Carly Harris @thefitmummyoffical #2 Theo won’t sleep in his bed, he prefers to hit Milo on the head

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theteacherlife said:
An accountant I think?

Also, did anyone see the answer about him staying at the house at the weekends and her moving out? She’s deleted that story now…
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Yeah he’s an accountant. I saw that! I was thinking I couldn’t do that it’d hurt me too much to have him sleep over on a Tuesday while I’m in the house too
 
I do feel awful for her, last nights updates make it sound like he checked out months ago so she’s probably been doing everything on her own ok this time anyway. Maybe with some overnight visitations she might actually get some sleep!
 
I feel sorry for her, however I’m still not a fan on how she uses her boys and family situation to ‘normalise’ things and get engagement and sponsorships. Yes she wanted to be honest with her followers but she should have not splattered all the details of cheating (that it was a colleague etc etc) on her insta so her kids one day can see it. Also anyone can do a quick search and find info on her company, her husband work and so on. What is she expecting for her 90k followers to now harass her husband?
I know also expect all sorts of ads with the single mum narrative, which god save us all.
I’m not condoning what Adam did, but maybe she should think about going back to teaching and have a private life and do extra money just with her successful PT business.
 
shopboughtisfine said:
I feel sorry for her, however I’m still not a fan on how she uses her boys and family situation to ‘normalise’ things and get engagement and sponsorships. Yes she wanted to be honest with her followers but she should have not splattered all the details of cheating (that it was a colleague etc etc) on her insta so her kids one day can see it. Also anyone can do a quick search and find info on her company, her husband work and so on. What is she expecting for her 90k followers to now harass her husband?
I know also expect all sorts of ads with the single mum narrative, which god save us all.
I’m not condoning what Adam did, but maybe she should think about going back to teaching and have a private life and do extra money just with her successful PT business.
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While I agree she shouldn’t be using the kids for content (at all), I think he’s made his bed so should deal with it. She’d be hounded with questions if she hadn’t come out with the details, as she says she’s always been very up front on there. It’s her choice what to share I suppose, and I doubt the kids would hear anything they wouldn’t already know by the age they’d see it online. That said, maybe this would be a good opportunity to step back and change how she shows up. Right now, I’m all for her dragging his cheating arse through the mud for all to see.
 
Higuyswelcometomychannel said:
While I agree she shouldn’t be using the kids for content (at all), I think he’s made his bed so should deal with it. She’d be hounded with questions if she hadn’t come out with the details, as she says she’s always been very up front on there. It’s her choice what to share I suppose, and I doubt the kids would hear anything they wouldn’t already know by the age they’d see it online. That said, maybe this would be a good opportunity to step back and change how she shows up. Right now, I’m all for her dragging his cheating arse through the mud for all to see.
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I’m or her side for the cheating and don’t condone it. But I also believe that things happen for a reason, clearly he was not happy in the marriage or he would have not done that, so I wonder if also she will reflect on some of the things maybe she did that lead him there.
Again, he is a bastard and can’t believe he did that and left his 2 kids, but I still thing less over exposing will be better. I prefer much more influencers that have a purpose like the thegpmum or the pharmacistmum (who also separated but kept it very quiet).
 
shopboughtisfine said:
I’m or her side for the cheating and don’t condone it. But I also believe that things happen for a reason, clearly he was not happy in the marriage or he would have not done that, so I wonder if also she will reflect on some of the things maybe she did that lead him there.
Again, he is a bastard and can’t believe he did that and left his 2 kids, but I still thing less over exposing will be better. I prefer much more influencers that have a purpose like the thegpmum or the pharmacistmum (who also separated but kept it very quiet).
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Or, ya know, some people are just cunts. An unhappy marriage is no excuse, you get out of it before cheating. Edging towards victim blaming there.
 
I feel sorry for her as for me, there is no excuse for cheating - just tell your partner your unhappy & leave. However I personally find her unbearable online so can’t imagine what she is like to live with. People must get sick to death when their partners are obsessed with social media and everything revolves around doing tit for Instagram - documenting holidays/days out etc.
She is about to launch her single mum insta life and basically be the worlds first single mum and therefore an expert 🙄🙄
Her husband is still a dirty rat tho!
 
shopboughtisfine said:
I’m or her side for the cheating and don’t condone it. But I also believe that things happen for a reason, clearly he was not happy in the marriage or he would have not done that, so I wonder if also she will reflect on some of the things maybe she did that lead him there.
Again, he is a bastard and can’t believe he did that and left his 2 kids, but I still thing less over exposing will be better. I prefer much more influencers that have a purpose like the thegpmum or the pharmacistmum (who also separated but kept it very quiet).
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She could have actually done a lot of good if she kept her account to mum based fitness. Excercises to do at home etc. I was looking at her grid and spotted one on diastis recti which is actually quite helpful, but it’s hidden in between stupid “mums on the loose” and “my kids won’t sleep” reels. Hopefully she reflects and protects those boys.
 
TheArtisticMouse said:
She could have actually done a lot of good if she kept her account to mum based fitness. Excercises to do at home etc. I was looking at her grid and spotted one on diastis recti which is actually quite helpful, but it’s hidden in between stupid “mums on the loose” and “my kids won’t sleep” reels. Hopefully she reflects and protects those boys.
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Exactly ! She has a really good skill and I wished she focussed on that! I swear, I genuinely don’t relate to any of the insta mums that want to keep it real! Because for starters they are not relatable because they get buckloada of free stuff, so they don’t need to worry of also spending the money. She is a talented PT, she should focus on that! Her real assets, of course she can share and make the point on being tired because kids have not slept, or had tateum
Bla blah, but as a secondary comment. Her kids shouldn’t be her content.
 
The exercise stuff was why I originally followed her. I didn’t want to sign up for her boot camp cos to be honest my kids are just as demanding as hers and I wouldn’t get the chance to do it properly. But if she makes money from grid posts etc I would’ve appreciated some posts about it without paying her a hefty fee. Bit like thepilatespt does. She shows her kids but keeps their faces hidden
 
Interestingly I noticed a month or two ago she had tagged her husbands Instagram account in the odd post.. looked like a new Instagram account not much on it..can’t find it now it was thefitdad or something similar. I wonder if he made an Instagram account to facilitate the affair in some way?
 
cymraescupcake said:
Interestingly I noticed a month or two ago she had tagged her husbands Instagram account in the odd post.. looked like a new Instagram account not much on it..can’t find it now it was thefitdad or something similar. I wonder if he made an Instagram account to facilitate the affair in some way?
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Here it is!
 

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Does she even do any fitness related content?
Obviously I know what she's going through is horrific and wouldn't wish it on anyone..but it's not really on topic....
 
Does she even do any fitness related content?
Obviously I know what she's going through is horrific and wouldn't wish it on anyone..but it's not really on topic....
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Give it a week or two, she’ll be doing a giveaway for her boot camp and it’s all we will hear about
 
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