Bex Wolfnsunflowers #9 I use a very simple filter that doesn’t change my face shape

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Jelly Bean said:
She babies herself so much with other people. I don't get why she enjoys that. Proud of the fact her friend had to keep helping her with her panic attacks. Does Bex ever reciprocate and look after her friends? It seems incredibly one sided.
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This is why nobody sticks around. Which is why she's so obsessed with making out she has SOOO many good people around her, none of whom she's known more than 6 months. Even her BESTIE has to be paid to spend time with her in the form of carer's allowance.

I actually rekindled a friendship with someone similar to Bex over the last year or so while my mental health has been really bad, it was someone I knew at school but had fallen out of touch with. Despite me being mentally awful and almost wanting a friend who "got" that compared to everyone else I know who seemed to be coping with life, I ended up doing SO MUCH for this woman and called it all off a few weeks ago because I CBA with it and she was actually hindering my mental health. I took her out for her birthday while on SSP because she wouldn't have been able to do anything otherwise, would do her beauty treatments (I'm trained in various things but never made a career of it), got dragged into helping her redecorate her flat (which never ended up happening), taking her pets to the vet etc. etc.
It sounds horrible I know, but I always end up looking back and realising why these people end up lonely.
 
Her statement: defiant own the trolls:
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I’m surmising here that someone was good enough to stay at her house and take care of the kittens and/or OJ and instead of being eternally grateful that someone gave up their weekend to help, this horribly entitled bleep is bitching about them daring to move things round in her home.

I’ll leave a casual reminder that her previous landlord said she was a scruffy dirty cow when she lived in their property too here…
 
Traazers said:
This is why nobody sticks around. Which is why she's so obsessed with making out she has SOOO many good people around her, none of whom she's known more than 6 months. Even her BESTIE has to be paid to spend time with her in the form of carer's allowance.

I actually rekindled a friendship with someone similar to Bex over the last year or so while my mental health has been really bad, it was someone I knew at school but had fallen out of touch with. Despite me being mentally awful and almost wanting a friend who "got" that compared to everyone else I know who seemed to be coping with life, I ended up doing SO MUCH for this woman and called it all off a few weeks ago because I CBA with it and she was actually hindering my mental health. I took her out for her birthday while on SSP because she wouldn't have been able to do anything otherwise, would do her beauty treatments (I'm trained in various things but never made a career of it), got dragged into helping her redecorate her flat (which never ended up happening), taking her pets to the vet etc. etc.
It sounds horrible I know, but I always end up looking back and realising why these people end up lonely.
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I 100% agree with you and you aren't alone. I befriended my elderly neighbour (very long story) over her cat coming into my house. A very chatty woman to say the least, a cup of tea would keep you there two hours. She had me sympathising for her early on saying that her long term partner had died a few years back and his extended family took the inheritance and left her, that friends had abandoned her, health issues, etc. She marketed her life as a tragedy and I tried my best to help her out with shopping, cat care, etc.

It became extremely draining - her constant negativity as well as her constant demands for help, that she seemed to just feel entitled to. She had a narrative in her head, just like Bex - always a victim of horrible people, always too trusting and has too big a heart, that people would 'take advantage' of her. I realised why all these people cut her out of their lives. The truth is she was an arrogant, demanding woman who only saw other people in her life as pawns to use.

I'd love to cut her off entirely, as she's moved away, but she's shown some extremely stalkerish tendencies and I'm honestly afraid to provoke her.
 
Bex is living in her echo chamber. She'll never get out. She'll never be any more or different than this. It'll be uncomfortable when she's 34, and by age 44 she'll be Roadsidemum.

The good news: she'll be married to herself soon and we'll see pictures and possibly some mutual aid with squeezy chugs
 
Jelly Bean said:
Why were people in her house anyway? Looking after kiddo and dog and cats? Seems a tad ungrateful of her.
And just in case she made it seem she had too much fun at the festival and was too capable, she had anxiety attacks and had to be looked after by bestie :rolleyes:
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Do you think someone couldn’t bear to look at them anymore and moved her hideous spice racks? 😂
 
markcorriganscrisps said:
I find it very hard to believe that a husky who is barely walked and has to tolerate tantrums over a dildo drawer being left ajar (as yes, dugs do pick up on atmospheres) is anything like calm. Unless of course he's knackered as he gets a year's worth of exercise in his stays there and he's gubbed.
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The poor pup’s probably just horrendously depressed, bless his heart
 
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