Ashley James #9 All About Ashley

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Wow wtf was that huuuuge rant actually about?!

i wish she would stop referring to the first year as a ‘sacrifice year’ if I was pregnant seeing that I’d be terrified!
She also seems to resent the fact that she breastfed him for a year and holds that against him

also is going to scream if she mention lockdown one more time I was also a ‘lockdown mum’ as she puts it but don’t think I’ve ever mentioned or ever reallly thought about it? She goes on about the past WAY too much it’s worrying, she definitely has some issues regarding that… I was also single for god knows how many years however I also don’t talk about that cos who cares! The constant harking back to the past and how life was before is not healthy
 
This woman needs some help and soon! She’s got some serious deep rooted issues. She’s going on like she works a physically draining full time job and then has to parent 24/7 with zero family to help.
She’s basically just said that she hated motherhood for the first 12 months because she couldn’t do anything for her own pleasure, well no bleeping tit Sherlock! She absolutely should not have let Tommy ejaculate inside her!
There’s a massive difference in someone being honest about motherhood and admitting they sometimes struggle to someone constantly droning on about how much they resented becoming a mother and how much she hated the first year of her sons life.
And it’s laughable she thinks after 2 years of the ‘sacrifice years’ it will all just become easy and she can have her life back 🤣🤣 ok Trashley, let’s see how that pans out for you
 
A multi story ramble where the takeaway points are:

I never wanted kids, getting pregnant was a lockdown mistake

Even my sister disagrees with my awful parenting, but I’ll continue my neglectful ways regardless because internet memes and TK Maxx canvases say if you can’t handle me at my worst you don’t deserve me at my best.

Basically everyone dislikes me apart from my one friend, and that’s because everyone else is wrong.
 
Fuccckkk just watched her rants she's definitely suffering from PPD isn't she or something. Or she is absolutely desperate to be featured on the Daily Mail or something for being so OPEN AND HONEST about parenthood. She actually stated that he's ruined her life. I have ppd it's hard but imagine seeing your mum openly say all this on a public platform when you're older
 
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Apparently that nonsensical ramble about everything and nothing was somehow to say it's okay to not want children 😂😂😂 God she is just so embarrassing.
 

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Wildflower18 said:
Apparently that nonsensical ramble about everything and nothing was somehow to say it's okay to not want children 😂😂😂 God she is just so embarrassing.
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Yet more terrible English. Syntax & grammar: appalling. Punctuation poor. Over- & inappropriate use of cliché: “by the way”. As incoherent as the verbal rambling.

C-. See me after class, Ashley. Much remedial work is required to get you up to peer group standard. Even entry level Love Island influencers are more articulate & express themselves better in their writing.
 
Sorry but I don’t think you do really know true proper instinctual love until you have a kid - becoming a parent brings out a ferocious love I don’t think anything else compares to. It’s natural. You only have to look at the animal kingdom to see it ffs. No shade against people who don’t have children, not saying you don’t know love. But the way you love your kids is so different! It almost hurts.
 
Wildflower18 said:
Apparently that nonsensical ramble about everything and nothing was somehow to say it's okay to not want children 😂😂😂 God she is just so embarrassing.
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That’s nice isn’t it, she loves Alf as much as a dog that she never sees and palmed off to her parents. Gotta love that ✨ attachment parenting ✨

She really does just dig herself into a bigger hole and makes herself sound like a bigger and bigger bleep every time.
 
potatoface431 said:
Sorry but I don’t think you do really know true proper instinctual love until you have a kid - becoming a parent brings out a ferocious love I don’t think anything else compares to. It’s natural. You only have to look at the animal kingdom to see it ffs. No shade against people who don’t have children, not saying you don’t know love. But the way you love your kids is so different! It almost hurts.
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Exactly. How can she say she loves her dog as much as she loves her son!? That says everything you need to know!
 
potatoface431 said:
Never personally known of a toddler to ask cuddles from strangers? Makes me wonder if it’s because of his odd relationship with his mum, does he just think it’s normal to seek comfort from anyone or am I thinking about this too deeply 😂😂
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My mum spent her whole career doing child safeguarding and she used to say that she’d go into some houses and these young children she’d never met before would be desperate to sit on her lap and cuddle her… heartbreaking
 
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