Ashley James #9 All About Ashley

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ToolaRoola said:
She's also been on a Twitter rant about last names - why???? Nobody cares, she says she doesn't care, so why post?

I think she's been reading a 1940s handbook on expectations for women as I can't fathom where else this bullshit comes from.
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I've always found it so weird that she gave Alf Tommy's surname, not even a double barrel or James as a middle name?!

In the hospital the baby is always called 'baby [mother's surname]', so don't know what she's bleating on about when she's given into the 'patriarchy' herself!

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I found this thread after she posted about it (with the name scrubbed out 🤣) I was surprised she has a page here, I didn’t think she was that ‘popular’
I only followed her when she was pregnant as I was pregnant at the same time. I hadn’t actually really realised how much she had
Changed over that time - re attachment parenting especially! I don’t know why she is still calling herself an attachment parent, does she think it’s just breastfeeding and bedsharing a bit? I’m not an attachment parent, I wouldn’t say so anyway! I just do what’s right for my baby (firstly) and me (secondly!)
I was surprised she was putting him
In the club, I wouldn’t even think of it at this age, or leaving him in a room with a stranger at night. Like other posters said, there were kids clubs when I was young but I NEVER wanted to go, I would have been to unhappy if my parents made me, so she might be disappointed in a few years!
Why not just take the in laws like they usually do?
Didn’t she post a heap of stuff about child safety online when Alf was little? Now she is posting stories of him naked? Have to admit I reported that one too.
I don’t hate Ashley but after finding this thread my eyes have opened a bit, and I am shocked by some of the things on this holiday.

I also noticed the blinking ages ago 🤣

Ps, I have been dying to get Botox since my baby was born 🤣 weaning off breastfeeding now at 16 months since we are both ready. Can’t wait for my frozen face 🤣🤣

moimoi said:
I've always found it so weird that she gave Alf Tommy's surname, not even a double barrel or James as a middle name?!

In the hospital the baby is always called 'baby [mother's surname]', so don't know what she's bleating on about when she's given into the 'patriarchy' herself!

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Yeah if it’s that weird, why does her kid have the dads surname?

LoonyLeopard said:
For other influencers going in on their kid, see Kate Lawler (former BB winner from 2002) 🙈
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I actually really do like Kate, she has been super open about her struggles but I think that you can see she really loves her kid!
 
But that's exactly what you have done. You've shoved him in every day possible. If I had a pound for every time she's sad "kids club" since she's been away I'd be loaded. She is SO boring, and has definitely missed the point. The fact she's posted so much about her parenting choices shows that she's just trying to kid her self that it's ok! Why not just hire and bring a well known nanny with them? If they're that desperate, it makes more sense and surely would be better for him than being passed around by strangers.

And I honestly believe all this body confidence and feminist stuff she's posting is becUse she knows she's completely irrelevant now and is trying desperately to stay relevant.

Tommy clearly had just brought Alf back from kids club where he was upset. What did his mother choose to do in this moment? Get her phone out and record him. She's a disgrace and I really dislike her.

GET OFF YOUR PHONE Who uploads every second of the day on their holiday??? So cringe
 

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It’s funny cos the person who messaged that quoted her shoving him in there and closing the door. Then she’s re-quoted herself but making out it’s an awful thing to do/say. Yes it’s a bleeping awful thing to say and you’ve said it in front of thousands of people 😂😂😂😂

More people need to call her out but she has this bully stance of screenshotting their message when people do pull her up on her crappy behaviour. She’s turning into a troll herself 🤮
 
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moimoi said:
I've always found it so weird that she gave Alf Tommy's surname, not even a double barrel or James as a middle name?!

In the hospital the baby is always called 'baby [mother's surname]', so don't know what she's bleating on about when she's given into the 'patriarchy' herself!

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SAME!! Make it make sense!! I remember thinking it was weird his hospital tag said “baby Andrews” as regardless of whether she was going to legally give him Tommy’s surname, it should automatically say “baby **mothers name**”?!

I was married before having our child however, I had always made clear pre-kids that for me personally it was hugely important to share a surname with any future children (including for legal reasons). She often forgets which side of the fence she’s sitting on I think 😂😂😂

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moimoi said:
bleeping hell, this rant on IG. Put the phone down and play your bloody Uno.
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Just came on to Instagram and saw shes posted about a thousand talky stories since this morning 🤣 my goodness, did she just tell Tommy No Balls she was off to the loo then she films these ridiculous, long winded rants justifying her poor parenting choices? She’s hard bleeping work!

she looks manic in these stories too. Thou doth protest too much Trashley.
 
Jaybtee said:
Just came on to Instagram and saw shes posted about a thousand talky stories since this morning 🤣 my goodness, did she just tell Tommy No Balls she was off to the loo then she films these ridiculous, long winded rants justifying her poor parenting choices? She’s hard bleeping work!

she looks manic in these stories too. Thou doth protest too much Trashley.
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She loves the sound of her own voice doesn’t she! A person who is secure and confident in their decisions definitely spends 36 stories (!) defending their actions. Definitely. 🤥
 
CouldYouNot said:
I actually really do like Kate, she has been super open about her struggles but I think that you can see she really loves her kid!
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You want to get over to the Kate thread. Leaving her baby all night whimpering and not checking on her only to find she had a hard piece of wooden toy in her baby grow all night - who doesn’t check their child in the night, on a different floor to them, when their upset all night!?
Ash and Kate are definitely cut from the same resentful cloth only Ash gets worse and Kate is at least getting better.
 
Did she really just admit on those rambling word salad stories, that she obviously didn't want a son and that it ruined her life 😳
and stop bleeping going on about your life in your 20's .....I didn't want children in my 20's either but your life changes and so do your priorities
I don't bang on about how wonderful my life was before I had kids but it took the death of my father and 2 miscarriages to realise what was important in my life
Ashley is such a selfish self centred narcissistic twit, no wonder she was single for so long and has no mum friends
.....and no you're not maternal Ashley
 
For someone who claims not to care what 'trolls' think, she spends an awful lot of time trying to justify her parenting. She's such a boring drip. I think being stuck in a hotel with her, having to play a card game for 7 year olds on a daily basis, and listening to her ranting into her phone about the same old tit is my idea of hell. I almost feel sorry for No Balls.
 
She doesn't know the meaning of the word maternal. If she was maternal, she would care much more about varying his diet, limiting his screen time, encouraging his development (letting him feed himself etc.), plus putting him in shoes that fit so he is comfortable and his feet can develop healthily. She also wouldn't be palming a 1-year-old off to strangers if she was in any way maternal. The list goes on. She is so unbelievably deluded!
 
littlepup said:
who doesn’t check their child in the night, on a different floor to them, when their upset all night!?
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*they’re 🤦🏼‍♀️

I actually think Ashley, like Kate, may have PND of some description.
The way she will do anything to avoid spending time with Alf alone, they way she clings to other relationships and constantly goes back to her ‘old life’ with rose tinted glasses, blames Alf for any negativity in her life (being a Mum has affected work and relationships, not her own failings), being negative about the world at large (then saying everyone else is bitter and lacking for criticising her), putting so much energy and importance into minor things for distraction and needing time away from Alf to then concentrate on these ‘important’ things….
Either that or I’m trying too hard to find a reason for her to be so detached from Alf when actually she just resents him because she’s an hole
 
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