Copacapybara
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That sounds stressful! I’m sorry you experienced that xI don't know. I used to sleep in my older brothers bed with him when our parents argued or my stepdad was drunk and irritable, just in case. I guess it depends on context and a lot of it seems to be missing from this book.
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I do wonder now about a lot of the 90s women who got written off as ‘difficult’ ‘bitches’ and so forth.
Women were expected to laugh along with the most obnoxious misogynistic bullshit then, I suspect a lot of these supposed ‘bitches’ were just forthright about their boundaries and had opinions of their own.
People often never wrote what exactly about these women was meant to be the problem. Some might have just annoyed the guys making the judgements.
I mean, I’m sure that there were some entitled jerks too, but ‘nice’ in many cases seems to have also meant ‘pliable’, and a lot of these girls have not ended up in a good place. I imagine you’d have to have some bolshiness and ego to you to actually survive that sort of environment without disintegrating.
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