering the disability pay gap, you can't question her for shaming brands into working with her because if you do you're a privileged monster who is denying disabled people the right to work etc etc blah blah blah.

Basically you cannot question anything she does, says or decides. Not even when she calls out morrisons for using too much plastic right after she posts a picture of all of her shopping in plastic bags.

It is bugging me so much that the email thing has just blown over. She got thousands and thousands of new followers from that, which is precisely why she did it.
 
Confirmation of why you could never be friends with her. I realise her friend was trying to goad her but Christ the response 🤦🏻‍♀️

Also she’s now done a quiz all about her?!

One question was about what her biggest turn off is. One answer, which I’m guessing was the right one, was ‘Tories’. I’ve noted she also has a t-shirt that says ‘eat cake and duck the tories’ or something along those lines.

I’m not a Tory voter myself and they don’t align with my views but I’m getting so tired of this stance now and then the utter shock for the Twitter type echo chamber when they win by a landslide. I think it’s because I’ve seen it so many times on dating profiles and I think it’s so performative and old. If you’re not willing to consider others are going to have a different viewpoint and you may also get on with them, god forbid, it strikes me as so incredibly immature.
 

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This girl is suspect...
The dream e-mails....give me a break who is dreaming of her every night and messaging her. Also all the messages are written in the same style..
I also thought that 'sin Sunday' thing she did was fake af but she abruptly just stopped doing it? Maybe ran out of fake sins to send herself!?
 
She irritates me because she’s just another copy and paste social justice warrior type instagrammer who asks the same questions everyone else does and acts like she invented the wheel with her posts. And I’ve noticed over time that for someone who seems to complain about men a lot and rake the I don’t need a man stance like the other sjw instagrammers do, she absolutely reeks of desperation to be considered attractive and have male attention.
 
What was that whole question and answer thing about? I missed the original question but all the answers seemed to be about a man she’s “hypothetically” 😒 interested in following models on Instagram or something?

I don’t trust anyone who constantly goes on about how independent they are and how they don’t need a man, if you feel the need to constantly project that it probably means you feel the exact opposite.

In a similar vein, I rue the day Ariana Grande came out with Thank U, Next. Seems to be an anthem for people desperately trying to claim just how over their ex they are, when they’re most definitely not.
 
Wow, her reply to that DM about engagement was very snappy and defensive. I thought she had a job and insta wasn't her only income? Not entirely true to say she's 'making a living' from insta....

But then I suppose she's being somewhat honest about her intentions regarding paid insta work and engagement etc, which is more than most influencers who try to act like the insta dollars don't exist and they're doing what they do for their 'friends' etc.

Still fits with what's been said on here re:- her long term goals being to get big brand partnerships at all costs. Guess we'll be seeing more fake racist/ableist emails in the future when engagement dips...... 🙄
 
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