Ashley James #56 fighting for justice one afflink at a time

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Landing light on, door ajar, no white noise machine. If he wakes up and is scared, he walks through to her room and gets in with her. Keep it simple, no big dramas and he will grow out of it. The more a big deal she makes of it, the more distressed he will be.
This. I don’t understand why he can’t get in her giant bed. We all know she sleeps alone and has ample room for him!
 
Landing light on, door ajar, no white noise machine. If he wakes up and is scared, he walks through to her room and gets in with her. Keep it simple, no big dramas and he will grow out of it. The more a big deal she makes of it, the more distressed he will be.

Don’t. My little one almost the same age as Alfie went though a spell (about a 2/3 month spell) of having night terrors- he’d wake up screaming about an hour after going to sleep and then would come find us on the sofa and cuddle up with us and go back to sleep. Yes it was awful but we just followed his lead and he’s finally (I hope) come out of this. He also has a bed on my bedroom floor (I feel awful about it) but he sneaks into our room and would go back to sleep. It’s a funny age and they go through these weird phases unfortunately ash. Just listen to what his needs are and go with the flow.
 
Don’t. My little one almost the same age as Alfie went though a spell (about a 2/3 month spell) of having night terrors- he’d wake up screaming about an hour after going to sleep and then would come find us on the sofa and cuddle up with us and go back to sleep. Yes it was awful but we just followed his lead and he’s finally (I hope) come out of this. He also has a bed on my bedroom floor (I feel awful about it) but he sneaks into our room and would go back to sleep. It’s a funny age and they go through these weird phases unfortunately ash. Just listen to what his needs are and go with the flow.
If it weren’t for the new baby mine same age would still be co- sleeping I suspect, they will given half the chance but it doesn’t bother me. We don’t ask adults to sleep alone, without a tv or not get up in the night for a wee or drink etc but expect kids to go 12 hours alone in the dark. For someone with so many opinions on unrealistic societal expectations Ash sure has a hard time with her/her kids sleep being disrupted.
I’d find it less odd from her had she not have co-slept when they were small.
It was obviously for her comfort of being able to doze while breast feeding because as soon as they were off the boob they were out of her bed never to return.
 
Ashley: Trolls knew where I lived and I had death threats. Now I have my house blurred on street view.

Also Ashley: Do you think they can see my house from space yet?

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Alf is scared of the dark but he’s in complete pitch blackness with a deafening white noise machine blasting away. Why the duck don’t they turn the noise down a bit and get him a gentle night light for starters? Also love that Alf is calling for Daddy.

As you’ve all said, who in their right mind gets their phone out at 4am and records their child crying out for content? She’s sick
 
Ashley: Trolls knew where I lived and I had death threats. Now I have my house blurred on street view.

Also Ashley: Do you think they can see my house from space yet?

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There’s such a distinctive influencer style, you can spot it a mile off. You can tell that’s an influencer house just by walking past. The tree with the big ugly flowers all over it too, they clearly all use the same ‘stylist’. Millie mackintosh’s tree always looks like this.
 
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