Beth Sandland #7 So beige. So bland. So sandland.

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What have I just watched 🧐- she is clearly out of her depth as a mum & the no shade comment on the train 🤣. Generation repair & self reflective parenting … fcking hell I’ve heard it all now. Breeding a generation that will expect apologies for every slight or tough day. She is everything wrong with that generation & the influencer parent 🥱
 
lilelms said:
she’s gone from playing the stay at home mum card to the working mum card - but in reality she’s neither really is she 🙄
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She’s a lost little girl trying to cosplay the boss mama bullshit she sees others do online. It’s all pitiful - her and her family’s life would be entirely enhanced if she logged off the internet and lived a sweet normal Oxfordshire Cotswolds life together. Her ego is too big for the simple life though, she lives for the affirmation.
 
So did she sleep train oxo/olso/slow or not? Because she posted before that she didn’t need to because he magically did it him self but now past 24 hours she’s inferred that she has.

shes also posted a commment on another accounts post (which I can’t find now) about the new childcare funded places/ tax free childcare and how there’s nothing available to her because teacher is a stay at home dad … yet has also posted she makes 6 figures… which would disqualify her from tax free childcare anyway - and she can’t get funded place because teacher would to be in work for that! 🤯 make it make sense
 
I don’t know why she’s always been so uptight over sleep. I didn’t sleep train my oldest per se, he slept with me until 12 months then we moved him to his own room and basically it took like a week before he’d go to sleep without needing me sat by his cot. Kids are smarter than we think 😅 but also I don’t care if sally down the street or Beth off of Instagram sleep trained her kids or not
 

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She’s so self righteous! Sitting on her moral high ground with 2 stay at home parents going on about her non negotiables and how she won’t use childcare until her child is 3.5. Yes well done Beth, good for you but many people have no choice but to use childcare whether they want to or not. It doesn’t usually wash with employers when you tell them not using childcare is your non negotiable. Why does she think it makes her a better parent? I’m sure she does these kind of lists at least once a month and it’s purely to ruffle feathers and come across as some kind of superior parent.
 
Nolovelost3 said:
She’s so self righteous! Sitting on her moral high ground with 2 stay at home parents going on about her non negotiables and how she won’t use childcare until her child is 3.5. Yes well done Beth, good for you but many people have no choice but to use childcare whether they want to or not. It doesn’t usually wash with employers when you tell them not using childcare is your non negotiable. Why does she think it makes her a better parent? I’m sure she does these kind of lists at least once a month and it’s purely to ruffle feathers and come across as some kind of superior parent.
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Also what about some socialisation for her sons? Like exposure to other children and adults is good for their development?

But hey Beth not all of us married our teachers so I wouldn’t be so smug
 
Nolovelost3 said:
She’s so self righteous! Sitting on her moral high ground with 2 stay at home parents going on about her non negotiables and how she won’t use childcare until her child is 3.5. Yes well done Beth, good for you but many people have no choice but to use childcare whether they want to or not. It doesn’t usually wash with employers when you tell them not using childcare is your non negotiable. Why does she think it makes her a better parent? I’m sure she does these kind of lists at least once a month and it’s purely to ruffle feathers and come across as some kind of superior parent.
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Didn't she post that she put them both in Forest school last week?
 
Nolovelost3 said:
She’s so self righteous! Sitting on her moral high ground with 2 stay at home parents going on about her non negotiables and how she won’t use childcare until her child is 3.5. Yes well done Beth, good for you but many people have no choice but to use childcare whether they want to or not. It doesn’t usually wash with employers when you tell them not using childcare is your non negotiable. Why does she think it makes her a better parent? I’m sure she does these kind of lists at least once a month and it’s purely to ruffle feathers and come across as some kind of superior parent.
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She’s so smug about everything, although I’m sure nursery key workers wouldn’t be looking after her kids with noise cancelling headphones in
 
Nolovelost3 said:
She’s so self righteous! Sitting on her moral high ground with 2 stay at home parents going on about her non negotiables and how she won’t use childcare until her child is 3.5. Yes well done Beth, good for you but many people have no choice but to use childcare whether they want to or not. It doesn’t usually wash with employers when you tell them not using childcare is your non negotiable. Why does she think it makes her a better parent? I’m sure she does these kind of lists at least once a month and it’s purely to ruffle feathers and come across as some kind of superior parent.
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And if the opportunity presented itself she’d have those children packed off to boarding school in a heartbeat.

…..at least the children might get some privacy!!

She is not a natural parent. She lacks empathy and emotional intelligence, for starters.

She is her no.1 priority.
 
Nolovelost3 said:
When she says she’s the “working parent” what exactly is she working doing? What’s her job? Surely she’s not talking about making these reels?? I’m genuinely curious as to what she does to see herself as the working parent.
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It's an insult to actual working parents.

I know working from home and hybrid working is more prevalent now, so some can put dinner on at lunch time. But so many more parents will be actually leaving the house to go to work each day.
 
HoGi said:
It's an insult to actual working parents.

I know working from home and hybrid working is more prevalent now, so some can put dinner on at lunch time. But so many more parents will be actually leaving the house to go to work each day.
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Exactly! This made me so angry. I hate people who are preachy about childcare. My SIL is the worst for it. I don’t go round asking her what she’s going to do about her pension so I don’t know why she feels the need to say things to me about childcare! Beth is just alienating working parents here. I’m all for the woman being the breadwinner and it’s great that her husband is so supportive. But saying no childcare until 3 like it’s an achievement is so tone deaf!
 
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