The comment about the child in the house really pissed me off- and I’ve thought about it a lot.
Her attitude to her house is incredibly weird.
She is immature and treats it like she has one bedroom in a parents house, and like a teenager who wants to only be there to eat, sleep, sht, and hoard her unnecessary charity finds.
But more than that she doesn’t want any connection with the ppl that live there or responsibility for the house. She is contemptuous of the landlord, she has no sense of accountability for the common spaces, and doesn’t use them unless desperate. Never once been interested in cleaning or help tidy the house. She just used the resources and assumed the host mates will maintain it.
Basically the parents downsized and turfed her out but she’s in denial and acting like she’s a teenager at home- broken bed and all.