She has such odd thoughts about dating it’s so concerning. Like all the lists of issues with men and dating, yes they will prioritise their CHILD over you, yes if they ABSOLUTELY want a child and you aren’t certain why wouldn’t they say no, yes if they want a physically intimate relationship and you can’t do that they will turn you down, a man can want a casual no strings attached fling and that’s totally fine. Her standards are high and that’s fine but she gets upset by men having similar standards. And then all these doodles and obsessing over being alone?
Proves she will never ever be satisfied with how her life is going. It used to be her job that made her miserable and now she has a majority remote job no longer in retail doing something creative/producery, she has a good active hobby, she’s making friends and connections at this hobby, she has a cat, a flat of her own. Her parents’ ill health is very sad and absolutely she should be upset about that but she spends more time obsessing over being single. It sucks but she’s improved all the other areas of her life, she needs to learn to appreciate all of that and embrace her other close relationships and calm down.
she makes it too easy. 
