Ayse and Zeliha Clark #3 Beige baby number two, moving house is all they do

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iamwhoiam1997 said:
If you are concerned about the welfare of a baby. Message her about it! Not a lot of good talking about it on here.
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People are talking about it because they want to and because they can. I don't think there's a single person here concerned about the general welfare of a baby or who thinks she is failing as a mother, more so just pointing out the baby looked sunburnt and that that is not at all ideal. What would be the point of messaging her when she's already obviously seen those sentiments and when all she's done about them is cry her eyes out turning it into something much worse on IG stories to try and make villains out of people pointing out something reasonable based on what was shown to them. If people had messaged her would she still be on stories crying about unsolicited advice and people accusing her of the same things, probably. She still has the option of not monetising a baby at all, and therefore not inviting opinions on her.

Do you message every single person you every discuss when they aren't there to let them know exactly what's been said in your day to day life then, including people you don't know that you've seen online? In any case , again, apparently they don't need to message here to let her know about it because she is looking here anyway or having someone do it for her.
 
chocolatemuffins1 said:
She is pregnant and clearly very sensitive at the moment. If you know she is reading this, why would you want to upset her further? When you are pregnant you naturally feel very defensive and protective and your emotions are heightened. Let the girl enjoy her pregnancy, Pia is fine. If any fellow mothers are commenting here after seeing Zeliha crying her eyes out, you should know better.
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You should be saying this to the “friend” that told her what’s being said
 
Sophiadee said:
Influencers block anyone who messages with an ounce of constructive criticism in and calls them haters lol, this is why we have tattle 👍🏽
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It’s not even criticism really it’s an observation… your child looks burnt and it seems you’ve made no attempt to put her in protective long sleeve clothing hence people assume she’s burnt🤷🏻‍♀️ it’s really not that deep if you know she’s not burnt then just say that stop reaching that people said you’re a bad mum because no one did
 
Rebby123 said:
As a influencer you are paid to influence you are showing the world your life. When your posting photos of your belly being burnt and your baby being very red people are going to have an opinion and they are allowed to.
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That’s the thing. It’s sad but influencers have to take the pros and cons of their ‘job’. People are always going to have an opinion. If she knows the truth, then that should be enough. I think thick skin is needed for the world that she’s in.
 
No friend ‘informed’ her! Zeliha and Ayse have made it clear time and time again that they read here by addressing things discussed here in their videos.

If she chooses to read here it’s up to her. Shame to hear she was upset but she wouldn’t have been that upset and in tears if it wasn’t true. I know shes pregnant and emotional but if it wasn’t true you’d be better off ignoring and moving on. The truth hurts sometimes and she felt the need to justify herself.

maybe in the future she should keep her innocent child off the internet and then there will be no judgement and speculation. Both Ben and Zeliha were sunburnt, they always burn when they go abroad! Pia’s arms and legs were visibly burnt, you can’t change my mind on it
 
Its a forum people come here to discuss things. These influencers CHOOSE to post their entire lives online because they're desperate for freebies and attention. Being in the public eye WILL expose you to criticism it's part of the job THEY choose, no one's forcing them to share their every move. Don't like being criticised limit what you post it's not difficult is it? Unfortunately, influencers don't like to be called out or criticised and funnily enough they love to twist whatever is said to make it seem worse than it is. Anything for a bit of attention though I suppose.
Also why on earth would you be friends with someone who reads your tattle thread, if that happened to me I would be questioning the person who's bringing negative energy around me. But of course that isn't the case and she was reading here.
No one is saying she's a bad mum and yes I get pregnancy makes you more sensitive and defensive so understandable if zeliha has taken it badly. But honestly if you choose to share your child and your experiences of pregnancy and motherhood just own it when you duck up, no one knows everything about parenting. It would earn you more respect to say "guys we messed up we didn't cover her up very well and unfortunately she's a bit sunburnt, we've learnt our lesson and we'll be more careful from now" heck get yourself a brand deal with an spf company if you can and educate other parents and your young impressionable audience
 
I’ve just read the last 3 pages and the words ‘bad mum’ were never mentioned by anyone!!! We were just stating that she and pia were burnt and the didn’t have pia in a well covered swim suit!
Im not sure why a few accounts (probs a&z) are saying we need to be nice as she’s pregnant blah blah she’s emotional? Not realllly our issue and we haven’t said anything overly horrible about her 😂 she is hurt because she knows we’re right lmao
 
I can see from your past posts on other tattle threads etc that you were defending Elle Darby etc when people were criticising her for her actions… I don’t think this is the right place for you hun. If you are so moral why are you even on this website? Nothing wrong with people commenting on here. It’s not like people are messaging her directly

chocolatemuffins1 said:
She is pregnant and clearly very sensitive at the moment. If you know she is reading this, why would you want to upset her further? When you are pregnant you naturally feel very defensive and protective and your emotions are heightened. Let the girl enjoy her pregnancy, Pia is fine. If any fellow mothers are commenting here after seeing Zeliha crying her eyes out, you should know better.
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