This really upset me too. My husband has played several charity football matches to raise money and always felt self conscious about being unfit, unable to keep up or not having the same physic to the other players who were big gym goes, regular footballers etc. I never ever made comments, I was always so supportive and cheering him on, before during and after. Men have their own insecurities just like women. He actually always did amazing and I was always so proud. The only time I took a bloody camping chair was when I was pretty pregnant but I didn’t really sit down I was too busy cheering him on or talking to the other people on the side lines