Beckiejbrown #3 Moan of Arc

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LolaCola said:
"I deserve better". No, you actually don't because you are a crappy person who never does anything for anybody else or spends a second thinking about anyone else. So no, the universe does not owe you other people doing that.
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No one literally deserves anything. We are animals that evolved over time, we don't deserve anything Beckie. We only deserve what we create
What we put out in the world comes back to us. You only put out negativity so it comes back to you, in you being a disatisfied spoiled brat. Maybe if she didnt buy so many kayaks she could heat her flat? Also she lives in UK it gets to like what max -15/20? She is lucky she isnt in any part of the world that gets below -30. Her whining wouldnt be tolerated.
 
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Can someone explain to me (a person with ADHD) how this picture is clear proof of ADHD, because I can't for the life of me figure it out!!
 
Bonki said:
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Can someone explain to me (a person with ADHD) how this picture is clear proof of ADHD, because I can't for the life of me figure it out!!
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The chaos maybe?

I again don’t get, what high expectations she has in a diagnosis.

Even if diagnosed, you still face all the difficulties of being neurodiverse.

Maybe it would have helped her, recognizing other people are neurodiverse as well, and therefore not feeling as snowflakey. But I’m not sure, that’s what she is after.
 
You’d think she would have learned from the autism dx that nothing will change about your life, your coping strategies or your status with the NHS. I think lots of people who get late neurological diagnoses experience that realisation.

But with Beckie I actually reckon she loves the chase of a new diagnosis tbh, that’s the main motivation for her. Autism has been on the back burner for years but in the meantime we’ve had the migraines, the walking problems, et. al. now ADHD. Being able to claim she is undiagnosed (neuro stuff) or has otherwise mysterious symptoms (physical pains) both work in her favour because it’s her all favourite topics: ‘’I’m being medically neglected’’ ’’the NHS is tit’’ ‘’I’m so misunderstood’’ ‘’look again at my archived video evidence!!!’’, being able to whittle off any number of strange symptoms without being held to diagnostic criteria.

It’s all just external validation to her. She likes the chase because it keeps her in suspensions always waiting for the next medical opinion or social media comment to engage with her. It’s telling that with even with the condition she was diagnosed with earlier (trich) she maintained that she would NEVER recover (contrary to lots of medical evidence and personal experiences). No treatment was ever good enough. Nobody could ever understand etc. It’s a great comfort for her to have a perpetual illness and lack of diagnosis actually just helps her stay ‘in it’ for longer.

I do think she has a clinical case of Munchausens and in a way I do feel bad for her. I don’t know much about it as a conditions but I get the impression Beckie genuinely believes the mistruths she tells about her life/health. It must be scary and sad to her to know deep down nobody gives a tit.
 
I had forgot about her for literally ages until I remembered and wondered what she’d been doing…I’ve read over the thread

to me it seems like she wants to blame everything on someone else instead of working on herself.

I used to be very socially awkward and anxious but I am working on it. It’s not a fix all but it can help to also think what can I do.

I don’t think she actually wants to get help because if she did she couldn’t use it online.
 
I think that is it the persuit that keeps her going when looking for a diagnoisis as well. I think that is gives her something to speak about and it gets her pity and attention online. I think that a large part of Beckie is that there is something 'wrong,' with her, she potrays herself as someone who has so many health problems and has it has her idenity. I think that it is party due to the fact that she became 'famous,' online for her health problems and she refuses to shake it off. She said a few days ago that she struggles to speak to people and social media and us, to an extent, are her 'friends,' that she interacts with and engages with by her stories. This was in her rant about struggling to use social media now and she can't get to grips with TikTok.

I think that Beckie feels that she can connect with people her shared ailments as well and it gives her something to speak about socially as she struggles to connect and speak to people. Her going on about a migraine is her eqivilant of making small talk about the weather. Though intrestedntly, I did find it intresting how Beckie said a few days ago on a story she finds small talk pointlss because of her autism, I feel a part of it is the fact that she doesn't like it as it's not focused about her. I feel that she struggles when she is not centre of attention.
 
My problem with her is that all her "tells" that's she's neurodiverse is stereotypes. ADHD are messy, Autistic people flap their arms around and act weird on the train.
She is making us look insane, when if you are living in a mess like that its deeper issues than ADHD. She said her doctor said she had manic episodes and bpd, and I a 1000% think that is the case. But she doesn't want that diagnosis because then she need to do actual work on herself instead of just getting a stimulant pill. Which if she is really manic will make her even more manic.
 
She's doing the exact same thing she did with the trich community. Trying to make herself the poster child for it, constantly speaking on behalf of the community, talking about what affects 'us' and how 'we' struggle with things etc. Then she tries to use her autism 'diagnosis', one she relentlessly chased down and rehearsed for, to explain all these bleeping MENTAL things like holding mannequin hands or hugging speakers that play cat purrs. She only knows one way, and it's to make herself seem like a permanently ill influencer.

All these afflictions she picks up along the way are almost all used to explain why her last relationship didn't work. They couldn't cope with the trich/the religion/the mystery cripple illness/the autism/the adhd etc.
 
She is saying she enjoys tiktok more now. Ans I just have to wonder what about when her tiktok viewers find her toxic, or learn about her past behavior? Way harder to maintain a narrative on that platform, its why Carrie hope Fletcher stopped using it.
 
Redrose97 said:


First video that appeared on my tiktok of Beckie moaning about her dating life.
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So James(???) came back into her life platonically and she met up with him? Ash is still dating someone so doubt it was him.
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Bonki said:
I would love to see what her bumble profile looks like 😂
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I found it a while ago. The D/s means dominant/submissive in a BDSM sense :ROFLMAO:
 
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