Ashley James #9 All About Ashley

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I pray to the fertility gods that her next kid {cos we know there will be one, sadly} is an absolute demon child. She has it SO GOOD with Alf: he’s a dream, it looks like. Placid, easygoing, an absolute sweetie. And yet she never stops implying that he’s the biggest hindrance to her life.
 
GiftedNotFree said:
I pray to the fertility gods that her next kid {cos we know there will be one, sadly} is an absolute demon child. She has it SO GOOD with Alf: he’s a dream, it looks like. Placid, easygoing, an absolute sweetie. And yet she never stops implying that he’s the biggest hindrance to her life.
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Agreed, she keeps referencing meltdowns and I really don’t think she knows the definition of the word 😂
 
Babies, toddlers and infants are a breeze I think compared to when they approach pre teen/teen it opens up a whole new load of issues and makes you question everything you knew about parenting and life in general. Just wait til Alf is old enough to recognise and call her out for being a dick.
 
18 months onwards was the hardest for me with all 3 of mine. People say ‘ooo terrible 2’s early?’ No, crappy behaviour doesn’t happen at the stroke of midnight on their 2nd birthday ffs. I think 3 might’ve been even harder 😂 Either way, she’s got a whole tit show coming her way dealing with a child who has attachment issues and absent parents. Why should he do a single word they say? Good luck 😂🥲

potatoface431 said:
Babies, toddlers and infants are a breeze I think compared to when they approach pre teen/teen it opens up a whole new load of issues and makes you question everything you knew about parenting and life in general. Just wait til Alf is old enough to recognise and call her out for being a dick.
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I wouldn’t say toddlers are a breeze 😂 But I would say every age and step of parenting is a challenge. There’s no easy part sadly, like Ashley thinks there is 😂 Hardest job in the world.
 
Excuse how this may come across but if Ashley was ‘a bit common’ and lived in a council flat and was on benefits and left her child for 4 days for no reason, called him names, showed how she was barely with him all week, again for little to no reason, I believe she would be crucified. She gets away with it because she’s got a posh voice, money and is aesthetically pleasing. It’s reminiscent of the McCann saga, there’s definitely a debate to be had whether they’d have been treated by the media differently if they were ‘a bit common’ and not doctors, and had left their child.

Ps: I don’t think there’s anything wrong with h if a council flat/receiving benefits etc but society definitely reacts differently based On things like this! But imagine if this was Ashley’s situation and she didn’t have privilege on her side.
 
Oh no not a breeze at all, but compared to a gobby pre teen who is a carbon copy of yourself 😅😅 all of parenting is challenging is different ways. I’d say my toddler is physically draining because I have to chase him around everywhere but my eldest is emotionally and mentally draining and makes me question my entire existence 😂
 
potatoface431 said:
Babies, toddlers and infants are a breeze I think compared to when they approach pre teen/teen it opens up a whole new load of issues and makes you question everything you knew about parenting and life in general. Just wait til Alf is old enough to recognise and call her out for being a dick.
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Yes, my eldest is about to turn 15 (11 year age gap so a 3 year and and 14 year old 😩) and my god teenagers are fun 🤪

potatoface431 said:
Oh no not a breeze at all, but compared to a gobby pre teen who is a carbon copy of yourself 😅😅 all of parenting is challenging is different ways. I’d say my toddler is physically draining because I have to chase him around everywhere but my eldest is emotionally and mentally draining and makes me question my entire existence 😂
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There’s no doubting whether a teenager loves (or even tolerates) you, is there??
 
potatoface431 said:
Babies, toddlers and infants are a breeze I think compared to when they approach pre teen/teen it opens up a whole new load of issues and makes you question everything you knew about parenting and life in general. Just wait til Alf is old enough to recognise and call her out for being a dick.
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My two have just turned 2 and 4 and I wa saying to my husband last night that although it’s full on and tough going that these are the best of days as at least we know where they are at all times and don’t have peer pressure, social media, body issues etc etc. I’m dreading them growing up and me letting them down as a parent as I don’t have all the answers and things can’t be made better with magic kissed and cuddles.
 
ketchupmayo17 said:
Excuse how this may come across but if Ashley was ‘a bit common’ and lived in a council flat and was on benefits and left her child for 4 days for no reason, called him names, showed how she was barely with him all week, again for little to no reason, I believe she would be crucified. She gets away with it because she’s got a posh voice, money and is aesthetically pleasing. It’s reminiscent of the McCann saga, there’s definitely a debate to be had whether they’d have been treated by the media differently if they were ‘a bit common’ and not doctors, and had left their child.

Ps: I don’t think there’s anything wrong with h if a council flat/receiving benefits etc but society definitely reacts differently based On things like this! But imagine if this was Ashley’s situation and she didn’t have privilege on her side.
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So true, she’s got the pretty privilege (they’re talking about this on the Lydia Elise Millen thread)
 
Guys come on, she’s past the sacrifice’ year now. Ash thinks she doesn’t need to sacrifice her life for Alf anymore now, that’s it, she can carry on doing her own thing and let someone anyone else parent her child because you know, she devoted 12 months for feeding him with her massive tits and that’s all the devotion a child needs in their life!
duck me she’s as thick as pig tit if she seriously believes the ‘hard’ part is over. Sorry to break it to you darling but parenting never stops, or at least it’s not supposed to
Plus, she’s just far too boney to be a mum now!
 
Wildflower18 said:
Four nights away from her son for one 11am-5pm DJ set in Reading (1hr45min train from where she lives) is a joke.
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Exactly - to any normal working parent, that’s a typical day including commute.

We leave at 8 to do the nursery drop off, get to work for 8.30, work till 5 then pick him up at 5.30. Quick dinner, bath and bed, while the other parent tidies up & we collapse in front of the sofa for 8pm.

She could easily have got home for 7pm and still done bedtime. She just doesn’t want to, and has absolutely checked out of parenting.
 
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Is this altered or just a funny angle? Even Alf looks longer?
 
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