I feel really sad for the children of these grifters, who are being raised by people who live in a fantasy social media world, receiving worthless validation from strangers for their bad life choices.
I know the world isn't perfect. I know I'm very far from perfect but I do my best raising my children and to me, sending them to school is crucially important so that they benefit from the amazing free education that is on offer in this country that we take for granted.
I know it isn't perfect. But I have seen my children benefit enormously from it, and avail of opportunities to grow, develop, and contribute that I could never ever offer them because my partner and I are both busy working full time in the public sector for the benefit of society. I am so grateful to the teachers and to the system that we have that does give children the opportunity to learn and develop, gain qualifications, etc.
A teacher at school had a huge influence on me as they genuinely cared and supported me when I was going through a tough adolescence. They are still teaching now and i feel so happy that someone like that is in charge of children's education. This teacher didn't ever get involved in what was happening for me outside school, but instinctively put in place the right support that allowed me to get through my alevels and go on to university. They knew what was required and they believed in me, that I would get past the bumps in the road and make it, that I was worth time and effort and a bit of care. That's absolutely transformative when it happens outside the family.
I genuinely feel and believe that school is a hugely beneficial place, especially for kids growing up in disadvantage. It offers a pathway to a better life. There are nurturing environments out there if you are lucky. My children are at a school that prioritises developing the whole character over being an exam factory and it shows.
I'm not against home Ed, but the people I've met who do it tend to be wealthy and very well educated. Their children will not suffer any setbacks due to the home ed choice as they will be cushioned by their socioeconomic privilege.
On the other hand, I know one child who was taken out of school during the pandemic and never returned. His mum has always let him have unlimited access to gaming etc. When he was at summer schemes, after school clubs, etc, he always had his ipad. Now he presumably has unlimited access all day long. I'm sure he is very happy right now, but I'm also sure his future is fucked. Hopefully I am wrong.
Bringing up children is about providing what they need, not always just what they want. You have to prepare them for life and give them the tools to succeed.
Sorry for the ramble, feeling philosophical tonight and wanted to share.