BeckiJones4 #121 Got a £200 Uber to Barry but is coming home in a lorry

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WhiteFox said:
Can someone explain her weight history as when you go back to old post she’s got a massive even fatter head, hairy face and seems bigger. Then she appears to have gone smaller again. Now she’s back to being big again, minus the hairy face.

Are the hairy face TikTok’s she did at the start pre filter, similar size to now?
Did she ever lose weight? Or was it all an illusion?

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I don’t know where I got the idea she had a skinny size 24 stage in between the two. I can’t find any evidence. Did I imagine that?
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I think she appeared thinner because she started using slimming filters but now she’s even bigger than when she first started and the slimming filters just make her look like she’s the same size instead of slimmer
 
Thinking of Cory and Lea getting engaged, surely she will get to a point where she starts seeing friends (if she has any) or her nieces and nephews moving on, finding partners, getting engaged, having kids etc and realise that she is being left behind because she’s too busy chowing down on takeaways in her bedroom? I know she’s not old at almost 32, but time flies by pretty quickly so before you know it she’s mid forties still doing the same old thing in her parents house. And she may not make it that far but, she could. Not all morbidly obese people drop down dead in their thirties.
 
krispykreme said:
i know people are coming from a nice place when talking about how her parents are just letting her eat herself to death, but what exactly do you want them to do?
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You’re right and Becki is an adult so her parents can’t make decisions for her in terms of what she eats and how she lives, but there’s a difference between encouraging and enabling.

The Friday night dessert delivery video is a good example. After eating all day (lots of toast, fully tin of spaghetti hoops, butter, a Squares bar, crisps, huge dinner, and whatever else she had but didn’t show), Becki ordered hugely calorific desserts. Caff’s reaction was to rub her stomach and chant “nomnomnomnom”. It’s like accepting a bottle of vodka from an alcoholic who has also bought themselves one and yelling “chug!”

Becki controls people with food because she was allowed dictate everything as a child. That’s down to her parents allowing it then, and enabling it now. She’s never been told no, and it shows. I’ve met lots of spoiled younger people who then got a slap in the face in the real world when they left home, had to pay bills, work, and deal with problems themselves- Becki has never had to do that, again because they’ve allowed her to live at home and turn their personal lives into TikTok fodder, and their home into a studio. They act like she’s doing something worthwhile. They’re exceptionally stupid people and when she dies they’ll be the ones crying about how they’ve been let down by the government/public services, no support in place to get help etc.
I think they’ll also lie and say they did so much to try and help her over the years- but it’s all documented and we can see how much they encouraged her to gorge.
I predict a Go Fund Me for the double wardrobe coffin.

Anyway, I’ll get off my podium now. Cheps and garlic wheels for all, if that makes sensum?
 
AwwCosyWivDeek said:
You’re right and Becki is an adult so her parents can’t make decisions for her in terms of what she eats and how she lives, but there’s a difference between encouraging and enabling.

The Friday night dessert delivery video is a good example. After eating all day (lots of toast, fully tin of spaghetti hoops, butter, a Squares bar, crisps, huge dinner, and whatever else she had but didn’t show), Becki ordered hugely calorific desserts. Caff’s reaction was to rub her stomach and chant “nomnomnomnom”. It’s like accepting a bottle of vodka from an alcoholic who has also bought themselves one and yelling “chug!”

Becki controls people with food because she was allowed dictate everything as a child. That’s down to her parents allowing it then, and enabling it now. She’s never been told no, and it shows. I’ve met lots of spoiled younger people who then got a slap in the face in the real world when they left home, had to pay bills, work, and deal with problems themselves- Becki has never had to do that, again because they’ve allowed her to live at home and turn their personal lives into TikTok fodder, and their home into a studio. They act like she’s doing something worthwhile. They’re exceptionally stupid people and when she dies they’ll be the ones crying about how they’ve been let down by the government/public services, no support in place to get help etc.
I think they’ll also lie and say they did so much to try and help her over the years- but it’s all documented and we can see how much they encouraged her to gorge.
I predict a Go Fund Me for the double wardrobe coffin.

Anyway, I’ll get off my podium now. Cheps and garlic wheels for all, if that makes sensum?
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you actually make a very good point that i didn’t consider, that they are also enabling. i think the only reason for this is they are probably scared of the backlash from her if they say no or turn something down.

you’re also super right with the controlling people with food things, thanks for sharing another perspective because i never thought of it that way either.
 
krispykreme said:
you actually make a very good point that i didn’t consider, that they are also enabling. i think the only reason for this is they are probably scared of the backlash from her if they say no or turn something down.

you’re also super right with the controlling people with food things, thanks for sharing another perspective because i never thought of it that way either.
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I don’t mean this to sound snobby but they probably aren’t that educated about nutrition either. You can tell that by the way she has no idea. In her head home made = healthy, despite being enough to feed a family of 10, Salad = healthy, despite it being made up of pasta and potatoes drenched in mayo and sauce with not a single vegetable in sight. It’s just so outdated. They likely tell her she’s “big-boned” too.
 
krispykreme said:
you actually make a very good point that i didn’t consider, that they are also enabling. i think the only reason for this is they are probably scared of the backlash from her if they say no or turn something down.

you’re also super right with the controlling people with food things, thanks for sharing another perspective because i never thought of it that way either.
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They probably think well while she’s scranning she’s quiet. I can imagine if caff told her she couldn’t have something she’d be raging and would you want to deal with a 30st overgrown toddler having a tantrum? So caff keeps it shut for a quiet life & goes along with it all to keep Becki in control..

It shouldn’t be like that and caff is at fault because she’s allowed this but I can kind of see a reasoning behind it.
 
Helliebella said:
Becki will be seething that closet Corey and Lea are engaged but she will 100% post something today about it, likely with a montage of their ‘friendship’.
Hopefully they’ll get on with it sharpish, pop out a kid or two and becki will no longer be in the picture.
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She’ll be like one of those “hardest secret to keep!” “So glad I can talk about it nowm” 😂😂
 
It annoys me that people suggest caff and Ian should “step in” or intervene. life ain’t a Disney movie. Or an episode of friends. I think parents are the blame for her poor relationship with food perhaps and enabling her as an adult, but she’s fully capable of making changes to her lifestyle herself but no one else is responsible for that. Also, no. Caff and Ian are dealing with Ian’s disease which neither of them can prevent or stop, they’re not gonna focus their energy on their fat spoilt daughter.
 
Diddikins said:
I don’t mean this to sound snobby but they probably aren’t that educated about nutrition either. You can tell that by the way she has no idea. In her head home made = healthy, despite being enough to feed a family of 10, Salad = healthy, despite it being made up of pasta and potatoes drenched in mayo and sauce with not a single vegetable in sight. It’s just so outdated. They likely tell her she’s “big-boned” too.
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Pint of appletiser = helfy because it’s apples (250 calories and 50g of sugar) 😂
 
Helliebella said:
Becki will be seething that closet Corey and Lea are engaged but she will 100% post something today about it, likely with a montage of their ‘friendship’.
Hopefully they’ll get on with it sharpish, pop out a kid or two and becki will no longer be in the picture.
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Cory would have to go near a vagina for that to happen so I think big Beck will be able to cling on a bit longer.
 
potatopotato2988 said:
It annoys me that people suggest caff and Ian should “step in” or intervene. life ain’t a Disney movie. Or an episode of friends. I think parents are the blame for her poor relationship with food perhaps and enabling her as an adult, but she’s fully capable of making changes to her lifestyle herself but no one else is responsible for that. Also, no. Caff and Ian are dealing with Ian’s disease which neither of them can prevent or stop, they’re not gonna focus their energy on their fat spoilt daughter.
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There’s enough pictures out there of Becki as a child that show she was massively overweight then. Caff and Ian aren’t just her enablers they’re the reason for her size, she never stood a chance while still at home.
 
TruffleShuffles said:
There’s enough pictures out there of Becki as a child that show she was massively overweight then. Caff and Ian aren’t just her enablers they’re the reason for her size, she never stood a chance while still at home.
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And Shirl was obese too so they are definitely at fault. Yes Bison is an adult but they should say something just as you would if your offspring was an alcoholic or drug user.
 
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